Isitayela sakho somzali asikwazi ukubangela i-autism, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ochwepheshe babekholelwa nini.
Igama elithi "umama wesiqandisisi" lahlelwa ukuchaza umzali ogama lakhe elibandayo, elingenandaba naye elincengayo ingane yakhe kangangokuthi waphinde wangena e-autism. Leli gama laqala ukuhlanganiswa nguLean Kanner, owanika igama le-autism. Lo mqondo wabangela ubuhlungu obukhulu emindenini eminingi amashumi eminyaka ngaphambi kokuba kukhishwe ngamashumi ama-1960.
Wayephi Umqondo WamaMama Esiqandisini?
USigmund Freud, ubaba wezingqondo zanamuhla, wayekholelwa ukuthi cishe zonke izinkinga ezingokwengqondo zibangelwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwasebuntwaneni.
I-Autism yayikholelwa ukuthi iyindlela yokugula kwengqondo, ngakho-ke kwakungengqondo ukucabanga ukuthi ibangelwe ukuhlukunyezwa kwangaphambili.
Kamuva, njengoba amaphayona e-autism uLobert Kanner noHans Asperger aqala ukuhlola lesi sifo, basebenza ngokuyinhloko nabazali abakhulu abazobe bezibonakalise sengathi zihlelekile futhi zibandayo.
U-Leo Kanner udutshulwe ngokufaka igama elithi "Umama Wesiqandisisi," mhlawumbe ngawo-1930. Nakuba ayekholelwa ukuthi i-autism cishe yayingenasifo emntwaneni, ubuye yabona ukushisa komama wabalandeli bakhe futhi bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kwanezela kule nkinga.
Ubani owaphakamisa umama Wesiqandisini?
UBruno Bettelheim, uprofesa odumile wokuthuthukiswa kwengane, wayevelele kakhulu phakathi kwawo-1940 nama-1970. Wayengumgqugquzeli omkhulu, futhi wayevame ukushiwo abezindaba. Wabamba umqondo kaMama Wesiqandisisi futhi wafanisa laba bazali kubaqaphi ekamu lokuhlushwa lamaNazi.
Incwadi kaBettelheim I-Empty Fortress: Infantile Autism kanye ne-Birth of the Self, kanye nokubonakala kwakhe emibonweni yesikhulumi se-premium-time kanye nomagazini abathandekayo basize ukuguqula umqondo wokuthi umama "oqandisini" ube umbono owakwamukeleka kakhulu.
Ubani Owakhipha Umqondo Wezimama Zesiqandisisi?
UDkt. Bernard Rimland, umsunguli oshonile nomqondisi we- Autism Research Institute , kuthiwa u-debunking lo mlando.
Njengomzali wengane ene-autism, wayenesithakazelo ekuhloliseni nasekuqondeni kangcono izimbangela ze-autism - nokususa umqondo odumile wokuthi umzali ompofu wayemele abekwe icala. Ucwaningo lwakhe, kanye nomsebenzi wakhe ekuletheleni abazali ndawonye njengabazimele, bashintsha ukucabanga ngezimpande ze-autism. Ngasekuqaleni kwawo-1970, umqondo othi "omama abaqandisisi" wawungasamukeli, futhi izindlela zokubeletha zazingasabhekisela ekucwaningweni ngezimbangela ze-autism.
Abazali ne-Autism Namuhla
Namuhla, ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe ukuba i-autism ibangelwa ukuhlanganiswa kwezakhi zofuzo nezendalo - futhi akuhlobene "nokubeletha okubandayo." Noma kunjalo, abazali basesesikhundleni esishisayo. Nakuba bengasolwa ngokubangela i-autism yezingane zabo, ngokuvamile kulindeleke ukuthi baphathe noma bathole ukwelashwa . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngababelapha nabagqugquzeli noma njengabacwaningi nabenzi bezinqumo zezokwelapha, abazali basesimweni esinomthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu.
Ukubhekana Nokuziphendulela
Ukubeletha ingane ene-autism kuwumsebenzi onzima. Esinye sezici ezinzima kunazo zonke ukulawula ukuzwa ukuthi unecala oluthola ukuxilongwa. Ingabe senze inkinga ngokuvumela ukugonywa ? Ngokumisa ingane yethu ku-toxin?
Ngokudlulisa ngezakhi zofuzo ezingalungile? Futhi ... akufanele yini senze okwengeziwe ukusiza ukuxazulula le nkinga? Amathiphu ayishumi okuphatha Ukuzizwa ngecala akhuluma ngamanye alawo mazwi futhi angasiza abazali ukuba baqonde imizwa yabo.
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