Amazwi akhuthazayo kanye nezingcaphuno zokufunda emva kokufa kosana
Ukulahlekelwa usana kungakusiza ukulahlekelwa ngamazwi. Kodwa ungase ubizwa ngokuthi uhanjiswe noma ufune ukuthola amagama afanele ekhadini le-condolence emndenini wengane. Ufuna ukuwasekela ekusizini kwabo futhi kungenzeka ukuthi udinga ukusebenzisana nemizwa yakho ngokulahlekelwa.
Lezi zicaphuno kanye namazwi kungaba ukugqugquzela lokho okumele kufakwe encwadini kumndeni noma ukusetshenziswa enkonzweni yesikhumbuzo.
Nicholas Evans
"Lalela umkhondo wami enhliziyweni yakho.
Angihambanga kodwa ngihamba ngawe nje. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Asengakakhohlwa,
nakuba sihlukile,
umoya wakho uhlala ngaphakathi kwami,
kuze kube phakade enhliziyweni yami. "
UStephanie Paige Cole
"Ngikuphethe njalo ngemva kokubili kokuphila kwakho."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ukuphila kungapheli okwesikhashana, kodwa inkumbulo ingenza lowo mzuzu uhlale phakade."
RJ Gonzales
"Imbali ivele ibhidliza. Ukuqala impilo yayo ngokuphela kwesikhathi."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Mhlawumbe azizona izinkanyezi, kodwa kunalokho ukuvuleka ezulwini lapho uthando lwalabo abalahlekile lukhanya khona ukuze lisitshele ukuthi banathi."
UDkt Seuss (uTheodor Seuss Geisel)
"Umuntu womuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuncane kangakanani."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Izinkumbulo ezinhle zigcinwa ngomsana esiyithandayo futhi ngeke neze zikhohlwe."
AA Milne
"Ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezincane kakhulu zithatha ikamelo elikhulu enhliziyweni yakho."
UDorothy Ferguson
"Yeka ukuthi uhlehlise kangakanani ezweni lethu, cishe ngokuthula, uhlale umzuzwana nje.
Kodwa lokho okushiwo yizinyathelo zakho ezishiye ezinhliziyweni zethu. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ayikho inyawo encane kangangokuthi ayikwazi ukushiya umshicileli kuleli zwe."
U-Edna St. Vincent Millay
"Lapho uke waba khona, kunomgodi emhlabeni, engikutholayo ngihamba njalo emini, futhi ngiwela ebusuku.
Ngikukhumbula njengesihogo. "
U-Ernest Hemingway
"Ngangingafuni ukukuangazelela, lokho kwakuyinkinga; ngangifuna ukukuangaza ebusuku futhi kukhona umehluko omkhulu."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Angel Angel, ungangitshela ukuthi kungani uhambe? Awukho lapha isikhathi eside ... kungani ungenakuhlala?"
Ingelosi encane yanyakazela ikhanda layo: "Lezi zinto angazi ... Kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi uyathanda, nokuthi ngiyakuthanda kanjalo."
UJean Kerr
"Ithemba lomuzwa wokuthi umuzwa onayo awunaphakade."
Christine O'Keeffe Lafser
"Abanye abantu bathi kuyinto ehlazo, abanye bathi bangcono uma umntwana engakaze adalwe kodwa isikhathi esifushane enginaso nengane yami siyigugu kimi. 'ngiyifisa.'
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Isikhathi sesikhathi somhlaba sibheka kakhulu: umuntu angaphila ekuhaha nokuziqhenya iminyaka engu-90 futhi angalokothi athole uNkulunkulu, amazi noma afeze icebo Lakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umntwana obelethayo ufundisa abantu ukuba bathande, ulethe abantu iNkosi, isifundisa isimo esibucayi bokuphila futhi isifundisa ukholo ukuthi labo abangazange balahleke bangakwazi. "
e cummings
"ngithwala inhliziyo yakho nami (ngiyithwala enhliziyweni yami)
Angikaze ngibe khona (noma kuphi lapho ngikuhamba khona, othandekayo wami;
futhi noma yini eyenziwa yimi kuphela okwenzayo, othandekayo wami)
UHelen Keller
"Lokho esikujabulele futhi esikuthandayo kakhulu ngeke siphumelele, ngoba konke esikuthanda ngokujulile kuba yingxenye yethu."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Uma izinyembezi zingakha izitebhisi nezinkumbulo emgwaqweni, ngizohamba ngize ngiye ezulwini futhi ngizokubuyisela ekhaya."
Barbara Kingsolver
"Ukukhulelwa kwesisu kuyinto engokwemvelo futhi evamile. Konke okushiwo, cishe abesifazane abaningi baye balahlekelwa yingane kuleli zwe kunokuba bengenalo. Abaningi abakushoyo, futhi bayaqhubeka usuku nosuku njengokungathi akuzange kwenzeke , ngakho-ke abantu bacabanga ukuthi owesifazane osesimweni akazange azi noma amthande lokho ayenakho. Kodwa umcele ngesikhathi esithile: ingane yakho ingakanani iminyaka manje?
Futhi uzokwazi. "
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Abanye bathi ubuhlungu kakhulu ukukhumbula. Ngithi uyigugu kakhulu ukukhohlwa!
Charlotte Brontë
"Kukhona, ngiyaqiniseka, akukho sithombe esithumela kuzo zonke izinto ezesabekayo, umbono wokudabuka, ukuphelelwa ithemba, ukuphelelwa yisikhathi, ukuphefumula. Uma ngabe ngingapenda isithombe esinjalo, lo mdwebo ubonisa kuphela owesifazane obuka phansi ezandleni zakhe ezingenalutho. "
John DeFrain
"Ukushona kwengane kunjengetshe eliphonsa ekuthunjweni kwechibi elithulile; ukuqhuma okugxile kokuphelelwa yithemba kuhlasela kuzo zonke izindlela, kuthinta abantu abaningi, abaningi."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Ngicabanga ukuthi sizoba nesikhathi esengeziwe."
CS Lewis
"Ukungabikho kwakhe kufana nesibhakabhaka, kusakaze konke."
Umbhali ongaziwa
"Uma uthando lungakulondoloza, ngabe uphila phakade."
AA Milne
"Uma kufike usuku lapho singeke sibe ndawonye, ngigcine enhliziyweni yakho. Ngizohlala lapho kuze kube phakade."
Izwi elivela
Ukulahlekelwa usana kungabangela ubuhlungu futhi buhlungu. Wena nomndeni uzohamba ngezigaba eziningana zesimiso . Ungathola ukuthi iqembu lokusekela usizi lingakusiza wena nomndeni. Usizi lungaba usizi oluyinkimbinkimbi futhi ungadinga usizo olwengeziwe ukuze ukwazi ukudlulisa usizi futhi usebenze ezindabeni ezingaphendululwa.