I-Autism Ingenza Ukuthandana Kukhohlise - Kodwa Kuyinto Engenakwenzeka!
I-Asperger syndrome ayisekho njengesixilongo esicacile. Namuhla, abantu abanezibonakaliso ze-Aspergers bathola ukuxilongwa kwe-autism ye-spectrum - becabanga ukuthi bakhetha ukufuna ukuxilongwa nhlobo. Noma kungenakuthola ukuxilongwa, kungaba nzima ukuphatha umshado kumuntu onenkinga ngamakhono ezenhlalakahle, ukukhulumisana nabanye, ukuqonda okuzwelayo, noma ukuguquguquka kokucabanga.
Nakuba ungase uthande umlingani wakho ngokusebenza okuphezulu kwe-autism, akulula ukugcina lo mdlalo uphila. UDkt. Robert Naseef kanye nosebenza naye uCindy Ariel bangcweti ekululekeleni imindeni ngamalungu e-autistic. Banikeza ulwazi oluqondile kanye nezeluleko kubalingani abaphila nge-autism ephezulu yokusebenza.
UDkt. Robert Naseef: Ukunqoba Ubuningi Emshadweni
Uma kukhona igama elilodwa elichaza ukusabela kwelungu lomndeni ekuxilongweni kwe-autism kumuntu omthandayo, lelo gama liyisizungu. Uma leli gama likuchazela, qiniseka ukuthi awodwa owodwa lokwamukela le mpendulo. Kukhona usizo olutholakala kokubili wena nomlingani wakho. Manje ukuthi i-autism iyaziwa kabanzi, abantu abadala kanye nezingane okungenzeka zingabonakali njenge-autistic esikhathini esedlule, ziyatholakala. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kwi- autism ephezulu yokusebenza (i-HFA) ne-Asperger Syndrome, (isifo esingasatholakali ezincwadini zokuxilonga).
Kukhona ngisho ne-website enikezwe izinkinga ezibhekene nabashade nabalingani ku-Asperger Syndrome Partners kanye Nezidingo Zomuntu, Ukukhuthazwa Nokusekela. Kunezihloko eziningi eziwusizo ezigcinwe lapha. Kukhona uhlu lokubhaliselwa nge-imeyili kubantu abane-autism ephezulu yokusebenza, nalabo abanomzali, umlingani, noma ingane ene-autism.
Okuhlangenwe nakho komndeni kanye nokuxoxisana, izinsiza, amathiphu okusinda, isikhuthazo, nethemba linikelwa khona.
Kungenxa yalolu hlobo lokuhlanganyela abantu abaningi abasizana ekunciphiseni imithwalo yokuphila kanye nokuthola amasu kanye nezixazululo zokubhekana nezinkinga eziningi ebuhlotsheni. Ngokuqinisekile, akulula ukuvula igebe lokuxhumana elikhona empilweni yansuku zonke oyichazayo. Ngesikhathi esisodwa sikhululekile futhi siboshelwe kuyinkimbinkimbi yokukhohlisa. Ngokuvamile, ngolwazi oluthe xaxa lufika ithemba, ngakho-ke ungase ufune ukufunda okwengeziwe nge-autism. Kunezincwadi eziningi namawebhusayithi. Isayithi elilodwa lezokwelapha eliqala ukuqala kuzoba uhlelo lwe-PENN Social Learning Disorders Program. Lapho uzobona isimo somlingani wakho esichazwe njengesifo sokufunda social okuyindlela ewusizo yokubheka umehluko wakhe nezinselelo ezibhekene nazo zombili.
Kubalulekile ukubheka umlando wobudlelwane bakho. Kumele ube nezikhathi ezinhle futhi wabelana ngemizwa emihle ngomunye nomunye. Zama ukubuyisa lokho okukuhlanganisile. Ungase uzuze ngokubonisana nodokotela wezezempilo yengqondo onolwazi ekusizeni abantu ngesimo sakho. Ngisho noma umlingani wakho engazange ahambe nawe, ungathola ulwazi oluthile ngobudlelwane obuzokusiza ukuthi ushintshe imakhemikhali ebuhlotsheni bakho.
UDkt. Cindy Ariel: Ukwelashwa Kokuqonda Kungenza Umehluko Omuhle
Abantu bangashintsha. Ekusebenzeni kwethu, sisiza abantu ukuthi bashintshe futhi bangenzi lokho esikwenzayo uma singakholelwa ngokuqiniseka ukuthi kungenzeka. Iningi labantu abane-autism ephezulu esebenzayo lisebenza ezingeni eliphakeme lokuqonda futhi lokho kusho ukuthi umlingani wakho uzokwazi ukusebenzisa lokho kuhlakanipha ukuze afunde ukuziphatha komphakathi okwamukelekile emphakathini nokuzwela.
Uma umlingani wakho ezimisele ukubona umeluleki , noma ngisho ukuthola umbono wesibili, kungamsiza ukuthi abone ukuthi kunzima yini ukwamukela okwamanje. Ukufunda izincwadi zabanye abantu abadala abane-autism njengoStephen Shore, uMninimkhulu weThempeli noDonna Williams kungase kube usizo kakhulu ukuba aqale ukuqoqa ubufakazi obunokuqonda engase abudinge ukuze aqonde ukuthi uyatholakala yini.
Abantu abane-autism bayakwazi ukuqhubekela phambili; hhayi ngokushesha futhi kalula mhlawumbe kodwa kancane kancane futhi kancane kancane. Kudinga ukubekezela nokubekezela. Kuzo zombili kuzodingeka ushintshe okunye kokuqonda kwakho kwamanje nokulindela. Kuyo yonke imishado, imibhangqwana kumele ibeke ukuzidela nokuyekethisa engakulindele futhi lokhu kuvame ukuletha imibhangqwana ezindaweni ezivuthiwe kakhulu othandweni, emshadweni, nokuzibophezela komunye nomunye.
URobert Naseef, Ph.D., noCindy Ariel, Ph.D., bangabalingisi be-"Amazwi avela ku-Spectrum: Abazali, Ugogo nomkhulu, Abantakwethu, Abantu abane-Autism, nabasebenzi Ababelana Ngokuhlakanipha Kwabo" (2006). Ewebhu kwizinye izinketho.