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Kuthatha ukuthini indlu yangasese ukuqeqesha ingane ku-autism spectrum? Ngokuvamile, kuyinkqubo ende futhi enzima. Izingane ezine-autism kungenzeka zingakhathazeki ngontanga yabo efanayo, noma zibe nesithakazelo esikhethekile ekugqoke izingubo zangaphansi "boy boy". Bangase babe nezinkinga ezithinta izinkinga ezenza kube nzima ukuzwa isidingo sokuhamba. Kungase kube khona ukukhathazeka ezungeze isihlalo sendlu yangasese, umsindo we-flush, njalonjalo.
Omunye umama ukhungathekile kakhulu, futhi uyabhala:
Nginomfana oneminyaka engu-6 ubudala ongenakukwenza ibm yakhe ebhodweni. Uye waba ochwepheshe abaningi, kusukela osukwini lwakhe - ngokoqobo - ngaphansi kwesinye usuku oludala! Uye waba nokuhlolwa okuningi futhi siye esihlokweni esiqhubekayo ... kodwa akukho nqubekela phambili eyenziwe. Uphuze kancane kancane ngentuthuko. Uvuthisa ebhodweni ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo. Ube ese-mira-lax - ivuliwe futhi ivaliwe iminyaka. Siphinde sazama ukudla okuningana okuhlukene - futhi yonke imvelo esekelwe imifino.Uhlale enesikhumba esincane ezinqoleni zakhe - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uguqulwa kaningi kangakanani. Ngivumelana nomqondo wokuthi akasephunga iphunga - ngoba yilokho awaziyo. Ezinye izingane ziqoqa iphunga. Sizame ukugqugquzela - kanye nomkhawulo. Uma kufakwe kwi-potty - trantrums. Kuvimbela ukubandakanyeka kwakhe ezimweni eziningi. Sonke sikhathazeke kangaka! Uma noma ubani enemibono - iziphakamiso - ngicela ungitshele!
Ngesikhathi esingaphindela emuva, ngibhale isihloko esiphelele sokunikeza iseluleko ngezinyathelo ngendlela yokuthutha ingane yakho nge-autism esithatha ingxenye enkulu yalezo zinkinga. Ukucaphuna lesi sihloko (noDkt. Beth Kroeger, onguchwepheshe emkhakheni) ngokuphathelene nokunyakaza kwamathumbu kanye ne-autism:
Izingane eziningi ziyoba nenkinga encane ngokuchama, kodwa kubonakala sengathi ziyanqikaza ukugcoba endlini yangasese. Izizathu eziningi zingachaza lokhu, kusho uDkt Kroeger."Uma kunenkinga, sibheka ukuthi kungani. Kungase kube ukuqothulwa, noma kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ayithandi ukuphahlazeka okwenzeka lapho ukunyakaza kwamathumba kuhlasela amanzi. Uma ngabe yinkinga, sisebenza kancane kancane ukuze silahleke amandla . " UDkt. Kroeger uphinde unikeze amathiphu wokuphatha indlu yokufundisa yangasese lapho ingane yakho ifuna ukumbumbuluza kuphela ku-diaper. Isihluthulelo sokuphumelela, uyachaza, uthatha inqubo ngesinyathelo.
- Okokuqala, qaphela lapho ingane yakho izokhipha, futhi imenze iphoyintile ku-diaper - endlini yokugezela.
- Kancanyana, fisa ukumenza ahlasele emkhombeni - endlini yangasese.
- Okulandelayo, menze adonse izibhulu zakhe phansi ngaphambi kokuhlala endlini yangasese. Okokugcina, makabe ehlala endlini yangasese ene-diaper.
Lezi zinyathelo zingathatha isikhathi eside, futhi kungase kudingeke uziphule phansi ngokuqhubekayo. Kodwa-ke, isihluthulelo sempumelelo, okwenza ingane yakho iphumelele futhi izuze leyo mphopho ekhuthazayo.
Kuyini uDkt Kroeger engekho? Zikhona yini ezinye izindlela ezisebenzele kahle wena nomntanakho? Sicela wabelane!