Uke wabona noma wazibonela lesi simo esivamile?
UBill wachitha isikhathi ntambama ehambela othandekayo wakhe endaweni evikelekile yokugula kwengqondo ngamakhilomitha amathathu ukusuka ekhaya. Uyakhathala futhi unqume ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuya ekhaya ukuze ahambe, kepha wesaba isimo esivame ukuvela lapho eshiya uSara. Ngomusa umnika ukumbamba futhi umtshele ukuthi uyamthanda futhi umkhumbuze ukuthi uzobuya ngemuva kokudla ukudla ukuze aphinde aphinde abone naye ngaphambi kokulala.
USarah, kodwa, uthukuthele futhi uthukuthele , ethi akayithandi futhi amcela ukuba amthathe naye. Uyambambelela futhi uyambamba futhi iphinde iphunyelele ukuba ikwazi ukuyixosha futhi ikhala ngaphezulu. Uhamba ngeminyango evikelekile futhi ngemuva kwakhe uzwa iminyango iseduze futhi uzwa uSara ecindezela eminyango futhi emcela ukuba abuyele. Usula izinyembezi emehlweni akhe futhi uphefumule umoya ojulile, wazi ukuthi lesi simo sizobuyisa futhi esikhathini esizayo lapho ehamba khona.
USara unesifo se-Alzheimer , kanti nakuba uBill emthanda kakhulu, akakwazi ukumnakekela ekhaya. Wakwazi isikhathi esiningi kodwa waba nje kakhulu kakhulu futhi impilo yakhe yancipha. Udokotela wakhe ekugcineni wamtshela ukuthi kumele enze okuhlukile ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zakhe kanye naye.
Yini uBill kanye nabasebenzi abangayenza ukuze bashiye uSara ngemuva kokumvakashela kabuhlungu, kokubili kuye nangenxa yakhe?
Kuncike ezintweni eziningana, kufaka phakathi ukuthi yisiphi isigaba se-Alzheimer's kanye nobuntu bakhe. Zama lezi zindlela ezinhlanu ezingokoqobo:
1. Hlanganisa amandla okuphazamiseka
UBill angadinga ukucela abasebenzi ukuba bamsize ngokuphazamisa uSara uma sekuyisikhathi sokuba ashiye. Umgomo akumelwe umkhohlise, kodwa kunalokho ukuthakazelisa uSara kwenye into ukuze inqubo yokuhlukanisa ingamlimazi kakhulu.
Angase abe nesithakazelo esifundeni sasemini, ekudlala ipiyano noma ekilasini lokuzivocavoca.
2. Hlela kabusha uhlelo lukaSara noma lukaBill
Mhlawumbe uSara udinga ukuthatha insipho yangaphambili futhi uBill angakwazi ukuguqa ngenkathi elele. Noma, mhlawumbe uSara uzokwenza kangcono ngokuhambela ekuseni futhi uBill angaya ekhaya uma sekudla isikhathi sakhe semini.
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Kuthiwani uma uSara eqala ukucasuka uma ngokuzumayo ethola ukuthi uBill ushiye lapho elele? Ungazama ukurekhoda okulalelwayo noma okuqoshiwe kweBill Bill ethi kufanele asebenze iphutha nokuthi uyamthanda futhi uzobuya maduzane. Yena (noma abasebenzi) bangadlala lo mlayezo ukuze amqinisekise ukuthi ubuya futhi.
4. Abathandekayo Abasebenzi
Mhlawumbe kukhona ilungu elilodwa lomsebenzi uSara asithandayo futhi okwazi ukulihlisa futhi limqinisekise. Hlela phambili nalowo muntu ukuthi ungakanani isikhathi nokuthi yiziphi izinsuku osebenza kahle ngokuvakashelwa. Lokhu kungenye yezinzuzo eziningi zokusebenza okuqhubekayo ekunakekelweni kwe-dementia .
5. Yazi Umuntu ngamunye
Lena indlela ebaluleke kakhulu kubasebenzi abasebenza noSara. Kuyilungelo labo nesibopho sokufunda ukwazi ubuntu bakhe, izintandokazi zakhe, izinto ezibangela ukukhungatheka, nokuthi yini eyiduduzayo nokuyikhuthaza.
Bangasebenza ndawonye noBill bese bembuza ngomlando wakhe, umsebenzi wakhe, umndeni wakhe, amathalenta akhe nenjabulo yakhe-futhi basebenzise lolu lwazi ukuthuthukisa indlela yakhe ngayinye. Futhi, lapho bethola okuthile okusebenza kahle, abasebenzi kudingeka bahlanganyele impumelelo futhi baqinisekise ukuthi indlela ewusizo idluliselwa kwabanye.
Umthombo:
Lippincott Nursing Center.com. Izinsiza Ezingcono Zokunakekelwa Okungcono. Izinzuzo ezihambisana no-Dementia. I-AJN, i-American Journal of Nursing, July 2005 http://www.nursingcenter.com/lnc/CEIsihloko?an=00000446-200507000-00028&Journal_ID=54030&Issue_ID=591242