Ngesikhathi indodana yami ineminyaka emithathu, wayethanda iSesame Street. Useneminyaka engu-19. Usakuthanda uSesame Street, "I-Little Mermaid," izithombe zezithombe, noTomas iTank Engine. Ungakwazi ukubuka ama-movie a-Disney ngokuphindaphindiwe, futhi uyazi igama lemoto yonke "esiqhingini saseSodor" esicacile. Uthanda ukudala onobuhle kanye "namazwe" nge-legos, ukulalela umculo we-Disney, nokuthola izithombe ezithakazelisayo ezivela emvelweni (izinkinobho, isibonelo) kukhompyutha yakhe.
Lezi zinkimbinkimbi azilimazanga muntu. Futhi nakuba "bengakufaneleki" ngensizwa, ngokuqinisekile bayaphephile futhi bahle kunokuba, bathi, imidlalo yamavidiyo namabhayisikobho mayelana nokubulala nokweba noma ukushayela okusheshayo noma amaqembu e-keg noma ubulili obungavamile - konke okuzobhekwa " evamile "izithakazelo zesilisa emasikweni ethu.
Ngakho kungani abantu bazizwa bengakhululekile kubantu abathandayo abaneminyaka engafaneleki?
Impendulo ilula kakhulu. Abantu abakhombisayo ubudala abanentshisekelo engafanelekile bahlukile. Ukuhluka okuhlukile kusho ukuhleleka. Abantu abathandekayo bayesabisa . Izingane ezesabekayo zixoshwa, zihlaselwa, futhi zixhashazwa. Abantu abesabekayo bahlukanisiwe futhi banesizungu, futhi banenkinga engavamile kakhulu yokwakha ubuhlobo, ukuthola nokugcina imisebenzi, noma ngisho nokwamukelwa njengamavolontiya omphakathi.
Abantu abane-autism banezinselele ezinkulu ngokuxhumana nabantu . Engeza izihloko ezingalungile zentshisekelo nenkulumo, futhi lezo zinselele zingaba izithiyo ezingenakunqotshwa.
Indlela Abantu Abazimele Abafunda Ngayo Ukuba Naba Nesithakazelo Esifanele Esikhathini Esizayo
Singakuhlonipha kanjani izindawo ze-autistic ezithakazelisayo ngenkathi futhi sisekela ukufakwa komphakathi kwangempela nokuhlonipha? Akuzona njalo kunzima njengoba kuzwakala!
- Chaza futhi uxoxe ngale ndaba. Uma ingane yakho ikwazi ukuxoxa nokuqonda ukuzimisela komunye umuntu, kungani ungahambi nje ingxoxo? Tshela ingane yakho iqiniso: Abantu abanomdlavuza bayamangalisa. Bathi bayakwazisa okungezona ubudlova, abezindaba ezinhle - bese bekhathazeka lapho ingane endala noma indoda endala ithi "Ngithanda ngempela ukubukela ama-movie akwa-Disney, akunjalo?" Kuhle ukutshela ingane yakho ukuthi, nakuba izithakazelo zakhe zihle kakhulu, abanye abantu bazothola zididekile - ngakho-ke kungcono ukujabulela nokuxoxa ngalezo zithakazelo ekhaya noma nabangani ababelana nabo.
- Yakha ezindaweni ezikhona ezithakazelisayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi ujabulele uTomas the Engine Tank futhi ujabulele nokufunda nokuhamba ngezitimela zangempela. Uma ingane yakho ikwazi ukukhiqiza kusukela kumbukiso wakhe we-TV oyintandokazi, ungambonisa umhlaba wonke wezintshisekelo ezihlobene nazo ezingase zihlangane nokwamukelwa ezweni lezinzwa.
- Engeza okuhlangenwe nakho okusha namathuba ngaphandle kokukhipha izithakazelo ezikhona . Umuntu othanda i-Elmo angase futhi athande ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ama-blockbuster movie, i-model rocketry, noma ukuqoqa idwala. Esikhundleni sokugxila kulokho okungalungile ku-Elmo, cabanga ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba yandise izwe layo. Njengoba izithakazelo ezintsha ziba ezibaluleke kakhulu, ukuthakazelisa okudala kungase kuqale ukuphela kancane.
- Thola izimo lapho izifiso "ezingalungile" zifanelekile. Kungaba "yisimangaliso" kumntwana osekhulile ukufunda izincwadi zezithombe kuye - kodwa kuhle ukuba afunde izincwadi ezinjalo ezinganeni ezincane esikoleni noma emtatsheni wezincwadi. Kungase kube "okungajwayelekile" kumuntu omdala ukuthi ahambe ayobona ifilimu entsha yePixar eyedwa, kodwa kuhle ukwenza kanjalo eqenjini lomndeni elibandakanya izingane ezincane. Uma kungenzeka, ungakwazi ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthola isikhathi nendawo efanele ukujabulela isithakazelo esithile.
- Thola izinketho ezifanayo kodwa eziningi "ezamukelekayo emphakathini". Ngokweqile, ngenkathi intombazane ethanda uSesame Street "iyinqaba," osemusha othanda ama-Muppets angabhekwa njenge-geeky futhi (eminye imibuthano) ahlale epholile. Umuntu omdala odlala ngamabhuloki uyinqaba, kodwa umuntu omdala owakhiwa izakhi ze-Lego eziyinkimbinkimbi ngumculi (futhi lezi zakhiwo manje sezifunwa kakhulu!). Owesifazane ogqoke njenge-Snow White nje kumnandi angase abe yinqaba, kepha owesifazane oya eComicon (umhlangano wencwadi yamahlaya) ugqoke njengoWonder Woman uyamangalisa.