Yini esikwaziyo nge-autism nengokomoya? Incwadi kaBill Stillman, Autism kanye noNkulunkulu Connection, ikakhulukazi iqoqo lama-anecdotes evela kubazali abazwa ukuthi izingane zabo ezine-autism zinokuxhumana okukhethekile nezwe elingokomoya. Le ncwadi ithole ukubuyekezwa okuhle kakhulu - futhi nesithakazelo esikhulu sabazali. UBill uvumelane ngomusa ukuphendula uchungechunge lwemibuzo, abanye ababuzwa nami nabanye abathunyelwe ngqo ngabafundi.
Njengelungu lomphakathi we-autism ngokwakhe (uthola ukuthi une-Asperger Syndrome), uBill uletha umbono ongavamile wengxoxo.
Umbuzo: Unquma kanjani ukuthi ngabe umcimbi obikiwe ungokomthetho, ubuqili, noma umphumela we-hallucination noma enye inkinga yezempilo?
Impendulo: Ekuqapheliseni iqiniso lokho okushiwo, ngisebenzisa izindlela ezimbalwa. Okokuqala, ingabe kukhona i-ring of truth kulokho okubikayo umuntu? Ngamanye amazwi, ayihlanzi nami ukuthi umuntu obikayo uzoba nesiraphu ngokuphelele futhi adumise isipiliyoni se-autistic njenge "zingelosi zikaNkulunkulu ezincane" ngoba lokho akuyona impilo yangempela; futhi ngicabanga ukuthi kungaba yindlela enzima kakhulu yokuphila komuntu ngamunye kumbono kanye nabazali bakhe, abanakekeli nabafundisi bakhe. Lokho akusho ukuthi izipho ezingokomoya azikwazi ukubonakalisa, kodwa uma kwenzeka phakathi kokulingwa nsuku zonke kanye nokusebenza kokufunda nokuphila ngokuhlanganyela.
Futhi, okwesibini, lokho okushiwo ngumuntu ukuthi "kufanele" ngaphakathi kwezingqikithi ezisevele zivele emsebenzini wami, noma okuhambisana nokucwaninga kwabanye abalobi abangokomoya?
Ukuba engqondweni yengqondo yengqondo yengqondo cishe iminyaka engamashumi amabili, ngiyazi ngokwanele mayelana nokusebenza kwangaphakathi kokugula kwengqondo ukubona "amafulegi abomvu" noma izimpawu zokubonga kulokho umuntu ongitshela khona; lapho ukucwaninga kwami kukhathazekile khona, lokhu kwenzeke ngokungajwayelekile kakhulu, izimo ezimbalwa.
Ngokuvamile, abantu bazizwa bekhululekile ngokwazi ukuthi abaphambene naso, hhayi bodwa ekuhlangenwe nakho, futhi bathole umuntu owaziyo.
Umbuzo: Ukhona yini ucwaningo olusekela umqondo wokuthi abantu abangenamakhono okukhuluma bangase bazibandakanye kakhulu nezinye izinhlobo zokufaka?
Impendulo: Kuphela ucwaningo lwami, kodwa, kimi, lwenza umqondo ophelele. Lo mqondo ophelele wokuthi "uxhumano lukaNkulunkulu" usalokhu lukhulu kakhulu, olusha kakhulu, futhi njengoba abafundi bakho bebazi kahle, abantu abanokukhubazeka kwentuthuko kubandakanya i-autism, baye bahlukunyezwa ngokomlando, bahlaziywa, bahlaziywa futhi bahlukunyezwa. Njengesiko saseNtshonalanga, asikho "lapho" okwamanje ngokwemibono yethu yokuthi abantu abanjalo banenani "ebuhleni" babo, futhi bangase babambe ukuqonda okujulile, ukuhlakanipha, kanye nobuphiko; nakuba isiko lamaNative American livumelana nalo mqondo.
Kuye, ekhona ngokuthula, njengezinombolo ze-autistics, akuyona into ehlukile kunomuntu ophakeme wenkolo owenza isifungo sokuthula-kungaba yini? Ngakho kunezinga eliphindwe kabili kulokho nalokho esikubalulekayo: abantu abazindla, bathandaza, basebenzise i-yoga bafuna ukufinyelela epulazini elifanayo elingokomoya ukuthi ezinye izinto zifinyelele ngokwemvelo ngokuhlala zithule, zigxile ekuqhumeni okuphindaphindiwe noma ngokumemezela okuqhubekayo (i-mantra) , nokubona konke okubonwayo nokungabonakali.
Futhi kukhona ucwaningo lwesayense lokusekela lokhu, njengoba ngibhala ku-Autism noNkulunkulu Connection.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, siyazi ukuthi izinzwa eziningi zokuzizwa nge-autistics zingaba nzima futhi zibuhlungu kakhulu ukukhuthazela; kodwa lokhu kungase futhi kubolekele ikhono lokuqonda eliningi ngendlela umuntu oyimpumputhe ayenayo ngayo izinzwa ezibukhali, ezibukhali. Ubuphiko obungokomoya buhlobene nendlela esithola ngayo ulwazi ngezinga eliphakeme, lemvamisa elihambisana nomqondo wethu; akuwona wonke okufakwayo okushoyo futhi okucacile kithi. Ngokuvamile ukukhulumisana okungokomfanekiso kudinga ukucacisa okuthile, njengendoda ye-autistic eyadlala ngeloli elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka; abanye bacabanga ukuthi kwakungenxa yokungaziboneli-ukuthi wayeyi-autistic, wayilinda, futhi eyisimungulu.
Kodwa ngokucacisa ama-hieroglyphics ekukhulumisaneni, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi lo muntu uhlakaniphile, ngathola ukuthi wayesondelene nobaba wakhe osefile futhi wachitha izikhathi eziningi ezijabulisayo egibele nobaba eloli lakhe-iloli elifana nebheyi lomuntu. Njengoba le ndoda yayingenakho ezinye izikhumbuzo ezibonakalayo zikayise (njengezithombe noma izakhiwo zomuntu siqu), ngokucacile iloli yokudlala laliyisizathu sokubangela ingqondo ebonakalayo-ama-movie walezo zinsuku ezijabulisayo.
Umbuzo: Ucabanga ukuthi kukhona "imibono" ekhona, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukwelashwa noma ukuqonda kangcono, okungase kuvele ocwaningweni lwakho?Impendulo: Ngokuqinisekile, futhi okuqala futhi okuyinhloko yilo mqondo: "cabanga ukuhlakanipha." Ngiye ngaba nabangane abaningi be-autistic eminyakeni edlule, abangaphandle, abakwazi ukukhubazeka kakhulu ngoba bengakhulumi, banezinyawo ezingathembeki, futhi zibhalwe phansi "Ukuphelelwa yisikhathi kwengqondo." Nokho, futhi, kunesilinganiso esiphindwe kabili ngoba ngokuvamile sibheka ukuqonda kwabantu abanikeza ngezindlela ezifanayo, njengalabo abane-Cerebral Palsy, i-ALS noma isifo sikaLou Gehrig, i-Parkinson, i-Tourette, i-Hodgkin's, futhi njalo njalo.
Abanye abangane bami basebenzise izindlela zokukhuluma ukuze baxoxe, futhi baye babonisa ukuhlakanipha okujulile okugcwele ububele nombono ongaphezu kokubheka njengokujwayelekile ngenxa yokuhlupheka (ukukhona abanye abaye baxoxisana nabo). Inselelo yethu njengabazali, abanakekeli, kanye nabafundisi ukuhlukumeza izinkolelo-mbono kanye nezinkolelo ukuze kuqhutshwe izikhala ekuqondeni. Sinezinto eziningi okumelwe sizifundele komunye nomunye.
Isiqephu sesibili, esakha kusukela kwisisekelo esiyisisekelo "sithatha ingqondo", yizinyathelo ezintathu (noma "izimangaliso njengoba ngizibhekisela kuzo ku-Autism noNkulunkulu Connection) ukwenza lokho okungabangela ukuguqulwa kweshintsho. Lezi zinyathelo ezintathu zibeka ithoni yokuhlonipha nokuhlonipha, futhi zisishukumisele ukuba sibe ama-agent wezinguquko ekusebenzisaneni kwethu nomuntu we-autistic kanye nabanye abazungezile.
Umbuzo: Ucabanga ukuthi ezinye ezithakazelisayo encwadini yakho kanye nemibono yakho zingase zivele ezidingweni zabazali ukuthola amathalenta akhethekile ezinganeni ezibonakala zinamakhono ambalwa okukhethekile?
Impendulo: Ake sivume ukuthi abazali bomuntu abane-autism bangaba nokuphila okunzima kakhulu. Akekho oye wangithintana naye ocele noma yini enye ngaphandle kwesethulo sokuzwa, ngakho-ke akukho nzuzo yomuntu siqu ehilelekile. Futhi angikuhlolisise noma yini engaziwayo kakade emindenini eminingi; Ngivele ngikukhanyise, ngifake isici se-autism ekukhanyeni ngaphambili "esivaliwe." Ngakho-ke angizange "ngidale" lokhu konke "ukuhamba kwe-autism nokuxhuma kukaNkulunkulu", kwase kusekhona kakade, kuvela ngokuthula kodwa ngokuqinisekile.
Zonke izingane ziyigugu futhi, njengabantu, sonke sibabusiswe ngezipho namathalenta kungakhathaliseki ukuthi singobani.
Umbuzo: Ingabe kukhona okucwaningweni owenzile okuphakamisa ukuthi abantu be-autistic banokuhlangenwe nakho okungokomoya noma okwehlukile kunezinye abantu?Impendulo: Ngikholwa ukuthi sonke sinamandla okuthinta isipho sethu esingokomoya lapho bonke abantu babusisiwe khona; futhi into ehle mayelana nokuba ngumuntu yiyo ezobukeka ngokuhlukile kuwo wonke umuntu, ngoba sonke singabantu abahlukile.
Inkathazo abantu abaningi abanesifo sezinzwa "bavinjelwe" ekuboneni lesi sici sabo ngokwabo ngoba bajatshelwe ekucindezelekeni kokuphila kwansuku zonke; noma, ngokubi nakakhulu, bazithokozela, bahahayo, balamandla-abalambile, futhi bakhathazeke kuphela ngokuthokozisa izifiso zabo siqu. Abantu abachitha isikhathi bodwa bebheka futhi bavuselela imvelo; ukuveza ukubonga; ukuthandaza noma ukuzindla; ukwenza izenzo zokuzidela, nokuzidela futhi nsuku zonke, ngombono wami, ngiyaqonda kangcono ukuqonda ingokomoya labo-futhi lo mqondo usekelwa abanye abalobi abangokomoya nabafundisi bezenkolo.
Ngiyakholelwa nokuthi abantu abazalwa emiphilweni enzima ngokweqile, njengalabo abane-autism, bahlelwe ngaphambili ukwenza kanjalo, futhi abagcini nje ukugxila kuleli zwe ukuzibophezela ngaphandle kokuvikelwa noma isinxephezelo. Nginezingane eziningi ezithintana nami ukuba zibonise ukuthi zingabantu abangcono kunazo zonke-ukuthi zikhona ngokomoya lapho zingakaze khona-ngenxa yokubeletha ingane ene-autism.
Abanye abazali abaningi baye babika ukuthi izingane zabo zitshele ukuthi zikhethiwe ngaphambi kokuzalwa.
Umngane wami uMichael uyifaka ngokukhululekile ku-Autism kanye noNkulunkulu Connection lapho ekhuluma ngokuthi "umphefumulo wonke emzimbeni ophukile" ophikisana nayo yilokho okuphambene nalokho okujwayelekile; isinxephezelo abhekana nakho ukufinyelela okuqondile kuNkulunkulu nezimpendulo ezisheshayo emibuthanweni yakhe engathuli ukuze kube nomqondo wezwe elikhukhumezayo nendawo yakhe kulo.
UMichael uthi, ngokuvamile, kulabo "imiphefumulo ephukile emzimbeni wonke" lezi zimpendulo zenziwa zaziwe kwabanye kuphela uma zidlula.
Umbuzo: Wafika kanjani ukuchaza "autism kanye nokuxhumana kukaNkulunkulu?"
Impendulo: Ngangilokhu nginesithakazelo ezimweni nasezenzweni ezishaya indiza enengqondo noma ingqondo yesayensi-Ngangihlale ngigxile ngomqondo wokuthi abantu abanakho zonke izimpendulo. Futhi nganginelungelo lokukhula emndenini lapho izinto ezinjalo zingakhulunyelwa khona ngokukhululekile futhi ngokumangazayo, hhayi ukuxoshwa njengento engafanele.
Ngaqala ukubona ukuthi "uxhumano lukaNkulunkulu" emsebenzini wami njengomxhumanisi we-autism cishe eminyakeni eyisithupha noma eyisikhombisa edlule. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngangisebenza ezigodini ezimbalwa ezindaweni zasemaphandleni zasePennsylvania ezeluleka amaqembu amaningana ahlukahlukene awaziwa omunye komunye. Kodwa-ke, ngaqala ukugcina-futhi ngafunda mayelana-indlela eqinile engokomoya yokuba ngabantu abano-autism engangibabonisana nabo. Izingqikithi eziningi zaqala ukuvela njengokuqapha (ukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke ngempela), ukushaya ucingo (ukushintshanisa, noma ukuphonsa, imicabango kanye nezithombe nomunye), ukukhulumisana kwezilwane (ukuthungatha ukuthungatha nokuhumusha "animalpeak" kusuka ezifuywayo noma izilwane ezifuywayo), ukuhlangana nomuntu othandekayo kuMoya, ngokuvamile ugogo nomkhulu (ukugxila ngokujulile esithombeni somuntu oshonile kanye nobudlelwane obuseduze, ulwazi olungaziwa ngaphambili ngempilo yabo), ukubonakala kwemiphefumulo ehlanekezelayo ("izimpumputhe"), kanye nokuhlangana nomuntu onobuningi , izinhlangano ezingezansi, ezichazwe njengezingelosi ngabanye.
Ngiye ngaqonda ukuthi, kulabo abathintekayo, lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakuvamile kakhulu-kwemvelo, hhayi okungokwemvelo.
Njengoba ngifunda kabanzi mayelana nalezi zindawo, ngacabanga ukuthi, "Mngane wami, uma ngibona lokhu kwenzeka ezinkathini ezimbalwa zasePennsylvania, kwenzekani kulo lonke izwe?" Ngakho-ke ngiyaqaphela abanye "Bezizwa" ngendlela yokuthunyelwa kwe-intanethi namabhulogi womlayezo, futhi wayejabule kakhulu ukuba izinsolo zami ziqinisekiswe yizinqwaba nabazali nabachwepheshe abaningi abaqala ukungitshela ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Abantu abangamakhulu amamayela ahlukene-abangakaze bahlangane-bonke bangitshela ukuhluka kwezingqikithi ezifanayo.
Lezi zinto zakha isisekelo socwaningo lwami ekuqaliseni i-Autism ne-God Connection, kodwa ngingakutshela ukuthi kuyisicu nje seqhwa elikhulu kakhulu.
Ngenxa yalokho engangikufunda, futhi ngangibophekile ukuba ngithole izinguquko ezingokomoya ngokwami. Isiqalo sami sokuqala, esisebenzayo sencwadi yi-Autism kanye noClairvoyant Connection, kodwa ngokushesha ngaqaphela ukuthi kwakuhlonipha kakhulu kunalokho; ukuthi imindeni engothando engangihlangana nayo yayivame ukuzwa umqondo wemfanelo omkhulu ongokomoya noma wenkolo, futhi ngangazi ukuthi angeke kube khona isihloko ngaphandle kwe-Autism noNkulunkulu Connection.
Umbuzo: Yini oyincoma abantu ukuthi "benze" nalolu lwazi uma usuqinisekisile?Impendulo : Okokuqala, qonda ukuthi lokhu akusebenzi kubo bonke abantu abane-autism okungaphezu kwalokho kusebenza kubo bonke abantu abanezinkinga ze-neurotypical. Okwesibili, ake sivume ukuthi kuyinto yangempela kubantu abaningi, nokuthi kukhona umphakathi wabantu ababelana ngalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho-awusiye wedwa.
Okwesithathu, vumela ukuthi kuqiniseke ukuthi uzimisele yini-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumuntu ongu-autistic, umzali, noma ochwepheshe-njengomhlanganyeli ohlangene ebuhlotsheni, ukukhulisa abanye ukubonisa inhlonipho, ukuhlonipha nokuhlonipha abanye ngaphandle kwemingcele njengokubandlulula nokulawulwa okuqinile, okugunyazayo. Futhi ekugcineni, lisekele umuntu ukuthi aqaphele ukuthi impilo yakhe ayikho injongo; ukuthi uyathandwa, nokuthi ubuhle bakhe buvela eMandleni Aphakeme-hhayi into yokwesaba; nokuthi sonke sinomsebenzi wokusebenzisa izipho zethu namathalenta ukuze sibe nenkonzo enhle nakakhulu kwabanye.
Umbuzo: Yiziphi izinhlelo zakho ezizayo, futhi abantu bangakuxhumana kanjani nabo ngabo?
Impendulo: Ngisenkonzweni yokugqugquzela ukubambisana kwe-autism yokuqala yokuzimela, lapha ePennsylvania. Sesisungule kakade kusukela ngo-Mashi 2006 kanye nabamele abakwa-spectrum abahlala esifundeni; manje sizobe sisebenzisana ukuze sihlanganyele ikharikhulamu yokuqeqesha i-autism kubasebenzi bezempilo engokwengqondo abasekela izingane kanye nentsha nge-autism.
Ikwazi ukuphindaphindiwe ezweni lonke. Siphinde sihlele ingqungquthela yokuqala ye-autism eyethulwa kuphela-noma ehlangene nabantu-abane-autism emzamweni wokufundisa abanye "ngaphakathi-out".
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