"Uyazi ukuthi yini eyabangela i-autism yengane yakho ?"
Uma ungumzali wengane embukisweni, uzwe lo mbuzo ... ngokuphindaphindiwe ... kusuka emndenini, abangane, abajwayele, nabantu abangaziwa ngokuphelele. Ubuye wezwa ukuthi kugijima njengesondo le-gerbil ekhanda lakho - futhi, cishe kungenzeka, ulizwile emaphupheni akho.
Ngeshwa, ngaphansi kwe-20% ye-autism inesizathu esaziwayo.
Eqinisweni, kunezimbalwa ezimbalwa eziyaziwayo ze-autism. Lokhu kuhlanganisa izifo zofuzo ezifana ne-Fragile X Syndrome, izidakamizwa ezithile ezithathwe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa (i-valproate ingenye yezidakamizwa ezimbalwa eziye zabonwa), noma imfanelo ecacile nelungelo elizuzile (kunezinye abantu abane-autism emndenini oseduze) . Imishanguzo , naphezu kwazo zonke izidakamizwa ezibazungezile, akuyona imbangela eyaziwayo ye-autism.
Ukuqonda ukuthi imbangela ye-autism ayivamile ukuyaziwa, kodwa, ayikuvimbeli abantu ukuba babuze lo mbuzo. Mhlawumbe nakakhulu nakakhulu, akuvimbeli abazali ukuba bakholelwe ukuthi bathole impendulo - ngisho noma, njengoba kunjalo njalo, abanakho indlela yokuqinisekisa ngempela inkolelo noma ukuqagela.
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Umzali wengane ene-autism okholwa ukuthi uyazi impendulo yombuzo (ngokufanele noma ngokungalungile) angase aphile nomqondo wecala elikhulu.
Ngingavumela kanjani i-X ukuba yenzeke (noma ingenzeki)? Ukubuza umbuzo - futhi ukuphakamisa imbangela - kungenza lo mzwa ube namandla kakhulu. Kungenxa yokuthi, kaningi, abazali abaphelelwe yithemba bangenaso isizathu ngenxa yendaba yokusakaza izindaba, imibuzo ye-Facebook, noma amazwana abekwe ngumuntu ongowesihambi.
Ngokwesibonelo:
"Ngezwa ukuthi uma umama esidla i-tuna ngenkathi ekhulelwe, ingane yakhe ingazalwa i-autistic."
"Ungavumela kanjani ingane yakho ukuba igonywe? UJenny McCarthy uthi imithi idala i-autism?"
"Uhlala ku-X city? Awazi ukuthi kukhona izitshalo zamalahle, futhi ukukhipha amalahle kungabangela i-autism?"
Ngokuvamile, abantu abangathinteki inkinga empeleni bafuna isizathu ngemuva kwenkinga ukuze baqiniseke ukuthi ngeke baphumelele enkingeni efanayo. Isibonelo, abantu bazobuza ngomuntu osanda kuthiwa unomdlavuza wamaphaphu, "Ingabe wayebhema?" Noma bazobuza ngomuntu oshaye isifo, "Ingabe wayekhuluphele?" Uma impendulo ingu "yebo," futhi engabhemi noma engaphezu komzimba ngokweqile, azizwa eqinisekisiwe: akakwazi ukubhekana nenkinga efanayo ngokwabo.
Nge-autism, noma kunjalo, ayisebenzi ngaleyo ndlela. Njengoba singazi ukuthi yini eyabangela inkinga, asikwazi ukukugwema noma ukunikeza icala.
Njengoba nje njalo, abantu abaphakamisa umbuzo abafuni ngempela impendulo. Esikhundleni salokho, bafuna ukuvulwa kokwakheka iphuzu labo lokubuka, ukwelapha, umkhiqizo, noma uhlelo lokukholelwa. Ngamanye amazwi, babuza umbuzo ngendlela efanayo nomthengisi womshuwalense angase abuze "Uke wacabanga ngomshuwalense wokuphila kamuva?"
Ngenxa yalokho, ukubuza umbuzo kungabangela imiphumela emibi kuphela; phakathi kwazo:
- Ukuvula ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo nokubuhlungu okungenakuxazululwa - ngoba akekho owaziyo imbangela ye-autism yengane;
- Ukukhulisa i-specter (futhi futhi) ukuthi umzali (ngokuvamile umama) wenza isinqumo esithile esibi ngesikhathi esithile esalimaza ingane yakhe;
- Ukuvula iminyango eya enkulumweni evela kumuntu ongenalo ulwazi lwangempela noma ulwazi mayelana nezimbangela kanye nokuphulukiswa kwesifo lapho izimbangela nokuphulukisa khona, ngokubanzi, ezingaziwa;
- Ukuqinisekisa ngomunye umzali ukuthi ingane yakhe ayinakwenzeka ukuba i-autistic ngoba ihlala endaweni ehlukile, idla ukudla okuhlukile, noma iphila ngokuhlukile okuhlukile komuntu onomntwana we-autistic;
- Ukukhathazeka ngokungadingekile komunye umzali ukuthi ingane yakhe ingenzeka ibe yi-autistic ngoba i-GAI ibelana ngokukhetha okungafaneleki njengokuphila, imikhuba yokudla, njll.
Ngaphansi, ngaphandle kokuthi umenyiwe ukuba ucabangele ngezimbangela ze-autism yengane ngabazali bengane-cha.