Yazi ukuthi uzokhuluma nini futhi kanjani
Abadala nokushayela-kuyisifundo esithinta inhliziyo. Ungaba ushayela nomama noma ubaba futhi uqaphele okuthile okuphelile. Mhlawumbe umama uye wangena emathinini ambalwa emgwaqeni futhi wakutshela ngothando, noma ubaba walahlekelwa endaweni yakhe. Zonke lezi ziyizimpawu eziyisixwayiso, futhi njengazo zonke izinto ezihlobene nabadala, okwenza kuqala ukukhuluma ngale ndaba kuzokwenza ukuthi umdala wakho amthande ngokuphepha futhi futhi kube lula esikhathini esizayo lapho mhlawumbe kudingeka khona ukuyeka ukushayela.
Ake sibheke indlela yokukhuluma ngayo nomama noma ubaba mayelana nokushayela nokukwazi ukuthi kungaba nini isikhathi sokususa okhiye bemoto.
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I-AAA kathathu iphawula la maqiniso ngokushayela okuphezulu kuwebhusayithi yabo:
- Amaphesenti angamashumi amahlanu abantu abaneminyaka ephakathi nendawo nabantu abangamaphesenti angu-80 abaneminyaka engama-70 ubudala abanesifo samathambo, okwenza ukuba kuguquke, kuguquguquke, futhi kube nokubuhlungu.
- Amaphesenti angaba ngu-75 abashayeli abaneminyaka yobudala engama-65 noma ngaphezulu asebenzisa imithi eyodwa noma ngaphezulu, kodwa ngaphansi kwengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yokuqwashisa okuqashelwa ukuthi kungaba nemiphumela emihle yemithi ekusebenzeni ngokushayela.
- Izinga lokushayisana kwabantu ababulalayo likhuphuka kusukela ekuqaleni kweminyaka yobudala engama-75 futhi zikhuphuka ngokumangalisayo ngemva kweminyaka engu-80. Lokhu kungenxa yengozi yokulimala nokucindezeleka kwezokwelapha, kunokuba kube nokuthambekela okwandayo ukungena ekuphazamiseni. Ngamanye amazwi, impilo esebenzayo yabadala ibenza bahlelwe kakhudlwana ukulimala kakhudlwana engozini.
- Ngonyaka ka-2030, izigidi ezingama-70 zaseMelika e-US zizoba ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-65, kanti amaphesenti angama-85 kuya kwangu-90 azovunyelwa ukushayela.
Issue Ekhokhiswa Ngokwengqondo
Kuthiwani uma nginitshele ukuthi kusasa, nje usuku, ungabeka ngokuzumayo ungekho imoto etholakalayo? Kuthiwani uma ngithi ngesonto? Ungaqala ukubona indlela ukuzimela kwakho nokuzizwa kwakho kuzothinteka ngayo.
Imoto imelela izinto ezahlukene kubantu. Kwabanye, kuyindlela yokufinyelela ezindaweni.
Kwabanye, kuqondene nesimo nobunikazi, inkululeko nokuzikhethela. Ngemuva kokuphila kokushayela cishe konke, kulula ukucabanga ukuthi kungaba nzima kangakanani kubazali bakho ukuyeka ukuhamba kwezimoto zabo. Ukubona ukuthi ukushayela kusho ukuthini kubo kungakusiza ukwazi ukuthi ungasondela kanjani esimweni.
Ukushayela Izinkinga Zokushayela
Ungayitshela kanjani lapho umthandi wakho osekhulile eqala ukuba nezinkinga zokushayela?
Uma usondelene nendawo, into enhle ukugcina ngokuqondile. Ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwezibonakaliso ezingathí sina futhi ezingathí sina ezinkingeni. Isibonelo, ukudideka igesi nge-brake kuyingozi. Ukugibela i-brake kungase kungabi njalo. Uma ungathí sina, thatha isinyathelo ngokushesha. Uma kungenjalo, qaphela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uthathe amanothi, futhi ubheke iphethini elivumelanayo. La maqiniso azosiza lapho uxoxa.
Izinto okumele uzifune zifaka:
- bezama ukushintsha imigwaqo
- izinkinga eziphendukayo, ikakhulukazi ezishiya ngakwesokunxele
- ukushayela kakhulu kancane noma ngokushesha kakhulu
- isikhathi sokuphendula
- abanye abashayeli bahlonipha
- ukushaya ama-curbs
- izimpawu ezilandelayo
- ama-scrape on izimoto
Ngokuvamile, abadala asebekhulile bazoqala ukuzilungisa, begweme ukushayela ebusuku, kusimo sezulu esibi, nasemigwaqeni emikhulu. Umama, isibonelo, waqala ukuhamba ngezindawo ngokulungisa isandla. Dumisa lezi ziphathamandla, kodwa futhi zithathe njengezibonakaliso ukuthi izinto zingase zishintshe.
Ungase uthole ukuthi kuyasiza ukuhlola nabangani babo, ngoba kungenzeka bazi okungaphezu kwakho. Futhi hlola nodokotela noma umuthi wezokwelapha, njengoba ukuguqulwa kwemithi kungathinta ukushayela.
Imingcele yobudala kanye nezivivinyo zokushayela
Abantu bavame ukubuza ukuthi kunesidingo esithile esinconyelwe ukuyeka ilayisense yakho.
Inqubo yokuguga ihlukile kuwo wonke umuntu, ngakho kunzima ukulawula lokhu. Wonke umbuso unemithetho yawo.
Ngokuvamile abantu abadala basuke bebhekiswe phambili ekubalweni kwezibalo. Ngemuva kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi balimala engozini futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bazofa ngalowo kulimala. Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngenhla kolwazi lwe-AAA, kungenxa yokuthi abadala bavame ukuphika kancane futhi banesibindi kunabashayeli abasha.
Esimweni sasekhaya laseNorth Carolina, abashayeli abaneminyaka engu-70 noma ngaphezulu ngaleso sikhathi ilayisense yokushayela ikhona manje kudingeka ukuba bavuselele ilayisense yabo ngabanye ehhovisi le-DMV lendawo.
Ukuvuselelwa kabusha kweMinyango yezimoto (DMV) kungenziwa ngokusekelwe esimweni somzimba noma somqondo womshayeli noma irekhodi lokushayela. Ukuhlolwa kabusha kwe-DMV kunganconywa ilungu lomndeni, i-EMT, noma iphoyisa. Ukwaziswa kwirekhodi labazali bakho lokushayela kungase kuvuselele kabusha.
Ukuhlaziywa kabusha kuhilela ukuhlolwa okusheshayo komuntu yi-DMV ogunyaziwe. Iqukethe ingxoxo futhi ingabandakanya nokuhlolwa kombono, ukuhlolwa okubhalwe phansi, kanye / noma ukuhlolwa kokushayela.
Qala Ingxoxo
Okuhle, uqala ingxoxo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi hhayi esimweni esibucayi.
Kufanele uqale izingxoxo ezivamile. Funa ukuvulwa kokuthile abakushoyo. Ngokwesibonelo, cabanga ukuthi ubheka izindaba futhi zibika ngengozi. Noma mhlawumbe isimo sezulu sibi. Ungathi kumama noma ubaba okuthile ngezingozi zaleyo ndawo yangaphandle nokuthi ngabe ngabe ungubani, ungacabangela ezinye izindlela. Noma ngokuphathelene nesimo sezulu, tshela ukuthi akuwona ngempela umqondo omuhle ukushayela kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezulu eliyinkimbinkimbi.
Ungenalo wonke umndeni owahlukana noMama noma ubaba. Khetha iphoyisa elilodwa "elibi"! Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi lolu hlobo lwenkulumo lungcono kakhulu kumuntu oshade naye ke ngezingane ezindala noma odokotela.
Futhi, yibani nozwela. Qinisekisa imizwelo yabo bese ubuyela emuva ukuthi kungani imoto ibalulekile kubo. Isibonelo, uma ukuthola izindawo, khona-ke ube necebo endaweni yokuthutha okunye. Uma kuqondene nesimo kanye nobunikazi, imoto imiswe endlini yabo futhi uvumele abanye basebenzise ukuyiqhuba. Uma kungenxa yokukhululeka nokuzikhethela, cwangcisa ukuhamba kwesikhashana.
Nikeza amaqiniso ngalokho okubonayo.
Uma udinga ulwazi oluthe xaxa, i-American Association of People's Retired (AARP) inomthombo omkhulu, Ukukhuluma nabaDala Abadala. Ihlinzeka ngemfundo ekhululekile ebizwa ngokuthi "Sidinga Ukukhuluma," ezokusiza ukuthi ubone ukuthi ungahlola kanjani amakhono akho okushayela abathandayo futhi unikeze amathuluzi ukukusiza ukuba ube nengxoxo ebalulekile.
Yenza ushintsho lube lula
- Yenza uhlelo. Engxoxweni yakho nokuhlela kuqala ufune ukubona ukuthi kukhona indlela yokugcina umuntu ngemuva kwesondo.
- Yenza ukuguqulwa. Mhlawumbe bangakwazi ukuyeka ukushayela ebusuku, bagweme imigwaqo emgwaqweni nesimo sezulu esibi, noma banamathele ezindaweni lapho bangaqhuba kalula futhi ngokuphepha.
- Shayela abazali bakho. Njengomnakekeli, kufanele uqaphele ngokukhethekile umthwalo ongakubeka wona njengomshayeli oqokiwe, kodwa futhi nethuba elikunikeza ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomthandi wakho. Akufanele ube yedwa umshayeli.
- Ezinye izindlela zokwenza izinto zokuthutha. Njengoba izinketho zokuthutha ezifana ne-Uber inzuzo ekuthandeni nasebekhulile zijwayele ukusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe, kuzoba lula ngabo ukuthola lezi zindlela ezintsha zokuthutha. Kodwa njengokuguga endaweni yakho, othandekayo wakho uyobe enqabile ukushintsha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhamba emphakathini noma ukuyeka ukushayela kwabo. Ngokushesha ukuthi ungaba nalezi zingxoxo ngendlela engavamile, kuzoba lula ekushintsheni.