Uyamazi umuntu onesifo se-Alzheimer ? Uma ungenjalo, kungase kube yinkinga yesikhathi ngaphambi kokuba uyenze. I-Alzheimer's Association ilinganisela ukuthi cishe abantu abayizigidi ezingu-5,4 baseMelika bane-Alzheimer's noma uhlobo oluthile lwesifo sengqondo somqondo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, indlela yakho ingase iwele nomuntu olwa nomqondo oshaya umqondo .
Nazi izinhlanzi zethu eziyi-10 eziphezulu zezinto ezingafanele zenzeke kulabo abane-Alzheimer's disease.
Ungamnaki
Ngezinye izikhathi, sivame ukubheka enye indlela lapho sibhekane nento engakhululekile. Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungaxhumana kanjani nomuntu onokulahlekelwa inkumbulo , umthetho wokuqala kufanele uhlanganyele naye. Ungamnaki. Inkumbulo yakhe ingase ingasebenzi kanye neyakho, kodwa ingomunye umuntu futhi kufanele siyihloniphe futhi siyihloniphe. Mthole futhi unikeze ngesandla noma i-pat ngemuva.
Ungakhulumi Naye njengengane encane noma umntwana
Cabanga uma othile efika kuwe futhi ekhuluma nawe ngezwi lokucula-lizwi, ebeka ubuso babo buhle futhi eseduze neyakho. Ungabe usabela kanjani? Kungaba ukubuyisela emuva kulowo muntu bese uhoxisa, uhleka noma uvele ungaphenduli? Lolu hlobo lokuxhumana lubizwa ngokuthi "abadalapeak," futhi kufanele luhambe . Umuntu ono-Alzheimer ungumuntu omdala, hhayi ingane. Bazokujabulela ukuphathwa kanjalo.
Ungasebenzisi Imigomo Yokukhuthazeka Esikhundleni Semagama
Imigomo yothando kufanele ivame ukugcinwa amalungu omndeni oseduze nabangani.
(Kukhona umuntu ohlala njalo ongasebenzisa imigomo yothando futhi abonise ukukhathalela nokuhlonipha ngokwenza kanjalo, kodwa konke lokhu kufanele kugwenywe.) Uma ungumqeqeshi wezempilo futhi uhamba ubiza abanye ngokuthi "othandekayo", "uju" futhi "othandekayo", uvame ukulahlekelwa ithuba.
Sebenzisa igama lomuntu. Ngenye yezinto eziyigugu kakhulu kubantu, futhi kumuntu ono-Alzheimer, iveza ukuthi ibalulekile ngokwanele ukumkhumbula ngokuqondile nangegama .
Ungacabangi ukuthi udidekile sonke isikhathi
Ngisho noma umuntu enesifo se-Alzheimer noma enye ingqondo, angase abe nezikhathi eziningi zokucaca. Ngisanda kukhunjuzwa ngalokhu uma othile onesisindo sokuqala u-Alzheimer engitshele ukuthi umngane wakhe ushayele futhi wathi uzoyeka. Ngiyavuma ukungabaza engqondweni yami ukuthi ngabe wayenembile yini imininingwane, kodwa ngokuqinisekile, kamuva ngalolo suku ngabona ukuthi umngane wakhe ukhona lapho ezovakashela. Lokhu kwakungeyona into eyingqayizivele ekuhlangenwe nakho kwami, ngakho khumbula ukuthi ungaphuzi konke okukhulunywa ngumuntu onesifo sengqondo somqondo.
Ungamququzi
"Ngikhumbule mina ngini igama lami?" "Woza, uyazi." Ngesikhathi sokugcina ngilapho? "Cabanga nje kancane kunzima." Yini oyidla ukudla kwasemini? Sicela ungenzi lokhu. Yandisa ukhathazeka futhi ayizuzi.
Ungabuzi Abanye Abantu Imibuzo Ephathelene Naye Ngenkathi Ekhona Lapho
Okuphambene nokubuza othile yilokhu okushiwo: "Sawubona Fred. Ngakho Sue, uFred uyenze kanjani? Inkumbulo yakhe? Ingabe unenkinga?
Ucabanga ukuthi udabukile? Ufunani ukudla kwasemini namuhla? "
Cabanga ngalokhu isikhumbuzo esimnene sokuzibuza ngokuqondile ukubuza umuntu ngemibuzo embalwa ka-Alzheimer. Uma engakwazi ukuphendula ngokugcwele, ungabheka ilungu lomndeni ngendlela enenhlonipho.
Ungagxila kulokho Akunakwenzeka Ukwenza
Esikhundleni sokugcizelela umsebenzi wakhe olahlekile, ukungahlehlisi kahle noma ukukhunjulwa okungenakusiza, kunakekele ekutheni uqedele ikhono lakhe lokuqedela iphazili asebenze ngalo, ubuhle bakhe bezinwele, noma ukuthi angakwazi kanjani ukuhamba kahle. Ukudabuka okulahlekile kuyaqondakala futhi kubalulekile, kodwa ukugxila emakhono omuntu kuhamba phambili ekumkhuthazeni futhi kungashintsha kokubili imibono yakho.
Ungacabangi ukuthi ukhetha ukuba nzima
Lokhu kuyisenzo esivame ukubonwa kumuntu osondelene kakhulu nomuntu ono-Alzheimer's. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngokungaqondakali, kungase kube lula ukukholelwa ukuthi othandekayo wakho wenza izinto ngokuzithandela ukwenza izinto ezikukhathazayo noma ezilimazayo kunokuba avume ukuthi akakwazi ukulawula izenzo zakhe nokuthi amandla akhe okukhumbula okuthile ahluphekile ngempela. Yikuphi imiphumela kulokhu, noma kunjalo, imizwa yokukhungatheka okukhulu, ukulimala nokubekezela, akekho okukusiza noma yena. Uzophumelela kokubili uma umnika inzuzo yokungabaza futhi acabange (ngokuvamile ngokulungile) ukuthi izinqumo zakhe ziwumphumela wokudangala kwakhe komqondo.
Ungayeki Ukuvakashela Kungenxa yokuthi Ucabanga ukuthi Ngeke Awakhumbule
Ingabe ngezinye izikhathi uzizwa sengathi akufanelekile ukuchitha isikhathi ukuvakashela othandekayo wakho? Cabanga futhi. Ngisho noma engakwazi ukukhumbula ukuthi uyivakashele, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi imizwa oyidala ihlala isikhathi eside kunesikhathi sokuvakasha kwakho . Leyo mizwa ingabangela lonke usuku lwakhe ngokuthonya indlela asabela ngayo kwabanye, ukuthi uzizwa kanjani, nokuthi uyadla kanjani. Qiniseka ukuthi ukuvakasha kwakho kunamandla okuhlala njalo kunalokho ucabanga. Khumbula ukuthi kunezikhathi lapho uzothola khona isikhathi sakho ndawonye.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungathanda ukuphathwa kanjani
Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungaphatha kanjani umuntu onesifo se-Alzheimer noma ukuthi ungathini, yenza le ndlela yokuzenzakalelayo: "Ngingathanda ukuphathwa kanjani?" Le ndlela isebenza kahle njengomhlahlandlela wokuphatha abanye ngomusa, othandweni, nangenhlonipho abafanelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukulahlekelwa kwabo noma amakhono abo.