Izingane ezine-Autism zingaba nzima ukuhlala nazo
Izingane ezine-autism zijwayele ukuziphatha okungavamile . Bangase bakhulume umsindo omkhulu, benze ngokungacabangi, futhi bagijime noma bakhuphuke lapho kungenjalo. Bangase babe izidakamizwa ezingavamile, banqabe ukugqoka izingubo ezithile noma babe nesikhathi esinzima sokuwa futhi bahlale belele. Bangase baxoshe iminyango, bahlanza izindlu zangasese ngokungadingekile, baphume endlini behamba, noma bahlasele izingane zabo.
Bangase bangabanaki, baphazamiseke, noma baphinde baphonsa kakhulu, izibhamu ezihlala njalo ezibizwa ngokuthi " ukuqubuka ."
Konke lokhu kuziphatha kungamukeleki emphakathini. Futhi akekho kubo ohlukile kwizingane ezine-autism. Empeleni, iningi labantu abadala, ukubona ingane engaphezu kweminyaka yobudala baziphatha ngalezi zindlela, bacabanga ukuthi babheka ingane "ebolile" - okungukuthi, ingane evuzwa ngokuziphatha kabi ngabazali engazimisele ukuthi "cha."
Akuyona Kulula Konke Ukushayela I-Autism
Kukhona izimo ezimbili kuphela lapho umuntu omdala ozokwazi khona ukuqonda ngokushesha lapho ebona ukuziphatha kwe-autistic kunokuba abe nobubi obuvamile.
Isimo sokuqala esinjalo sihilela umntwana ongeke abe nomlomo ngezwi elizwakalayo nesethulo sangokwenyama kangangokuthi ngokusobala i-autistic. Lokhu kufaka phakathi, isibonelo, intombazane esebenzisa imisindo ye-guttural esikhundleni senkulumo yokukhulumisana, noma ingane egubhayo futhi ehlaba izandla zakhe.
Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha zikhulu ngokweqile ukuthumela umlayezo "lo muntu onesidingo esikhethekile."
Isimo sesibili esinjalo, akumangazi ukuthi, uma umuntu omdala esebenza (noma esebenza) nomntwana ku-autism spectrum. Abazali be-Autism, ngenxa yokuba nabantu abaningi embonini yamahhovisi odokotela, amaqembu okwelapha, namakilasi okufundela okukhethekile, bayazi izimpawu ze-autism njengemuva yezandla zabo.
Kuthiwani Uma Ungewona Uchwepheshe We-Autism? Amathiphu Ekuqaphela Izimpawu
Kodwa kuthiwani uma ungewona umzali we-autism - kodwa ubheka noma uxhumana nomntwana obonakala ehlukumeza. Mhlawumbe ungumqeqeshi, umeluleki wekamu, umfundisi wokubhukuda, noma umthamo wezemyuziyamu. Ungatshela kanjani ukuthi ingane i-autistic - noma ibolile nje? Noma, mhlawumbe, kokubili i-autistic NE-spoiled ebolile?
Nazi izinkomba ezimbalwa zokukusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi ngabe umntwana osebenza naye noma ubheka izidingo zokuhlala noma ukuhlala. Lapho lezi zinto zenzeka, cabanga ngosizo lomnikelo nezindawo zokuhlala kunokugxeka!
- Ukuziphatha kubonakala kubonakala kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka . Ngenkathi izingane ezivamile zingase zenze njengendlela yokusabela ekuphikisweni okufunayo noma okucasuliwe yontanga, izingane ezine-autism zinamathuba amaningi okusebenza ngenxa yenkinga yokuzwa (ukukhanya okukhulu, umsindo, ukushisa; izingubo ezingenakuzwakalayo; ) okungaba cishe "okungabonakali" kithi sonke.
- Ukuziphatha kuphindaphindiwe kodwa akuhlosi . Ingane evula futhi evala umnyango ngokuphindaphindiwe, mhlawumbe ukubeka amehlo akhe ukubuka ukuhamba komnyango, cishe akunakwenzeka ukwenza kanjalo ukuze "ungabi nalutho." Mhlawumbe ujabulela isipiliyoni esizwakalayo futhi akaqapheli ukuthi ukuziphatha kulungile yini.
- Ukuziphatha kwakhe kudala okungalungile . Uma uneminyaka engu-12 ekhanyayo engakwazi ukumisa ukuphendula izimpendulo ekilasini noma ukuphikelela ekukhulumeni ngokungaphezi mayelana namavidiyo "noma" kubalingiswa, akunakwenzeka ukuthi enze kanjalo nje ukushayela abafundi ekilasini labahlakaniphile. Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha okungazenzisi kanye nezithakazelo ezingakalungi ezivame ukuhambisana ne-autism.
- Ingane ayibukeli ukusabela. Ngenkathi izingane ezijwayelekile "zizokwenza" ukuze zithole ukusabela koontanga noma abadala, izingane ezine-autism "zizama" ngenxa yazo, ngezizathu zangaphakathi. Uma ubona ingane yenza okuthile okuyobhekwa njengokuthi "ayinamahloni" (ehlezi ngaphansi kwedeskini, ekhuphukela ebhentshini, egijima lapho engakufanele), kodwa abanesithakazelo ekuphenduleni komuntu kunoma yiziphi izindlela zabo, bangase babe ukubonisa izimpawu ze-autism.
- Ingane ibonakala ingahlali emphakathini. Izingane ezine-autism zingase zibe nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu sokufunda ukuphendula kwabanye, ikakhulukazi uma ziqhamuka. Ngenxa yalokho, bangase bahambise abangane ngokuziqhenya ngokukhuluma ngokungapheli ngesihloko esithandayo, bahlasele isikhala somuntu siqu, noma bacabanga ukuthi bayamukelekile uma bengekho.
Nakuba engekho kulezi zibonakaliso ubufakazi obucacile bokuthi ingane i-autistic, ngokuqinisekile ziyizibonakaliso zokuthi ingane ayibangeli ukulimala noma ukuzijabulisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-autistic noma cha, bangabantwana abadinga usizo olwengeziwe lokuphatha ubunzima bokuphila kwansuku zonke!
> Imithombo:
> Ryan, Sara.'Amamitha ', ukubhekwa nokuphatha imizwelo; ukuphuma nabantwana abane-autism. Indawo yezeMpilo. 2010 Sep; 16 (5): 868-875.