Ugogo nomkhulu bangase bafune ukuxhumana nabazukulu babo be-autistic, kodwa kaningi abaqiniseki ngalokho okufanele bakwenze, ukuthi bayothini, noma bangafinyelela kanjani. Ngenhlanhla, ungasiza. Nawa amanye amathiphu alula angakusiza wena, abazali bakho, nengane yakho ukwakha ubudlelwane obusha kanye namakhono amasha.
Ukwakha Isibambiso Nomzukulu Omkhulu we-Autistic
- Ukunikela Ulwazi Oluthile (Kodwa Okungeyona Eningi). Abanye ogogo nomkhulu bayazifakazela ngolwazi mayelana ne-autism. Okunye okuningi, noma kunjalo, uthole ulwazi lwabo kusukela ezindabeni zakamuva ezibonisa. Uma abazali bakho bephakathi kweqembu lesibili, bahlinzeke ngolwazi olulula, oluyisisekelo ngalokho okushiwo yi-autism futhi akunjalo .
- Ukudambisa Ukwesaba Kwabo. Ngenxa yezizathu ezingacacile, abantu abadala asebekhulile bayesaba ukuthi into abayenzayo "iyoyithukuthelisa" ingane enezidingo ezikhethekile , ngakho-ke bahlala kude. Vumela abazali bakho bazi ukuthi kuyini nokuthi yini engeke ibe yinkinga kumntanakho. Futhi bazise, nokuthi, ngisho noma ingane yakho icasukile, akusilo ukuphela kwezwe.
- Nika uNogogo Nomsebenzi Oyingqayizivele Ekuphileni Kwengane Yakho. Ingane yakho ithanda i-carousels ngokuphelele. Kuyingozi kakhulu! Londoloza i-carousel egibele uMgogo no-Grandad-okuhlangenwe nakho okukhethekile kakhulu ingane yakho nabazali bakho abangayilindela. Njengoba usuvele wazi ukuthi ingane yakho izojabula, awudingi ukukhathazeka ngoMgogo noma u-Grandad unenkathi enzima ukuthola ukumomotheka.
- Nikeza Imibono Ecacile Yokuxhuma. Ugogo usetshenziselwa izingane ezidlala ukudlala. Kodwa ingane yakho ihamba kahle phakathi kwamaski amahle kanye nezingubo ezibucayi ngoba akakwazi ukulinda ukuze abuyele ekamelweni lakhe lapho ezwa khona ephephile. Ugogo uzizwa enqatshiwe, futhi uzizwa ucindezelekile. Esikhundleni salokho, ake uMama azi ukuthi kusenesikhathi umzukulu wakhe akujabulela kakhulu. Ngaleyo ndlela, angafika ukulungele ukubukela ividiyo ethile noma ukudlala ngethoyi ethile futhi azi ukuthi umzukulu wakhe uzokujabulela lokho okuhlangenwe nakho.
- Iziphakamiso Zokusebenza ezisebenza. Ngabe udlala kanjani kanye nengane engakwazi ukuhola noma ukudlala ngezindlela ezijwayelekile noma ezilindelekile? Izimpendulo ziyahlukahluka kusukela kwengane kuya kwengane. Indlela elula yokuvumela abazali bakho ukuthi ingane yakho idlala kanjani ukuyikhombisa. Qhubeka futhi udlale nengane yakho phambi kwabazali bakho, ngakho bangabona ukuthi wenzani; ke-ke, hamba eceleni bese uwavumele bazame. Uma ingane yakho ingeke ihlukane nawe, kungase kudingeke ujoyine kudlalwa bese uhamba kancane kancane ngemuva.
- Yabelana ngamathoyizi wezingane zakho, Izinhlamvu, amavidiyo, nezingoma. Iningi lezingane ezine-autism zinzima kakhulu ekufundeni izingoma nezikripthi ngenhliziyo, futhi ziyakujabulela ukufunda, ukucula nokudansa namavidiyo . Wena-ke, uyazi izintandokazi zomntanakho ngenhliziyo-futhi abazali bakho kufanele nabo. Ngaleyo ndlela, lapho befika, ngeke bahlushwe yi-Dora i-Explorer nemephu yakhe yokukhuluma. Bangase bakwazi ngisho ukujoyina kwizingoma zakho ezizithandayo zeSesame Street!
- Phuma Endleleni. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuvinjelwa kwangempela kogogo nomkhulu kungukukhathazeka okuzungeze ukubuka okungenasici phambi kwezingane zabo. Kuthiwani uma bethi noma benza into engalungile? Kuthiwani uma umzukulu wabo engaphenduli kubo njengoba bethemba? Ingabe ingane yabo iyobahlulela? Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukukhathazeka kokusebenza kubeka umklomelo phakathi kwabazali bakho nezingane zakho, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza kuyo noma yimuphi kubo ukunyamalala kahle. Empeleni, kungani ungathathi ithuba lokuhamba nomngane wakho ntambama?