Kuzoze kube nini ukwelashwa ngokomzimba kungumbuzo ovamile owawufunwa iziguli eziningi. Nakuba umbuzo ngokwawo ulula, impendulo yinkinga kakhulu. Khumbula, umuntu ngamunye uhlukile, futhi izici eziningi zingase zidlale ekunqumeni ukubikezela kwakho konke nobude bokuthwala umzimba. Ngakho kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani?
Ngeshwa, ayikho impendulo efanele kulombuzo.
Umuntu ngamunye uhlukile, ngakho-ke izinga lomuntu lokuphulukisa nalo lihlukile. Kungathatha umuntu oyedwa kuphela izinsuku ezintathu ukuhamba ngezinyawo eziyikhulu ngemva kokuhlinzwa kwamadolo, noma kunjalo, isiguli esasihlinzwa ngosuku olufanayo singadinga izinsuku ezinhlanu ukuze sifinyelele ibanga elifanayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuhlukahluka kokubona ubuhlungu, ukugqugquzela, nokulinganisa ukuphulukisa ngamunye wethu.
Esikhundleni sokubeka usuku oluzoqedela ukwelashwa, faka imigomo ehlukahlukene ongathanda ukuyifinyelela ngesikhathi sokuvuselela uhlelo lwakho. Yenza lokhu kugxile, hhayi isikhathi. Zizuze ngokwakho ukuze ufeze lezi zinhloso, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthathwe isikhathi sokufinyelela kuzo. Udokotela wakho wezempilo angakusiza ukusetha lezi zinhloso zokwelashwa futhi kungakusiza ukugcina ithrekhi.
Indlela Yokukwazi Uma Ukwelashwa Kwemvelo Kumele Uyeke
Lapho uye ekwelapheni ngokomzimba, kufanele ube nemigomo ethile engqondweni ekusebenzeni kuyo. Ngakho wazi kanjani ukuthi kufanele umise yini ukwelapha ? Ezinye izinto ezingase zibonise ukuthi yisikhathi sokuyeka ukwelashwa ngokomzimba zingabandakanya:
- Intuthuko yakho ithathe indawo
- Isimo sakho siyanda
- Ufeze yonke imigomo yakho
- Ubuhlungu bakho buye
- Ubuyele ezingeni lakho langaphambilini lomsebenzi nokuhamba komsebenzi
Lapho lezi zinto zenzekile, udinga ukukhuluma nomhlinzeki wakho womzimba ukuze uxoxe ngokuyeka uhlelo lwakho lokubuyisela kabusha.
Umhlinzeki wakho womzimba angakusiza ukuba uguqulwe ohlelweni lwakho lokuvota ekhaya olujwayelekile ukuvimbela izinkinga zesikhathi esizayo ngesimo sakho.
Uma ungafinyelelanga yonke imigomo yakho ye-rehab, ungakhathazeki. Kumele ukwazi ukusebenza ngokuzimela ukuze uqhubeke uphonsela ekuqondeni impilo efanele nokuhamba. Ngezinye izikhathi, isimo sakho singase sibe njalo ukuze ungalokothi ubuyele ezingeni lakho langaphambilini lomsebenzi. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, isazi sakho somzimba singakunika amasu okuguqula umsebenzi wakho futhi ubuyele ekuhambeni okuphezulu.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ngeshwa, ukwelashwa ngokomzimba kuphela ngoba inkampani yakho yomshuwalense ngeke iqhubeke nokukhokha izinsizakalo zobuchwepheshe bomuthi wezokwelapha. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, umhlinzeki wakho womzimba kanye nomtholampilo oya kuyo bangakwazi ukusebenza nawe ukusetha inkokhelo efanele yokuqhubeka kwezinsizakalo zakho zokwelapha ngokomzimba. Uma ukhetha ukungabi khona, sebenzisa umhlinzeki wakho wezokwelapha ukuze uthole uhlelo lokukhishwa olufanele ukuze uqhubeke usebenza kabusha ekhaya lakho.
Iphuzu esheshayo ekunciphiseni isikhathi esichithwa ekwelapheni kungenxa yokusebenza kohlelo lokuzivocavoca ekhaya. Nakuba uchwepheshe wezokwelapha esebenza nesiguli ngesikhathi sokulashwa, kubalulekile ukuba isiguli sithinte indima emsebenzini wabo wokwelapha.
Ukubamba iqhaza nsuku zonke ohlelweni lokuzivocavoca ekhaya kuyisici esikhulu sokuthi umuntu uyabuyiselwa kanjani ngokushesha.
Ihlelwe ngu-Brett Sears, PT.