Imikhuba emibi Abantu Bafunda Ngokukhulisa Ubulili Ku-Porn

Lapho abantu bezama ukufunda ngocansi ngokulingisa ubulili ku-porn, bangathatha amasu amnandi kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekile kukhona izithombe ezingcolile ezibonisa imikhuba enempilo. Kukhona nezindlela eziningi abantu abazocansi ngazo ezingcolile ezingabangela izinkinga ezithile zezempilo zangempela. Ngezansi uzothola izindlela eziyishumi abadlali abavame ukuzibandakanya ngobulili ezingcolile ezingaholela ekuhluphekeni ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo.

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Ukuza Ngomunye Umuntu
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Umuntfu lomuntfu lowasebentisa umlingani wakhe (lokuvame kubitwa ngekutsi "ubuso") akusiyo indzaba lengavamile lapho bantfu bahlanganyela emacansini e-pornography. Nakuba kungavamile empilweni yangempela, kubalulekile ukwazi isisu emehlweni kungabangela izinkinga zangempela zezempilo. Zombili izitho zangasese nezamehlo ziyi-mucosal. Lokho kusho ukuthi bayakwazi ukuthola izifo eziningi ezifanayo. Ama-STD amaningi ajwayelekile, kuhlanganise ne- gonorrhea kanye ne- chlamydia , angabangela ukutheleleka kwesifo esibucayi-noma ngisho nobuphofu.

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Ukusebenzisa iminwe yakho ukungena ngaphakathi komunye umuntu uma unezinsipho ezindala
Iskrini sezandla zesifazane ngezandla zomunwe By :. izithombe ezingalungile / i-Altrendo / Getty Izithombe

Abantu abaningi bajabulela ukungena kwamandla wesifazane noma i-anus. Kodwa-ke, uma uhlanganyela kulezi zenzo, iminwe emide ingaba yingozi. Akukhona nje ukuthi kukhona ingozi yokukhipha umlingani wakho, kepha amabhaktheriya ahlala ngaphansi kwamanwe angabangela ukutheleleka.

Ngokuvamile umqondo omuhle ukusebenzisa amaglavu we-latex noma nitrile uma ufaka umngane wakho ngeminwe noma ngesandla. Lokhu kuba nkulu kakhulu uma unezipikili ezide. Kungenzeka ukuthi udonsa izipikili ezindala ngekotini ngaphakathi kwamagilavu ​​akho. Noma kunjalo, uma uzoba nobulili obukhulu ngezandla zakho, ungase ufune ukusika izipikili zakho eside.

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Ukungasebenzisi ukuhlanganiswa okwanele
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Lapho abantu bezocansi ngo-porn, into eyodwa ongayiboni ngukuthi umlingani udonsa ibhodlela lokugcoba . Kancane kancane, lokho kuyiqiniso kokubili ngokocansi nangasese. Nakuba kunemibuzo ethile mayelana nokuthi uhlobo olungcono lokugcoba ngukuya ocansini wesilwane , ngokuvamile kuvunywa ukuthi ukugcoba okulungile kwenza kokubili ucansi lwesisu nangesilwane esilondekile.

Ukubambisana akugcini nje ekunciphiseni ingozi yokuqothula-okungawandisa ingozi yokutheleleka-kodwa futhi kaningi kwenza ubulili bujabulise kakhulu bobabili abalingani. Isixwayiso esisodwa: Cishe ufuna ukugwema ukusebenzisa amakhemikhali aqukethe i- nonoxynol-9 . Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma unezocansi eziningi. Kukhona ithuba lokuthi ukusebenzisa okungavamile kwe-N-9 kungakwandisa amathuba akho okuthola i-STD.

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Ukusebenzisa i-Spit ye-Lubrication
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Uma ngabe uzama ukufunda ngezocansi ngokubukela izithombe ezingcolile, kungenzeka ukuthi uthethelelwe ngokucabanga ukuthi iningi labantu lisetshenziselwa ukugawula ukugcoba esikhundleni sokugcoba. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kungumqondo omubi ngezizathu ezimbili. Eyokuqala yilokho okuphambanisa nje akusikho okuhle kwe-lubricant. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunzima kubantu abaningi ukuba benze inani elanele. Owesibili kungenzeka ukuthi amathe angakwazi ukudlulisela ama-STD athile. Kodwa-ke, leyo ngozi ayimisiwe kahle futhi cishe iphansi.

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Ukuhamba kusuka ku-Anal kuya ku-Sex Vaginal (noma i-Vice Versa)
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Ukuguqula emuva nangemva kokuya ocansini ukuya ocansini ngaphandle kokushintsha amakhondomu, noma ngaleyo ndaba ngaphandle kokugqoka amakhondomu nhlobo, umkhuba omubi Kungase kube omunye wemikhuba emibi kakhulu abantu abangayifunda ngocansi ngokubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. I-rectum ayiyona indawo ehlanzekile. Ukuthola amabhaktheriya ama-fecal kanye nama-parasites emzimbeni akulungile empilweni yowesifazane.

Uma ufuna ukubili ubulili besitho sangasese nesilwane emdlalweni owodwa wezocansi, gqoka ikhondomu. Bese-ke, qiniseka ukuthi ufake i-entsha njalo uma uhamba phakathi kwama-orifice. Kuhle ukuhlanzeka futhi kusiza ukuvikela impilo yomlingani wakho. Ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi usebenzisa isithintelo esihlanzekile kubalulekile futhi uma ufaka umlingani wakho ngeminwe noma ithoyizi lezocansi.

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Ukuhamba kusuka ku-Anal Penetration kuya ku-Oral Penetration
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Ama-bacterium kanye nama-virus angase abe khona e-rectum angabangela izifo ezibucayi zesimiso -kuhlanganise nezinhlobo eziningana ze-hepatitis. Ngakho-ke ungahambisani nento, kuhlanganise ne-penis, kusukela ku-anus kuya emlonyeni. Ukwenza kanjalo ingozi umlingani wakho ukufaka noma iyiphi i-pathogen engayithola emanzini abo. Umqondo omubi kakhulu. Geza kahle, noma ushintshe amakhondomu, emva kokufaka okuthile kumuntu womuntu. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokuvamile, kodwa okubalulekile uma uhlose ukuyihambisa emlonyeni wabo.

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Ukungasebenzisi Amakhondomu Wokulala
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Enye yezinto zokuqala abantu abaningi, nakuba ngokusobala hhayi abakhiqizi bezithombe ezingcolile, bafunde ngezocansi ukuthi uma ulala , ukwenza ucansi oluphephile kunganciphisa ithuba lokuthola i-STD . Lokho kusho ukusebenzisa amakhondomu ngokulala komzimba futhi njalo njalo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma ulala naye nabalingani abasha noma abashadile futhi abaqiniseki ngesimo sabo sokuhlolwa kanye nokuziphatha kwengozi yamuva.

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Ukuba nezocansi ezingavimbelwe
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Ngisho nabantu abangafundi ngobulili obuvela ocansini bavame ukucabanga ukuthi ubulili bomlomo bulilili eliphephile. Eqinisweni, ucansi olungavimbelwe ngomlomo lungakubeka engozini yezinkinga eziningi ze-STD. Ngenhlanhla, ungenza kokubili i- fallatio ne- cunnilingus ivikeleke kakhulu ngokusebenzisa izithiyo . I-Anilingus ingenziwa ephephile nezithiyo.

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Ukwenza noma yikuphi uMthetho ongavinjelwe nabalingani abaningi
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Uma ubheka ukuthi abantu balala kanjani ngocansi, uvame ukubona inkanyezi yefilimu ukuthi ilale ocansini nomlingani oyedwa emva komunye. Ngezinye izikhathi ubona bezocansi nabalingani abaningi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Uma lokho kocansi kungavimbelwe, kungase kuveze lowo muntu kunoma yimaphi ama-STD ukuthi omunye wabalingani angase abe nawo. Kungase futhi kuveze labo abalingani omunye nomunye. Lokhu kuyiqiniso emlonyeni womlomo, ubulili, nesilwane.

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Ukungakhulumi Ngaphambi Kokuya ocansini
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Awekho amafilimu amaningi ezingcolile lapho abantu bekhuluma khona ngaphambi kokulala ocansini. Lokho kuyihlazo ngoba ekuxoxweni kwangempela ekuphileni kubaluleke kakhulu.

Kunezinto eziningi abantu abakhuluma ngazo ngaphambi kokuba bahlanganyele ocansini-njengomlando wokuhlola, imizwa ngezocansi eziphephile, nezenzo zokuziphatha ezinobungozi zamuva-okuqondakalayo akuboniswa ngaphambi kocansi ocansini. Noma kunjalo, kunezinye izinkinga okufanele zikhuliswe kaningi. Isibonelo, ngaso sonke isikhathi umqondo omuhle ukuxoxa ukuthi ngabe umlingani wakho unesithakazelo yini ezenzweni ezithile zocansi ngaphambi kokuzibandakanya kuzo. Ngisho noma isenzo esibucayi sibonakala singenakwenzeka kuwe, kungase kube umkhawulo onzima kumlingani wakho. Ukucasula noma ukwesabisa othile ngesikhathi socansi kuyindlela enhle yokuchitha konke kokuhlwa kwakho.