Ingabe unayo lapho ungakwazi nje ukukhumbula igama lomuntu? Uhlangabezane naye ngaphambilini futhi uyakhonza ngegama. Wena uphendula, "Kuhle ukukubona futhi!" (Futhi ithemba aluboni ukuthi awuzange usebenzise igama lakhe).
Abanye abantu babonakala bekhono kakhulu ukukhumbula nokusebenzisa amagama. Abanye babonakala behlupha ngokuphindaphindiwe, naphezu kokuzwa igama izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa.
Izinzuzo Zokusebenzisa Amagama
Ukuhlakulela isipho sokufunda amagama kungakuzuzisa emphakathini nasemisebenzini, futhi kuveza abanye ukuthi kubalulekile- ukuthi empeleni unakekele ngokwanele ukwazi igama labo futhi uwaqonde ngokuqondile.
Kungani Kunzima Ukukhumbula Amagama?
Ngakho-ke, ingabe abanye abantu banesipho esinamandla ngokwemvelo-ukukhumbula noma baye basebenza ekuthuthukiseni leso sipho? Ingabe abanye babenakho ukukhumbula kahle amagama?
Esinye isizathu sokukhumbula amagama kungase kube nzima, ngokusho kukaDkt. Richard Harris waseKansas State University, ukuthi ngokuvamile asilaleli. UHarris ubonisa ukuthi iningi labantu linomqondo omuhle ngenjongo ethile, futhi "into" ixhomeke ekuthandweni kwabo. Labo abasetshenziswe ebuhlotsheni bomphakathi bangase babe nesisusa esiphezulu sokulalela amagama lapho behlangana nabantu abasha.
Ukuphazamiseka nakho kungadlala indima. Singase sithunyelwe kubantu abaningi ngesikhathi esisodwa, sixoxe ekhanda lethu inkulumo okufanele siyenze emizuzwini engu-10 noma sikhathele kusukela osukwini olude futhi silindele ukuphumula ekhaya.
Amasu okukhumbula amagama
- Phinda igama ekhanda lakho.
- Phinda igama lomuntu ngokuzwakalayo. ("Sawubona uJohn! Kuhle ukukuhlangabeza.")
- Yenza ngamabomu ngokulalela igama.
- Buza ukuthi ungayipela kanjani, uma engavamile futhi efanelekile.
- Namathisela incazelo ekhanda lakho. Uma igama lakhe linguSam, zicabange ngokwakho ukuthi uSam uhlabelela kanjani ngendlala, indlala imfushane emndenini kanti uSam unomndeni omkhulu.
- Qopha igama efonini yakho emva kokuhlangana naye. (Yebo, lokhu "ukukopela," kodwa kuyasiza.)
- Yenza iphuzu ukusebenzisa amagama abantu njalo ukuze umise umkhuba.
- Qonda ukubaluleka kokusebenzisa amagama. Khumbula ukuthi amagama ayindlela eyinhloko yokuxhuma nabanye.
Ukufunda Nokukhumbula Amagama EmaQembu Amakhulu
Esikoleni, kungenzeka ukuthi wadlala umdlalo wegama ngosuku lokuqala lwekilasi. Umfundi ngamunye kufanele azethule ngokusho igama lakhe bese ekhomba into ayithandayo eqala ngenye incwadi njengegama lakhe lokuqala. Isibonelo, umfundi wokuqala angase athi, "Ngingu-Esther futhi ngithanda amaqanda." Umfundi olandelayo uyothi, "U-Esther uyathanda amaqanda. NginguTim futhi ngithanda itiye." Olandelayo uzothi, "U-Esther uyathanda amaqanda." UThim uthandwa itiye. NginguSam futhi ngithanda uSushi. " Uhamba ekamelweni lonke ngale ndlela kuze kube yilapho umuntu wokugcina ethi amagama omuntu nalokho umuntu ngamunye akuthandayo.
Iphuma, kukhona ucwaningo olusekela le ndlela, ngaphezu kobufakazi be-anecdotal. I- Journal of Experimental Psychology Applied yashicilela ucwaningo olwenziwe ngokuyinhloko umqondo ofanayo ngemva kokuyihlola ngokwesayensi.
Kungani isebenza? Isebenzisa amaqhinga amaningana ahlongozwe ngenhla. Kudinga ukunakekelwa, ukuphindaphinda (kokubili ngokuzwakalayo nasemqondweni wakho njengoba ulinde isikhathi sakho) futhi ihlobanisa enye into negama elisiza ukunikeza incazelo.
Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukuhlaziywa okunengqondo , futhi ngokuvamile kuphumelela kakhulu kunokuphindaphinda okulula ukubeka ulwazi ezinkumbulo zethu.
Ingabe Ukukhohlwa Amagama Isibonakaliso Esiyisixwayiso Sengqondo ?
Mhlawumbe uyazi umuntu onomqondo owohloka komqondo ongakwazi ukukhumbula amagama abantu. Ungatshela ngokumomotheka kwakhe ukuthi uyakukuqaphela, kodwa akakwazi ukuza negama lakho. Ngenkathi ukuthola amagama nokulahlekelwa kwamagama kuvela ekudemeni komqondo, ukungakwazi ukukhumbula igama lomunye umuntu ngokuvamile kuyindaba yokungalokothi ifunde ekuqaleni.
Kodwa-ke, uma ungakwazi ukukhumbula amagama amalungu omndeni futhi kaningi akakwazi ukufika ngegama elifanele, yisikhathi sokwenza i-aphoyintimenti nodokotela wakho ukuhlola lezi zinto ezikhathazayo.
Udokotela wakho angahle ahlele ezinye izivivinyo ezingasiza ekutholeni izimbangela ezingenzeka eziguquguqukayo zememori encane , njengezinga eliphansi levithamini B12 noma ukutheleleka . Angakwazi futhi ukuhlola izibonakaliso zengqondo. Ngisho noma lokhu kungase kube nakho okukhathazayo okukukhathazayo, kunezinzuzo eziningi ekutholeni ukugula komqondo kwangaphambili, kufaka phakathi kungenzeka ukuthi ukwelashwa okuphumelelayo.
Imithombo:
I-Journal of Psychology Yokuhlola Isebenza. 2000. Vol. 6. Cha. 124-129. Igama Legama: Ukusebenzisa Ukubuyisela Ukuzikhandla Ukuthuthukisa Ukufunda Amagama.
I-Kansas State University. Izinsizakalo Zezindaba Nezokuxhumana. Juni 20, 2012. Ungubani igama lakho futhi? Kungani kungenakuba ikhono lobuchopho bakho kodwa ukungabi nentshisekelo kwakho okubangela inkumbulo embi.