I-Summer Jabulela Wena Nengane Yakho Nge-Autism

Imindeni eminingi enezingane ze-autistic isaba ihlobo. Izinguquko esimisweni, isikhathi esiningi kakhulu, nokukhathazeka mayelana nokuziphatha kwe-autistic kungakuthola indlela yokuzijabulisa komndeni. Ngenkathi zonke izingane ezine-autism zihlukile, ngayinye yale misebenzi ingashintshwa ukuze ihambisane nezidingo zezingane ezinenkinga yokuzizwa noma izifiso, izinkinga ngezinguquko, nezinselele zokuziphatha. Ngcono nakakhulu, bangakujabulela nabantakwethu!

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Hamba Ukugeza

Okokuqala kulolu hlu - futhi cishe uHLU LONKE lwe-fun ehlobo - lubhukuda. Izingane eziningi kanye nentsha emcimbini zifaka amanzi, njengabantwana babo nabazali babo. Kunezinketho eziningi zokubhukuda nezingane zakho ze-autistic; Nazi ezimbalwa nje. Yiqiniso, akusho ukuthi amanzi angaba yingozi, ngakho-ke ungathathi incwadi bese uhamba ngaphandle ngenkathi ingane yakho ye-autistic ihamba.

• Thola i-echibi noma ibhishi elithulile eduze nesogwini. Vumela ingane yakho nge-autism ukuthi ihlole amanzi ngesikhathi sayo. Ezinye izingane zizoqhuma, kanti ezinye zizohlala zithulile. Njengomncinyane, indodana yethu yayikujabulela ukuhlala phansi kwesigodini bese ibuka inhlanzi nezinyoni ezincane. Akuyona into ejwayelekile yokuziphatha kwezinyane, kodwa kuyinto ejabulisayo kuye.
• Yiya echibini, ku-YMCA. I-Y ngokuvamile ihlinzeka ngezikhathi ezikhethekile izidingo ezikhethekile zokubhukuda, futhi abaningi baze babe nabafundisi bokubhukuda ngokuqeqesha okukhethekile. Ngisho noma bengenjalo, iningi lezingane ezingenawo i-autism lingase lijabule kakhulu ukudlala ngezinto ezimanzi!
• Ngena ku-surf. Izingane eziningi ezine-autism zifisa ukuzwela ngokomzimba, futhi akukho lutho olushaya ukushona okukhulu ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu ngokomzimba. Indodana yethu imthanda ngokuphelele amagagasi ogwini lwaseNew Jersey naseDelaware! Futhi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uhlale uqaphele; sabe sibamba izandla zombili izingane zethu ku-surf kuze kube yilapho zikhulu futhi zinamandla ngokwanele ukuba zihlale ezinyaweni njengoba kufika ingqikithi enkulu.

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Thatha ukuhamba

Wonke umuntu angakwazi ukuhamba, futhi izingane ezine-autism zivame ukuhamba noma ukuhamba nabangani abahamba phambili. Abanye banamandla okumangaza; abanye (njengendodana yami) baqaphele ngokungajwayelekile imininingwane ebazungezile. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi ingane yakho ikhathele, ishisa, noma i-antsy nje, qala ngokuhamba okufutshane kwendawo. Izindawo eziningi zemvelo nazo zinemizila emincane yombuthano etholakalayo eduze kwesikhungo sezivakashi - ephelele ngomsebenzi olula, omnandi, womndeni.

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Joyina i-Museum Museum yezingane noma i-Zoo

Ungase ungacabangi ngengane yakho nge-autism ngokuphathelene neyamamyuziyamu noma i-zoo, kodwa uma ujoyina - ngokuvamile ngezindleko eziphansi ngokumangazayo - ungafika futhi uhambe njengoba uthanda, ngoba isikhathi eside noma esifushane isikhathi othanda ngaso. Lokhu kukunika ithuba lokuletha ingane yakho nge-autism (kanye nezinye izingane zakho) okwesikhashana, "wazi indawo" ukuvakashelwa amahora lapho amanye emindeni engekho amathuba okuvakashela (ngeSonto ekuseni kulungile). Imyuziyamu eminingi yezingane inikeza izindawo zokudlala ezipholile, zasendlini lapho izingane zakho zikwazi ukukhuphuka futhi zigijime endaweni ehlanganisiwe, kanti izindawo eziningi zinezindawo ezinokuxhumana ezinjengezinhlanzi zokudlala. Ngesikhathi uvakashele izikhathi ezimbili noma ezintathu, ingane yakho nge-autism izokwazi isimiso, futhi uzizwe ekhaya esimweni somphakathi esicebile, semfundo!

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Thenga Isikhathi Sonyaka Esigodini Sokukhangisa

Amapaki amaningi okuzithokozisa anikeza amaphasiwedi anqatshiwe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungakwazi ukuletha ingane yakho nge-autism (kanye nezingane zakini) kaningi njengokuthanda kwakho, konke ngokubiza okufanayo. Ngaphambi kokuya, thola ukuthi uzokwenzani, futhi ubuke kuqala isipiliyoni nengane yakho. Khetha ngokucophelela ukugibela nokuhlangenwe nakho owaziyo ukuthi uyothanda, futhi ugcine ukuvakashelwa okufushane. Uma uthanda, ungakha isimiso ngokuvakashelwa kwepaki, ngakho ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani, nokuthi nini ukulindela izinguquko esimisweni. I-HINT: hamba lapho abanye bengakwenzi - ekuseni kakhulu, ngezinsuku zamasonto namaSonto, ukunciphisa ingozi yezixuku, ukudumazeka nokuxuba.

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Thola Ukukhwabanisa

Ezinye izingane ezine-autism ziyizingcweti ezingavamile zokubukwa; eziningi azikho. Esikoleni, kusetshenziswe isikhathi esiningi kakhulu ekwelapheni, ezifundweni, nasemakhono omphakathi lapho izingane ezibucayi ngokuvamile zingaphumeleli eklasini lobuciko. Ngakho ihlobo yisikhathi esihle sokuvula lowo mnyango. Ungayisayina ingane yakho ekilasini nomfundisi, kodwa kungaba nzima ukuthola leso sifundo esiphelele. Ngokuvamile, ukhetho olungcono ukudala ikona lobuciko ekhaya, ugcwalise uhla lwezindaba kanye ne-tarp enkulu phansi. Qaphela ukuthi izingane eziningi ezibucayi zinezinkinga ezithinta izinkinga ezenza kube nzima ukulawula izinto ezinzima; abanye bangabeka izinto ezingezona ukudla emilonyeni yabo. Ngakho qala ngezidingo ezilula, ezingekho ezinobuthi ezifana namakhrayoni, iphepha, nokuphepha nokuthuthuka kusuka lapho. Futhi ungakhathazeki uma ingane yakho ingumculi: bambalwa kithi!

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Hlola umculo

Izingane eziningi ezine-autism zinamathalenta omculo, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi zimatasa kakhulu nezinye izinto eziza kuqala esikoleni, zingase zingabi nethuba lokujoyina i-choir noma zithathe ithuluzi lomculo. Ihlobo yisikhathi esihle sokuthatha izingane kumakhonsathi angaphandle lapho angahamba khona, adansa, noma enza umsindo ngaphandle kokudala i-ruckus. Ungase futhi ufuna ukwethula izingane zakho ngaphandle kwe-autism ezinhlobonhlobo zomculo nokwenza umculo, ngokuziyisa emidlalweni yomculo, ukudlala umculo "wokudansa" ekhaya, noma ngisho unikeze ithuba lokuzama ithuluzi lomculo noma ukucula.

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Thola ngokomzimba

Ukufaneleka kubalulekile kuwo wonke umuntu, kodwa izingane ezine-autism zivame ukulahlekelwa yisikhathi lapho kuziwa isikhathi sokuzivocavoca, imidlalo ehleliwe, noma izinsuku zokudlala eziphezulu. Ihlobo yisikhathi esihle sokuthola umzimba njengomndeni. Ngokuya ngamakhono wengane yakho nokuzwela, ungase ufune ukuzama imisebenzi efana ne-backyard water slide noma i-sprinkler, ibhayisikili noma i-trike ukugibela, ukukhuphuka kwamadwala (ngangimangalisa kakhulu ukungesabi kwendodana yami nokujabula ukukwazi ukukhwela udonga hamba!), noma ugijimise ku-trampoline ephansi, ephephile. Izindawo zokudlala zendawo zendawo zinamandla kakhulu - hhayi nje ngoba zijabulisa, zenyama, futhi zivame ukufakwa ngokuphepha, kodwa futhi ngenxa yokuthi zinikeza amathuba anjalo kakhulu okufundisa amakhono omphakathi.

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Rhalela isitimela

Abantu abaningi abane-autism bakhangwa izitimela; Akekho owazi ngempela ukuthi kungani! Ukugibela isitimela sangempela kungaba umsebenzi omkhulu wehlobo, futhi kunamathuba amaningi okwenza lokho ezindaweni eziningi zokuvakasha. Kunezitimela ezikhuphuka izintaba; ukugibela isitimela esibucayi; ukuqeqesha iminyuziyamu enikeza ukugibela. Kukhona izitimela zasemgwaqeni, izitimela ezitimela zokukhanya, nezitimela ezikuyisa ezindaweni ezithakazelisayo. Kukhona nezitimela ezincane emapaki wokuzijabulisa okungaba mnandi wonke umuntu.

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Vakashela i-Disneyworld

Kulungile, kunikeziwe, lokhu akuwona umsebenzi oshibhile noma olula, futhi i-Disney ifakwe kushisa ehlobo. Kodwa uma ufuna indawo okuyo lapho umndeni wakho wonke - kufaka phakathi ingane yakho ye-autistic - ingazizwa ikhululekile futhi isekelwe, awukwazi ukushaya i-Disney. Banikeza izidingo ezikhethekile ukudlula ukuze ingane yakho ingadingi ukulinda emigqeni ende. Zibamba ngokufanele yonke into yakho yokudla. Banikeza ukugibela okuphezulu nokuphansi kwamandla, okuhlangenwe nakho okubhukuda okujulile nokubhukuda okukhulu, nokukhethwa okungeyona indawo yokuzijabulisa ngaphandle kokuhamba ngezinyawo ukuya emanzini okudoba ukuya egibele amahhashi. Thatha kancane futhi kulula, uhlele futhi uhlole kuqala imisebenzi yansuku zonke, futhi udale eziningi zokuphumula nokudla okulula. Futhi zisebenzise izinsizakalo zeDisney lapho futhi noma nini lapho udinga khona: yingakho zikhona!