E-America, obaba ngokuvamile baxhuma namadodana abo ngokusebenzisa inhlanganisela yokugqekeza nokuxosha imidlalo, ezemidlalo, nokuqeqesha. Uma umfana ejabulela ama-Boy Scouts, ubaba uyasiza ukwakha imoto yePinewood Derby. Uma umfana ethanda i-Little League, ubaba ufundisa amakhono, uphonsa imigebe futhi, mhlawumbe, kusiza umqeqeshi.
Kungaba nzima ukubona ukuthi lezo zenzo zingasebenza kanjani kahle nengane enezinselelo ezinzima, ubunzima obunamakhono amakhono amakhulu, izinkinga ngolwimi olukhulunywe, namakhono ambalwa okulingisa.
Ingabe lokho kusho ukuthi abakwa- America badinga isethi entsha yamakhono ukuxhuma nendodana yabo ye-autistic? Impendulo nguyebo ... futhi cha.
Yebo, ukubeletha ingane embukisweni kudinga ukucabanga okungaphandle kwebhokisi , ukudala okuncane, ukuzimisela ukuzama, ukwehluleka, bese uzama futhi. Kudinga futhi ikhono lokwenza izinguquko ezithile - ngisho nalapho lezo zinguquko zingabonakali amandla akho siqu noma izintshisekelo zakho.
Ukusebenzisa Amakhono Okubeletha
Kodwa cha, ukubeletha ingane ene-autism kungase kungasho ukuyeka amaphupho akho obubaba obunjalo. Kuye ngesimo, kungase kwenzeke ukuthi ulethe imibono efanayo etafuleni - kodwa uyibeke ingane ingane ecabanga futhi yenza ngendlela ehlukile.
Nazi imibono embalwa yokusebenzisa lawo macebo onke wokuba ubaba waseMelika ukuxhuma nendodana ku-autism spectrum :
- Roughhousing . Izindaba ezinhle yilezi: indodana yakho ye-autistic ingase ithande ngokuphelele ukukhwabanisa ! Kungenxa yokuthi izingane eziningi ezine-autism zizwa isidingo sokucindezeleka okukhulu noma ukuzwa ukuzwela ukuze uzizwe uzolile futhi ucacile. "Ngikubambe" imidlalo, ukuguqula imidlalo, kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuhlukumezeka, ngakho-ke, kungaba yindlela yokwelapha intombazane enhle. Nokho, izindaba ezimbi ukuthi izingane ezine-autism zingathola ingcindezi enkulu kakhulu. Kuzodingeka uzame izinhlobo ezahlukene zokudlala ngokomzimba ukuze ubone ukuthi kuyini okujabulisayo - hhayi okuphazamisayo - kumntwana wakho we-autistic.
- Chase imidlalo . Kubantwana abaningi ku-spectrum, okudlalwa okuyisigqila nokukhulumisana ngamazwi kuyinselele, imidlalo yokugijima iyindlela yokuqala, engcono kakhulu yokudlala ne-OR kunokuba ithole abanye abantu. Okungaba nzima ngendodana yakho, noma kunjalo, ilandelana imidlalo nemithetho eqondile. Kwabanye abantwana ku-spectrum, imithetho yemidlalo efana ne-tag noma Ukuthwebula i-Flag ingase ivuleke kakhulu ukuze ikwazi ukuqonda. Kwabanye, imithetho ingase ibe yinkinga kakhulu. Yidlale ngendlebe: wena nomntanakho ungase ujabule nje "ngokuba yizilo" ndawonye kunokudlala imidlalo esekelwe emthethweni.
- Ezemidlalo . Kuyinto engavamile - nakuba kungenakwenzeka-ukuthi ingane ene-autism ibe yilabadlali abanekhono ngempela, umdlali wezemidlalo weqembu lomdlandla. Ithimba lezemidlalo liyinselele kakhulu kwengane enenkinga enzima ngamakhono amakhono amakhulu, ayikwazi ukufunda ulimi lomzimba kalula, futhi akakwazi ukuthola ikhodi yezenhlalo ngaphandle kokuthi ichazwe ngokuningiliziwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane eziningi ezine-autism zihle kakhulu (futhi zijabulele kakhulu) ezemidlalo ezizimele eziningi ezifana nokugijima, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili, ukuhamba nge-bowling nokubhukuda. Ungathola nesithakazelo esabelwe emidlalo ye-spectator: izingane ezine-autism zivamise ukujwayela imininingwane, futhi zingase zikwazi ukwazi okwengeziwe ngeqembu lakho ozithandayo kunawe!
- Coaching . Uma unendodana ene-autism, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzovusa ukuqeqesha iqembu eliphumelelayo emlandweni wesikole esiphakathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungase uvuselele i-coaching ithimba labantwana abadinga ngempela ubaba onjengawe ukuze ubasize baphume lapho, baphonsa ibhola, futhi bajabulele ukuthakazelisa kokusekela, ukwenza umgomo, noma nje ukuyingxenye ithimba. Izidingo ezikhethekile zemidlalo yezemidlalo zihlale zifuna abaqeqeshi bomzali - futhi umsebenzi uyagcwalisa ngokumangalisa.
- Ukuthola Intshisekelo Ejwayelekile Yokujabulela . Mhlawumbe indlela ebaluleke kunazo zonke yokuba ubaba nendodana babe nesibopho kungaphezu kwendawo eyabelana ngayo. Ezimweni eziningi, izingane ezine-autism ZABE izintshisekelo (ngisho nezifiso). Uma unesithakazelo ekuxhumaneni nendodana yakho, inkambo engcono kakhulu ongayilandela ukuthola ukuthi uyayithanda - futhi yabelane ngayo. Cha, kungenzeka ukuthi awunalo ukuthakazelisa, okushoyo, izitimela zemodeli noma ama-movie we-Disney. Kodwa ngokumba ngokujulile nokuthola indlela yokujabulela ukuzilibazisa noma intshisekelo nomntanakho, uzokwakha isisekelo sempilo yakho yonke.