Kusobala, kusabisa ukulahlekelwa amehlo akho. Ishintsha konke. Ngiphinde ngilapho, ngibhekene nethemba elifanayo eminyakeni yami yobusha.
Lokho engikwaziyo manje futhi ngiyabelane lapha, kukhona amasu anamandla okusiza abantu bagxile ekuhleleni indlela yokufinyelela imigomo yabo ngisho nokukhubazeka okubukwayo.
Esinye sezici ezithakazelisayo kunazo zonke zokungaboni kahle ukuthi ungaboni 'ukuthi ungaboni' kanjani ukuthi ungubani lelo bhekoni elimangalisayo elingakhonsa imiphumela yakho oyifunayo ekuphileni.
Akukhathaleki ukuthi yini ebangele ukulahlekelwa kwakho kokubona ; yindlela ohamba ngayo emuva ngqo ku-radar lapho ufuna khona lokho okubalulekile.
Okokuqala, phawula ukuthi singasebenzisa kanjani amagama noma umbono. Kwabaningi bethu, la magama amabili azwakala okufanayo.
Kodwa, uma senza ngamabomu ukuhlukaniswa kwengqondo okubonakalayo okubhekisela ekugumbeni kwethu, futhi igama elithi 'umbono' lingabhekisela ekubonweni okucacile kwangaphakathi komgomo wekusasa, umkhankaso, noma ukususa ukucabanga okusinika ukuzethemba ukubona okuthile okusebenza empilweni yethu - khona-ke lokhu kuyindlela ehluke kakhulu lapho 'umbono' uba yisimiso sethu esingenangqondo sokubuyela emuva ku-radar yokuphila.
Unakho okuthiwa 'ukukhubazeka' njengento yangempela kodwa lokhu akukwenzi ukuthi imicabango yakho nomqondo wakho kukhutshazwe - ngaphandle uma ungenalo umbono futhi unganaki ulwazi olusizo!
Isu 1: Yisho iYebo kokungaqiniseki
Isibindi sikhula phakathi kwethu sonke njengoba sithi yebo ematheni anzima kakhulu.
Ukuba nesibindi sokufinyelela ezintweni ofuna ukuzifeza empilweni yakho akusho ukuthi ulinde isikhathi 'sokunene' uma ukwesaba kukushiya wedwa, kusho ukuthatha ukwesaba okukhathazayo nawe futhi ukwenze noma kunjalo.
Ukuzimisela ukuphinda uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphumelele impilo yakho.
Isu sesibili: Fakela kuze kube yilapho usenza
Lena indlela enamandla kakhulu yokuqeqesha imicabango yakho nezenzo zakho njengomqeqeshi wakho wokuphila . Ngokuvamile singakwazi ukuyeka inqubekelaphambili yethu ngenxa yokuzikhulumela okungalungile.
Kumele uqinisekise ukugxeka kwakho kunzima kakhulu, ngokwakho manje njengoba amehlo ebonakala ngaphambi kokuba uthole abanye ukuthi babone amandla akho okugcwele futhi. Ngombono wangaphakathi, setha izinto zakho.
Zama lokhu: uzethule kumuntu omusha ofuna ukuxhumana naye. Kungase kube ukufaka umqondo phakathi kwe-inthanethi noma isicelo esisha somsebenzi.
Hlala phambili kodwa uhloniphe, uthakazelisa futhi udala. Into esemqoka ukuzibeka e-radar yabo ngaphandle kokuba yi-pushy. Ufuna nje ukukhanyisa ukuthi ukhona futhi uvumele ukuba bona ukuthi ukhona.
Isu sesi-3: Gcina umbono wakho usule
Bona ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani inselele yokuphila kwakho ukubeka phambili nangaphakathi kwezifiso zakho. Uma usuqhaqhazela ngesibindi endaweni engaziwa sengathi kufana nokubeka umyalo nenkampani ongakaze uyenze nayo ngaphambili.
Ubabiza njalo ngemizuzu emihlanu ukuhlola ukuthi bathole umlayezo wakho? Cha, uma nje uthumele isignali esicacile, uthemba futhi ulindele: umbono wakho uhlala ucacile.
Isu sesi-4: Asikho isidingo sokulandelela intuthuko yakho
Ngesibindi uzibeke e-radar yomuntu - manje ulinde nje.
Isikhathi yisikhathi. Qhubeka nokuphila futhi ungafaki ukukhathazeka. Into ebalulekile osuyifinyelele kakade ukubhekana nokukhathazeka kwakho futhi uthathe udumo kulowo mgomo.
Isibonakaliso osithumele sizobamba ukunakekelwa noma siphume esikrinini sabo. Isikhathi ne-providence izothatha isinqumo - noma zingase zikuthumelele nakwezinye iziqondiso eziwusizo.
Isu sesi-5: Ukusetha kabusha umbono wakho
Uma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, awutholi impendulo owawuhlosile, akusiyo uphawu lokuhluleka komuntu siqu. Isikhathi sokusetha kabusha umbono wakho.
Ekuqaleni, uyozizwa udidekile kodwa, uma unakho, ungakubheka njengemigomo yakho.
Njengokulungisa ukudayela kumsakazo wakho, inhloso yakho ukuhlala engxenyeni yobude bokuphila futhi ungavumeli ukudumazeka kuvimbele umbono wakho.
Ngesikhathi esilandelayo ucabanga ukuthi ulahlekelwe yithuba, liphendule ibe yindlela yakho yakamuva yokuziqhenya ngokwenza ukuthuthukiswa okungaphezulu uma ulungisa ukuba 'endaweni efanele' ngesikhathi esifanele.
Ngempela kuyindaba yokuzama futhi, ukuphikelela nokukwazi ukuthi, maduzane noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuzomele uzibeke ku-radar kulabo abazokubona uvela ngaphandle kwebala elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka, futhi uzozibuza ukuthi kungani emhlabeni babengenayo ' Ngikuqaphele ngaphambili.