Umbuzo ovamile abesifazane ababuza ukuthi bangakhulelwa yini uma besebenzisa indlela yokuhoxiswa yokulawula ukuzalwa (eyaziwa nangokuthi "ukukhipha"). Le nqubo ihilela ukuhoxisa i-penis yesilisa kusukela kwesifazane wesifazane ngaphambi kokuba u-ejaculation igweme ukukhulelwa. Impendulo yalo mbuzo ixhomeke, ngokwengxenye, ukuthi ngabe abashadile basebenzisa indlela yokuhoxisa noma cha.
Ukunemba kohlelo lokuKhipha
Ngezinye izikhathi kubizwa ngokuthi "ukukhipha indlela" noma ukuphazamiseka kwe-coitus, indlela yokuhoxisa yindlela eyenziwa ngezinye izikhathi ngesikhathi socansi ukunciphisa amathuba okukhulelwa.
Odokotela abaningi bayeluleka ukuthi le ndlela inengozi kakhulu uma uzama ngamandla ukugwema ukukhulelwa ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kokuba i-orgasm yesilisa ne-ejaculation, kukhona inani elincane le- pre-ejaculate semen elikhishwe, eliqukethe isisu. Ngisho nalesi sinani esincane sembewu singakwazi ukuholela ekukhulelwe uma u-ovulating.
Ingozi ebalwe yokukhulelwa esebenzisa indlela yokudonsa ikholelwa ukuthi ingaba ngu-4% emibhangqwana ekhishwa kahle njalo njalo (okusho kuwo wonke abesifazane abangu-100 abalingani babo abasebenzisa indlela yokukhipha njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, 4 ukhulelwe). Emibhangqwaneni engayisebenzisi kahle ngendlela ejwayelekile kakhulu, cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu, noma i-27%, izokhulelwa (abesifazane abangu-27 kwabangu-100 abasebenzisa indlela bayokhulelwa).
Ukusebenzisa Ukukhipha Indlela Ngokufanele
Ukubonisa ukuzithiba okukhulu nokuqaphela isikhathi kunesidingo sokusetshenziswa ngendlela efanele yokudonsa indlela. Amadoda kufanele akwazi ukwazi ncamashi ukuthi afika kuphi iphuzu lapho ukukhishwa kwe-ejaculation kungasakwazi ukumiswa noma ukubambezeleka. Ukulinganisela ngokunembile leli phuzu lokuzijabulisa ngokobulili kuyadingeka ukuze kukhishwe ngaphambi kokukhishwa kwe-ejaculation.
Kodwa ngisho nezinga elikhulu lokuzithiba egameni lomlingani wakho ngeke liqinisekise ukuthi ngeke ukhulelwe.
Uma usebenzisa indlela yokuhoxiswa yedwa, kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ukukhulelwa kungenzeka ngisho noma umlingani wakho ephuma ngesikhathi, njengoba isandulela-ejaculate yamanzi ingase iqukethe imilayezo yesithombo. Ukukhulelwa kungase kwenzeke uma imbewu noma isandulela-ejaculate yamanzi ichitheka ekuvuleni kwangaphandle kwesifazane (vulva).
Indlela yokudonsa inganciphisa amathuba akho okukhulelwa kancane, kodwa ayikuvikeli izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi noma izifo (ama- STD kanye nama-STIs ). Ukusebenzisa ikhondomu kungcono ukubheja kwakho ekunciphiseni ingozi ye-STD noma i-STI.
Izinzuzo zoKhipha Indlela
Ngenkathi kungenye yezinhlobo ezinzima kakhulu zokulawulwa kokuzalwa, kunezinzuzo ezimbalwa zokusebenzisa indlela yokuhoxiswa njengendlela yokukhulelwa, njenge:
- Ukudonsa kuphephile, kulula ukukwenza, futhi kulula ukubili owesilisa nowesifazane
- Uma kungekho enye indlela yokuthola imithi etholakalayo, indlela yokuhoxisa ingasetshenziswa njalo
- Awekho imiphumela emibi yokwelapha noma ye-hormonal ebikiwe ekusebenziseni indlela yokuhoxiswa njengendlela yokukhulelwa
- Le ndlela ayidingi imithi
- Ibiza kakhulu ngempumelelo njengoba ikhululekile
- Kungenza ezinye izinhlobo zokulawulwa kokuzalwa ziphumelele kakhulu uma zisetshenziselwa ngokuhlanganyela nezinye izinketho zokukhulelwa
Izingozi zokuKhipha nokuKhipha
Lokho kusho ukuthi ukusebenzisa indlela yokuhoxiswa njengendlela yakho kuphela yokulawulwa kokuzalwa kuhambisana nezinkinga ezimbalwa ezinkulu nezingozi, njenge:
- Ingozi yokukhulelwa okungadingeki
- Ingozi yokuthola noma yokudlulisa izifo zocansi
- Indlela ephakeme yokusebenzisa indlela yokuhoxiswa ngokungalungile (ikakhulukazi phakathi kwentsha namadoda angenalwazi)
- Kudinga ukuzithiba okukhulu, umkhuba, nesipiliyoni (futhi namanje akuqinisekisiwe ukusebenza)
- Akufanele isetshenziswe amadoda abhekana ne- ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi
Okubalulekile
Uma uzama ukugwema ukukhulelwa, usebenzisa izindlela ezengeziwe zokulawula ukubeletha njengamakhondomu, amaphilisi okuvimbela ukuzalwa (i-oral contraceptive), i-intrauterine device (IUD), imithi ye-spermicidal, i-Depo-Provera injections, noma ama-patches ama-hormone yizo zonke izinketho ezingasetshenziswa ngokuhambisana nokuhoxiswa. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuvikeleka kuma-STIs, kufanele ucabange ukusebenzisa amakhondomu, njengoba unikeza izinga eliphakeme lokuvikelwa kwabantu abadala abenza ucansi. Qinisekisa ukuthi ubuza umbelethisi wakho, udokotela, noma umnyango wezezempilo wendawo ukuze uthole iseluleko ngendlela ongcono ngayo.
Umthombo:
Umzali Ohleliwe. Ukuhoxiswa (Pull Out Method).