Isikhathi esincane esisodwa somzali nomzali singenza umehluko wezwe.
Iyini Imithi Ye-Autism Eyafana?
Ingabe kufanele ingane yakho ithole ukwelashwa kokuziphatha ? Dlala ukudlala ? Ukwelashwa kwamakhono omphakathi? Ukwelashwa kwenkulumo? Ukwelapha emsebenzini? Ukwelashwa okuhloswe ngokuzwakalayo? Ukwelapha umzimba? Kuthiwani ngemithi yokwelapha? Ukwelapha ubuciko? RDI? I-Sonrise? Isikhathi sephansi? I-SCERTS? Noma yikuphi kwalokhu kungase kube usizo, nakuba kungekho ndlela yokukwazi ukuthi yikuphi okungenzeka kube yi-MOST eyasiza ingane yakho.
Kodwa kukhona into eyodwa zonke lezi zindlela zokwelapha (nezinye eziningi) ezifanayo. Isithako esiyimfihlo esicishe senze umehluko omkhulu ekuthuthukiseni kwengane yakho, amakhono omphakathi, ukubandakanya nokuqonda.
Lesi sithako sikhululekile, singasetshenziswa nganoma isiphi isikhathi, futhi ungazinikela ngokwakho, noma ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kochwepheshe.
Iyini ukwelashwa kwe-autism yemilingo?
Nansi imfihlo: isikhathi esisebenzisekile esichithwa, esisodwa, sinomuntu omdala onakekelayo .
Yebo, kuyiqiniso. Lokhu "ukwelashwa okuyisimangaliso" ngempela kungenza umehluko kumntwana wakho we-autistic - futhi, njengenzuzo ehlangothini, kungaphinde kuthuthukise amakhono akho wokubeletha, kukhulise ubuhlobo bakho nengane yakho, futhi kungase kuthuthukise impilo yakho yempilo yegazi (ekubhekeni kwakho empeleni vuka futhi wenze okuthile nomntanakho).
Kungani kufanelekile, uzinikezele, isikhathi esisodwa nge-autistic ingane ebaluleke kangaka?
Izingane ezine-autism zinempawu ezimbalwa eziyisisekelo ezivamile; Lokhu kuhlanganisa nezinselele zokuxhumana nabantu (ukukhuluma ngomlomo nangokwemvelo) nokungafani kwezinzwa.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kunzima ngabo ukuhlola ubuhlobo bomuntu, ukwakha amakhono okudlala avamile, noma ukusebenzisa imicabango yabo. Ngokusebenzisa isikhathi esihle, isikhathi esisodwa ngomunye ingane ene-autistic - ngabe udlala, ugeza, uhlabelela, noma empeleni unikeza uhlobo oluthile lokwelapha - usiza lowo mntwana ukuba asebenze futhi athuthukise labo Amakhono abaluleke kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuxhuma noma ukuhlala uxhumeke nengane ye-autistic. Ngokungafani nezingane eziningi ezisathuthuka ngokuvamile, izingane ezine-autism zingase zingabi nandaba. Bangase bangakwamukeli. Kungaba nzima ukwenza ingane i-autistic ukudlala umdlalo othize, uhlabelele ingoma ethile, uhlale emgodini wakho, noma uqhube nengxoxo. Izingane eziningi ezine-autism zibonakala zihlala ezweni labo, futhi bambalwa bafuna ukuvunywa ngabantu abadala noma ukuxoxa.
Indlela Yokunikeza Ingane Yakho Eyisigunyaziso Ukunakekelwa Okuhle Okusekela Ukubambisana Kwengqondo
Ngakho wenza kanjani ukuxhumana okubaluleke kakhulu? Nazi amathiphu ambalwa okuqala:
- Shadow uchwepheshe wengane yakho, futhi ubukele ukuthi benzani. Uma bethola leyo nhlanhla yenzalo ngokusebenzisa ithoyizi ethile, umsebenzi, noma ingoma, yenza inothi layo. Ngemva kwesikhashana, uzothola uhlu oluwusizo lwamathuluzi aphumelelayo wokubamba nokugcina isithakazelo somntanakho.
- Buka ingane yakho. Akungabazeki ukuthi ingane yakho ngeke yenze lutho, usuku lonke. Wenzani? Uma ebukele i-TV, yini ebonisa ukuthi uyayithanda? Uma edlala ngezitimela, udlala kanjani? Yiziphi izinjini azikhethayo? Ingane ethanda iSesame Street ingase isabele kumuntu okhulile owenza ukudlala nge-toy Elmo.
- Ukuhlolwa. Izingane eziningi ezine-autism zithanda ukugijima imidlalo, ukuhlekisa, nokunye okuthakazelisayo kodwa okungekho amazwi. Abanye bakhetha ukuhlala futhi babuke izithombe, bajwayise ngokuguqula, noma ama-bubbles we-sip. Ngokuzama imisebenzi ehlukene uzokwakha uhlu ukuze uqale ukuxhumana.
- Sebenzisa amageyimu wokwelapha ukudlala. Izinhlelo ezihlelekile ezifana ne-Floortime ne-RDI, sebenzisa amafomu okudlala okwakhiwe ukuze wakhe amakhono ezinganeni ezine-autism. Yenzelwe abazali nabahlinzeki, lezi zindlela zinikeza isiqondiso namathuluzi ongawasebenzisa ukuze ungabi ngokwakho.
Umthamo wansuku zonke wokunakekelwa okuhle nokukhathalelayo wenza umehluko kunoma yimuphi ingane.
Ngengane ene-autism, ingaba isihluthulelo sokuthuthukiswa nokukhula. Ingabe ngempela "kuyisimangaliso?" Kungokwenu ukunquma!