Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi intsha (kanye nabantu abadala) abacabangi ukuthi ubulili bomlomo buba "ngokobulili wangempela" futhi, ngakho-ke, yenzeni ngendlela elula. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi ukusakazeka kocansi ngomlomo phakathi kwabafundi basesikoleni esiphakeme kungumlando wesigodi, futhi babuze ukuthi "akunjalo ngokobulili wangempela" noma kuyiqiniso ngempela.
Ngenhlanhla, asikho isidingo sokuthembela ekuqagela, izinkolelo, noma izinkolelo.
Ucwaningo oluthile lubuke ukuthi kaningi kangakanani intsha ephethe ucansi lomlomo, futhi maduzane iqale ukuyenza. Kuncike ekamu eliwela kuwo, kungaphezulu ("Izingane azikwenzi lokho!") Noma ngaphansi ("Izingane zicabanga ukuthi akuyona into enkulu!") Kunokuba ungacabanga.
Imiphumela Yokufundwa
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abaningi abangamaphesenti angu-20% asebekhulile baye baba nobulili ngomlomo ekupheleni konyaka wabo omusha esikoleni esiphakeme. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekupheleni kweminyaka yabo yentsha, iningi lamatshumi amabili nantathu lamadoda nabesifazane abasha bahlanganyele ocansini ngomlomo nomlingani wobulili obuhlukile.
Ngeshwa, ngenxa yokuthi izinhlelo zokufundisa ngezocansi zivame ukugxila ekukhusheni, abaningi balaba abasha abazi ukuthi ubulili bomlomo bungaba nezingozi zangempela - kokubili ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Izingozi zezocansi zomlomo ezisakhulayo azikho ezinjengezo zocansi noma ezenzweni zobulili zangasese , kepha ukubeka ocansini ngomlomo kubeka intsha engozini yezinkinga ezihlukahlukene ze-STD, kubandakanya umdlavuza we- syphilis , herpes , kanye ne- HPV-umlomo we-throat .
Lezi zingozi zingancishiswa ngokusebenzisa izithiyo zombili i- fallatio ne- cunnilingus , kepha intsha eningi ayiqapheli ukuthi ubulili obuphephile buyinto yokukhetha ucansi ngomlomo.
Ucwaningo lukazwelonke olubheka isikhathi sokulala ngomlomo uma kuqhathaniswa nobulili besifazane phakathi kwabangu-15 kuya kwengu-24 bathola ukuthi cishe ingxenye yesine yamadoda nabesifazane abasha bezocansi kuqala, ingxenye yesine yalala ngokokuqala, kanti kuphela amaphesenti amahlanu kuphela akhetha nje kuphela ocansini ngomlomo.
Leyo phesenti yayiphakeme kakhulu phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka engu-15 kuya kwengu-17 abasesesikoleni esiphakeme. Kukhona amaphesenti ayisishiyagalombili wabesifazane abasha kanye namaphesenti angu-12 ensizwa ayesebenzelana ngokocansi kuphela.
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ukulala ocansini ngomlomo osemncane kungase kube isibonakaliso senhloso yentsha yokuzibandakanya kwezinye, okungenzeka kube yingozi, imisebenzi yezocansi njengokwenza ucansi. Ucwaningo olulodwa lwango-2010 lwathola ukuthi abafundi abaye banquma ukuba nobulili bomlomo babe nethuba lokuhlola ubulili besifazane ngesikhathi sokufunda esikoleni esiphakeme kunalabo abayeka ucansi ngomlomo. Abaningi babo balinde izinyanga ezingaphansi kwengu-6.
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