... kanye nolwazi oludinga ukukwenza
Abanye abazali bangathanda ukwenza lutho kunokukhuluma nezingane zabo mayelana nobulili. Umcabango wokuthi intsha yabo ocansini iyesabeka kakhulu ukucabanga futhi ithemba ngokuthi ngokungakhulumi ngakho, noma ngokukhuluma nje ngobulili, ukuthi intsha yabo ayisoze yaba nayo. Ngokudabukisayo, akusebenzi kanje. Ukungakhulumi ngocansi nezingane zakho akubavimbeli ukuba bangakuzwa ngakho, kubangelwa ukuba bangazizwa ngakho ngawe.
Ngeke yini ukwazi ukuthi ulwazi abalutholayo lwalungile, futhi lunembile, futhi lwaklanyelwe ukubasiza benze izinqumo ezingcono kakhulu kungenzeka?
Ukukhuluma nezingane zakho ngezocansi akubenzi ukuba babe nobulili. Uma kukhona, kungaba nomphumela ohlukile. Ukufundiswa kobulili okuphelele kuye kwaboniswa ngokuphindaphindiwe , ngokuphindaphindiwe , ukunciphisa ukukhulelwa kwentsha ngenkathi kungakhulumi ingozi yezocansi, ngakho-ke yini engaba ngcono ezinganeni zakho kunokukhuluma ngezocansi ekhaya? Ulwazi olunembile, olunolwazi, ulwazi olunengqondo yisikhali sakho esingcono kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni impilo yabo yocansi kanye nobuhlobo bomshado kodwa nobuhlobo bakho nengane yakho. Ukutshela intsha iqiniso ngezocansi, kunokuba nje ukhuthaze ukuyeka ukuzibulala, kungaphezulu kokubangela ukuba bakwethembe futhi balalele iseluleko sakho lapho benza izinqumo.
Ukukhuluma Nezingane
- Ibizwa ngokuthi Izinyoni nezinyosi (ubuningi) ngesizathu.
Iyini imfihlo yangempela yokukhuluma nezingane zakho mayelana nobulili nokubenza balalele? Akugcini nje ukukhuluma nabo ngaso leso sikhathi - ukuphindaphinda akuyona nje imfihlo yokudlala, kuyimfihlo yokuxhumana okuhle.
Umbuzo waseMariya
- I-Sex Ed ephelele
Abanye abazali kanye nezombangazwe abaqiniseki ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngokufundisa kwemfundo egcwele yezocansi ezikoleni. Nakuba ngiyavuma ukuthi akukho okunye okufaka esikhundleni sokuxoxa nabasha bakho ekhaya, kunzima ukuphikisana nokusebenza kahle kwemfundo yezocansi ezisekelwe ezikoleni. Nansi yonke imininingwane oyidingayo ukuthi ufunde ukuthi isebenza kanjani, ukuthi isebenza kanjani, nokuthi kungani abazali abazokhetha intsha yabo ukugwema ukulala ocansini kufanele babheke ukugqugquzela othisha babo ukuba bahlale ekuqedeni kuphela.
- Izibopho zobunganikazi
Izifungiso zobunganikazi zibonakala sengathi zifanele zingabi nengozi. Yini engaba yingozi ngokugqugquzela intombazane ukuthi isayine iphepha noma igqoke indandatho yokuziyeka? Ubungamangala ... - I-Hymen: Inganekwane noma i-Maidenhead?
Abantu bangaphansi kokungaqondi kahle ukuthi ukuba ne-hymen eqondile kufana nentombazane "ehlanzekile," ehlukile futhi ephephile kuma- STD . Eqinisweni, konke okuyingxenye yesikhumba, futhi okungeke kusetshenziswe ngokunembile njenge-barometer kokuziphatha noma ubulili besipiliyoni. - Ubulili Nenkosikazi Akuyona Ubulili Evikelekile
Uma umlingani wakho wezocansi engumfana akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuthola i-STD. Kungenxa yokuthi umuntu "uyintombi" akusho ukuthi ukulala nabo kungenengozi.
Ukuhlaselwa KuGritty Yama-Nitty
- Isizathu Sokuba Udinga Ukukhuluma Nge-Sex Oral
Kusukela ezintweni izingane zizwa ezindabeni kulezi zinsuku, akumangazi ukuthi abaningi babo bacabanga ukuthi ubulili bomlomo buyizocansi nhlobo. Nakuba abazali bangase bangabaze ukuxoxa ngezici ezithile zobulili nezingane zabo, kubalulekile ukuthi bakwenze. Izingane zabo kungenzeka sezivele zihlanganyela ocansini ngomlomo ngenkathi zingazi ukuthi zibeka engozini yezocansi ezihlukahlukene. - Amanga nge-Who Needed Sex Safe
Akekho othanda ukuzicabanga ukuthi usengozini yokukhulelwa okungadingeki noma izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi. Esikhundleni sokumane nje ukhethe ukungabi ocansini noma ukusebenzisa amakhondomu noma ezinye izinhlobo zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa, zikwazi ukuzitshela ukuthi azikho engozini. Nazi ezinye izinkolelo ezingalungile mayelana nokuthi ubani owenza, futhi akudingeki, asebenzise ubulili obuvikelekile obuvamile kulabo abasha kanye nabantu abadala.
Basize Bazilungiselele
- Ukuphepha nokuzimela
Ukulungiselela izingane zakho ukwenza izinqumo ezihlakaniphile mayelana nobulili futhi uzilungiselela ukwenza izinqumo ezihlakaniphile ngokuphila. Basize baqiniseke ukuthi bakwazi ukuzimela, benze izinqumo zabo, futhi bazenzele futhi bazobe sebekulungele ukubhekana nezwe. - Hlukana Nalokho Okuthola Esikhathini Esibukwayo Sock
Uma ubhekana nezingane zakho ngaphezu kokuthola amakhondomu esitokisini sabo sock noma esikhwameni, ingabe ucabanga ukuthi kuzobavimbela ukuba bahlanganyele ocansini? Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi bazoyeka ukuthenga amakhondomu. Njengoba unikezwe ukuthi awukwazi ukulawula ukukhetha kwabo, bekungeke yini kube lula uma bekulungele ukwenza okuphephile?
I-HPV Vaccine: Okuningi Oyaziyo
- Indlela i-HPV Vaccine isebenza ngayo
Ngenkathi kuqala ukukhulelwa kwe-HPV, umngane wami wangitshela ukuthi abafundi bakhe bacela ukuthi ngabe umuthi wokugoma ungabanika umdlavuza. Lena incazelo yami yokuthi uGarasil isebenza kanjani, futhi kungani lokho akuyona into okudingeka bayikhathazeke ngayo. - Ukuphepha kwe-Gardasil Ukukhuluma ngezinto ongadingeki ukhathazeke ngazo, umbuzo wezokuphepha u-Gardasil usuqothule ngokuphelele kulezi zindaba. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungani, kufanele uqonde ukuthi idatha yokuphepha komgogodla iqoqwe kanjani e-US, nokuthi yiziphi imibiko ezingakwazi futhi azikwazi ukutshela abazali nodokotela.
- Ukugunyaza i-HPV Vaccine
Kukhona umbuzo oqhubekayo emibuthanweni yezombangazwe mayelana nokuthi noma ngabe kufanele yini ukuthi kufanele ukugunyaza umgomo we-HPV. Nansi ulwazi oluthile oludingayo ukuze ukwazi ukulinganisa kule mpikiswano
Intsha Akuyona Abadala Abancane Nje
- Indawo yokuguqula
Imizimba esencane isenqubo yokushintsha okukhulu. Ukuguquka kokuphakama nokuthuthukiswa kwezici zesondo zobulili eziyisisekelo kuphela ezimbili zazo. Lezi zinguquko zibalulekile, hhayi ngezizathu ezicacile. Inqubo yokuthi umlomo wesibeletho uqala kanjani ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa empeleni ibeka amantombazane entsha engozini enkulu yezifo uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane abadala.
Ngeziqephu: Indlela iSayensi Esebenza ngayo
- Ukuthola Iqiniso Emaphenyweni
Uma ungakwazi ukuthola impendulo eqondile evela enganeni yakho ngalokho abakwenza esikoleni, kungenzeka ukuthi ososayensi bangalindela kanjani ukuthola izimpendulo ezinembile ngezihloko ezibucayi ezifana nocansi? Kulula, yingakho bachitha isikhathi esiningi nokuzama ukukwenza kahle. - Ukuhlala Kuphezulu Kwezinkinga
Lapho ososayensi befuna ukwazi okuthile, njengabanye abantu, bafuna ukwazi manje. Noma kunjalo, bafunde ukuthi ukuze bathole izimpendulo ezinhle, badinga ukubuza imibuzo emihle. Inqubo yokwakha ithuluzi eliqinisekisiwe ithatha isikhathi, yingakho ngezinye izikhathi kungase kubonakale sengathi unaphakade ngaphambi kwedatha esisha, ezishisayo, imibuzo yesayensi iqala ukuvela.