Ngolunye ulwazi olutholakale lapha ngesihloko se-autism, ubungacabanga ukuthi abantu bazoba nomqondo omuhle wokuthi yi-autism ... futhi akunjalo. Kodwa-ke, akunjalo. Eqinisweni, "ukuqwashisa kwe-autism" kubonakala sengathi kuye kwaqeda ukuqhuma kwenhloso enhle kodwa hhayi imibuzo ekhungathekile kakhulu mayelana ne-autism. Uma ungazange ungene kunoma yikuphi kwalokhu okwamanje, kungenzeka ukuthi uzokwenza - isikhathi esithile maduze kakhulu!
- O, ingane yakho ine-autism - kufanele ihlakaniphe ngempela, akunjalo? Kunabantu abambalwa abaqhakambisa kakhulu, abakhulumela abakwa-autism, futhi yebo ngempela - labo bantu bahlakaniphile ngempela. Kodwa iqiniso lokuthi amaphesenti amakhulu abantu abane-autism empeleni bayinselele ngokwengqondo. Nakuba kuhle ukwazi ukuthi abantu abaningi banombono omuhle nge-autism, kuphazamiseka ukuthi kufanele ubhekane nokucabanga okungalungile.
- Ingabe ingane yami ingabamba i-autism kumntanakho? I-Autism ivame ukuboniswa njengesifo, futhi abantu abaningi bahlobanisa isifo sengqondo ngezifo ezithathelwanayo ezifana nomkhuhlane ... izinkukhu pox ... kanye ne-ebola. Cha, i- autism ayithelelanga , futhi cha, akukho muntu womuntu ozoyibamba "ngenxa yokuthi ubekwe esimweni esihlangene nomuntu obala.
- Ngakho ... uma i-autistic yengane yakho, ingabe uzokwazi ukuya ekolishi bese ihlala yedwa? Lo mbuzo obaluleke kakhulu kodwa othandwa kakhulu kubonakala sengathi ucabanga ukuthi abazali bezingane abane-autism bangabantu abahamba ngesikhashana ngasese. Iningi labantu abane-autism baya ekolishi, futhi abambalwa kakhulu bahlala bodwa. Futhi abaningi abakwenzi. Yilokho-ke, icala ngabantu abangenayo i-autism, kodwa akekho owake wababuza abazali abaneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala ukuthi ngabe ingane yabo izobe ifunda ekolishi iminyaka engu-12 kanjalo!
- Ingabe izingane ezine-autism zifana noMnu. Spock? Ngenxa yezizathu ezingaqondakali kahle, abantu abaningi bahlobanisa i-autism ngokungenawo umqondo ongapheliyo nokungakwazi (noma ukungathandi) ukuveza imizwelo. Lo mbono awusuki ngokuphelele odongeni. Abantu abane-autism bavame ukucabanga ngendlela efanele futhi bayabusa ekucabangeni kwabo, futhi, kuyilapho abantu abane-autism bevame ukucindezeleka ngokweqile, bangabonisa imizwa yabo ngezindlela ezingavamile. Konke okwakushoyo, noma kunjalo, kubonakala sengathi kuyinto encane kakhulu ukuqhathanisa ingane ne-autism kuya kwelinye ilanga elimnyama elikhuni, eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kusuka kwenye iplanethi ...
- Iyiphi ikhono elikhethekile lomntwana we-autistic? Ithelevishini, ama-movie, amabhuku, nomagazini bathanda izindaba mayelana nama-"savants" ase-autistic - ngabanye ngamakhono amangalisayo ezindaweni ezithile ezithakazelisayo. Futhi kuyiqiniso: kukhona abantu abangavamile embukisweni abanobuchule obuningi emasimini avela ebucikweni obubukwayo kuya kubhala ngekhanda ukuya ngekhanda ngezibalo. Kungase kudingeke, Nokho, ukuchaza ukuthi bambalwa abantu abane-autism cishe abazokwazi ukuphindaphinda ezindaweni eziyizinkulungwane ezintathu nokuthi lokho kungenzeka.
- Ingabe kunzima ukuba nengane enezidingo ezikhethekile? Lo mbuzo, ngokuvamile oceliwe ngabantu abanenhloso enhle futhi enozwela, kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuphendula, uthi "cha," futhi uthi, empeleni, "ngiyathanda, ngithanda ukuthi ingane yami inezinselelo ezinkulu ezithintekayo amathuba nekusasa lakhe. " Yisho "yebo," futhi uyakhononda ngomsane omthandayo kumfokazi ongazihlobo - into ethile iningi lethu lingathanda ukuyigwema. Yiqiniso, impendulo cishe ihlale ibe "yebo no-cha, kuye ngokuthi izici eziyizinkulungwane ezishintsha sonke isikhathi." Lokho, indlela, impendulo efanayo abazali abaningi abangayinikeza lapho bephendula umbuzo othi "kunzima yini ukukhulisa izingane?"
- Ingabe ingane yakho nge-autism izokwazi ukuthandana futhi ishade? Khuluma ngombuzo ongenakwenzeka ukuphendula! Akekho ongayiphendula lowo mbuzo ngokwabo, akeke wamukele omunye umuntu - kodwa lokho akuvimbeli abantu ukuba bangazibuza. Impendulo kuphela ewusizo ngempela engizitholile kumbuzo onjalo ... "Yebo, ngiyazi abantu abane-autism banamandla kakhulu othando."