Izinselele, Izixazululo, Nokusebenza Okuzungezile
Ihlobo liyinselele emindenini eminingi enezingane ezincane. Imindeni enezingane ezizenzekelayo, izinselele ziyanda ngokuphawulekayo. Ngenhlanhla, imindeni inezinketho eziningi zokukhetha izinhlelo zehlobo, kanye nohlu olude lwamathiphu namathuluzi wokwenza ihlobo lijabulise kakhulu futhi licindezeleke kakhulu.
Yini Eyinselele Ngakho Ngehlobo?
Abazali abaningi babhekana nehlobo ngokuhlanganiswa kwenjabulo nokwesaba.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ihlobo lisho isikhathi esiningi nezingane; Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ihlobo lisho amathuba angenakulungiswa okuba izingane zithukuthele noma, nakakhulu, zingene enkingeni.
Kwabazali abasebenzayo, ihlobo lingasho ukugijima okucindezelayo ukuthola uhlelo lwekampu ehlobo olumnandi, elingabizi futhi elithembekile. Abazali abanezingane ezizimele babhekene nezinselele ezihluke kakhulu nakakhulu.
Ukulahlekelwa kwesakhiwo nokujwayelekile
Izingane ezine-autism, isakhiwo kanye nesimiso zifana nenduduzo nokuphepha. Nikeza, futhi ukuphila kubikezelwa futhi kulawulwa. Yilahle (njengoba kwenzeka njalo ngonyaka ngoJuni) futhi umhlaba uphendukela phezulu. Uma izingane ezine-autism zizizwa zicindezelekile futhi zikhathazeka, zibonisa imizwa yazo ngokuziphatha okungaba nzima noma okungenakwenzeka ukuphatha.
Ukulahlekelwa Kwezokwelapha kanye Nokusekelwa
Iningi lezingane ezine-autism zinamahlelo esikoleni noma izikhungo ezikhokhwa yisifunda sesikole.
Lezi zingabandakanya ukuhlaziywa kwe-Applied Behavioral Analysis ejulile noma eguquliwe (ABA), ukwelashwa kwenkulumo, ukwelashwa komsebenzi, kanye / noma ukwelashwa kwamakhono omphakathi. Izingane zingaba nezinsiza ezingu-1: 1 esikoleni ezikwazi ukuphatha ukuziphatha okulukhuni. Ekupheleni konyaka wesikole, lezi zisekelo nezindlela zokwelapha zingase zinyamalale (nakuba eminye imindeni ikwazi ukuqhubeka nokuthola ezinye izindlela zokwelashwa kulo lonke unyaka wekhalenda).
Kunzima ngokuthola izinhlelo ezifanelekile
Izifunda zesikole zidinga ngomthetho ukuhlinzeka izinhlelo ezinyakazayo zesikole (ESY) ngesikhathi sehlobo kubafundi abangase bakwazi ukulawula ngaphandle kwabo. Lezi zinhlelo, kodwa, azivami isikhathi esigcwele futhi azikwazi ukufaka zonke izici zesimiso sonyaka wesikole. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, amakamu ehlobo ehlobo akunakwenzeka ukuthi athi "yebo" ekubandakanyeni ingane enengaphezu kwenguqulo enobumnene kakhulu ye-autism spectrum disorder. Amakhamera adingekayo okhethekile nezinhlelo zitholakala ezindaweni eziningi, kepha azikho yonke indawo futhi angeke afanele izidingo zomntanakho.
Izindleko eziphezulu ezihambisana nezinhlelo ezifanele
Ngisho noma uthola ikamu yehlobo noma uhlelo lomntwana wakho, amathuba okuba izindleko ziyobe ziphakeme kakhulu kunokuba zingabantwana abancane. Kungenxa yokuthi izingane ze-autistic zivame ukudinga umeluleki ophakeme kakhulu: ama-camper ratios, futhi angadinga ukunakekelwa okukhethekile. Okunye okunye, ukuthumela ingane ohlelweni olujwayelekile nomsizi, kungabiza cishe "njengezidingo ezikhethekile" ekamu.
Ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nokunakekela izingane
Kweminye imindeni, umzali noma omunye umnakekeli uyakwazi ukuhlala ekhaya nezingane phezu kwehlobo. Ngomntwana we-autistic, lokhu kungaba yinto ecindezela kakhulu.
Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi kunzima ukukhathalela umntwana we-autistic futhi ugcine ehlala naye, kodwa ukuba nomntwana we-autistic emndenini kungenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuphuma komndeni wonke.
Izindleko ezinzima
Amaholide asehlobo kufanele abe yisikhathi sokuphumula, nakuba abazali abaningi bethola izinyanga zokucindezeleka. Abazali bezingane ze-autistic bangadinwa yizinselele zokushiya ekhaya nezingane ezizimele, izindawo zokudlela ezihamba ngezinyawo namahhotela, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bethola amathuba okuzijabulisa nabantakwethu. Ukwengeza kulokho ukucindezeleka komzwelo owehlulelwa ngumndeni oseduze noma abanye abavakashile, futhi ungase udinge iholidi kusuka eholidini lakho!
Indlela Yokunqoba Izinselelo Zasehlobo
Ngenhlanhla, wazi kahle ukuthi ihlobo liyeza nini nokuthi lihlala isikhathi eside kangakanani. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungakwazi ukuhlela kahle impumelelo ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ubeke wonke amadada akho ulandelana lapho usuku lokugcina lwesikole lufika. Kusho nokuthi ungalungisa ingane yakho nabasebenzi bayo bokusekela isikhathi esiningi sokusindisa. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokwenza isipiliyoni singacindezeli kancane futhi siphumelele kakhulu ngonyaka ngamunye ophumelelayo.
Qala kuqala. Qala ukucwaninga ngezinketho zakho ngo-Septhemba. Qala izingxoxo nezinhlelo ngaphambi kukaKhisimusi. Ngabe amadada akho agxile ngasekupheleni kukaFebhuwari. Qala ukulungiselela ingane yakho kanye nabanye ngo-Ephreli. Slide kuze kube ehlobo ngokucindezeleka okuncane ngoJuni.
Ukuqonda nokufaka isicelo se-ESY. Uhlelo olwandisiwe lweminyaka yesikole cishe luyatholakala kumntanakho, kepha abazali abahlale bekwaziswa kahle ngenqubo izingane ezihlolwa ngayo nge-ESY. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyilapho ezinye izifunda zinikeza i-ESY ngosuku olugcwele, abanye banikeza amahora ambalwa nje kanti abanye bazimisele ukuhlinzeka ukusekelwa kwezingane ezingeni lezikole ezingekho esikoleni njengekampu zasehlobo. Bonke kufanele banikeze okungenani ukwelashwa okunye (inkulumo evamile, i- ABA , kanye / noma ukwelashwa komsebenzi) ezinyangeni zasehlobo.
Buza imibuzo, bese uhlola nabanye abazali ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izinsizakalo abaye bakwazi ukufinyelela kuzo. Izifunda angeke zikutshele ukuthi ungafinyelela kanjani amasevisi, ngakho-ke kukuthi ukwazi amalungelo akho nezinketho. I-Wrightlaw.com, iwebhusayithi ye-premier, enikeza abazali izidingo ezikhethekile, ithi:
"Uma unemibuzo mayelana nezindaba ezingokomthetho, kudingeka wenze ucwaningo lwakho lomthetho. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngonyaka odlulelwe esikoleni ngoba izinkantolo ezifundazweni ezahlukene kanye nezifunda zombuso zinikeze izinqumo ezidala amazinga ahlukene, futhi amazinga we-ESY ashintshile ngokushesha. "
3. Yakha isimiso sehlobo. Uma unengane ene-autism, kungase kudingeke ukuba ulahlekelwe isikhathi sehlobo-okungenani iminyaka embalwa, kuze kube yilapho ingane yakho ikwazi ukuhamba nokugeleza. Esikhundleni sokwenza usuku nosuku, yazi ukuthi uzoba yini usuku nosuku njalo. Maka uhlele ikhalenda (noma sebenzisa ishadi elibukwayo nsuku zonke) bese uhamba ngezinhlelo zamasazane nengane yakho. Uma wenza okuthile okungavamile, sebenzisa izithombe nezindaba zomphakathi ukusiza ingane yakho ukulungiselela. Uma umsebenzi wakho ungaphansi kwesimo sezulu, ube nokunye engqondweni yakho bese uyabelana ngayo nengane yakho kusengaphambili (uma ilanga sizoya echibini; uma kunemvula sizoya kulabhulali).
4. Thola, udale, noma ukhokhe ukusekela. Abazali abanezingane ezinama-autistic nabantwana abavame ukukhula banenselele eyingqayizivele ehlobo: banikeza ingane yakho evamile ngendlela ejwayelekile yokuhleka kwehlobo ngenkathi iphinde isekele i-autistic sibling? Impendulo ebonakalayo "ihlukanisa futhi inqobe," okusho ukuhlukanisa izingane kanye nokuba nomzali oyedwa athathe ingane ngayinye. Ngezinye izikhathi, kodwa lokho akunakwenzeka. Enye indlela ukuthola umngane noma isihlobo esithakazelisayo ekuqedeni isikhathi nengane yakho evame ukukhula (kungaba kuhle kumntanakho okhulayo ukuba athole isikhathi esikhethekile noMama, isibonelo). Uma unayo imali noma imali, ungase uqashe umfundi noma ngisho uthisha ukuthi asebenzise isikhathi nezingane zakho ze-autistic ngenkathi ujabulela ukuphefumula okudingekayo kakhulu.
5. Cabanga ngezinketho zekamu. Amakamu adingekayo okhethekile angabiza kakhulu, kodwa kwezinye izimo ama-scholarships ayatholakala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye izinhlangano, njenge-Y, JCC, ne-Rotary, zizothola amakhamuzi adingekayo okukhethekile ngezidingo ezifanele. Uma ingane yakho izimisele futhi ikamu iyatholakala , yebo yebo! Khumbula ukuthi amakamu anjalo angeke akhangise; Ngakho-ke, ungadinga ukwenza ucwaningo ukuthola amathuba wengane yakho.
6. Hlela amaholide ngokucophelela . Kuzama "nje ukuhamba," uhlose ukuthola nokuhlola izindawo ezintsha lapho uya khona. Kodwa uma unomntwana we-autistic, ukuvakasha okuzenzekelayo kuyinto iresiphi yenhlekelele. Ngokuqinisekile, ungaba ne-timetime (empeleni, uzoyidinga) kodwa ngisho naseholidini lokuphumula, izingane eziningi ezine-autism zidinga isimiso esicacile kanye nesimo. Lokhu kuhamba kabili ngezinsuku zokuhlala ezifaka umndeni onwetshiwe ongazijwayele futhi okhululekile ngezingane zakho ze-autistic. Yazi kahle ukuthi kuzokwenzekani usuku ngalunye, futhi ube nezinhlelo ezisekhona engqondweni uma kwenzeka ukuqubuka kwe-autistic noma ukubuyisela okungalindelekile.
7. Yiba ngelashwa kwengane yakho ezinyangeni ezimbalwa. Nakuba abazali abaningi bengenasifiso sokuba abahlengikazi besikhathi esigcwele, kunezinhlobo zokwelashwa abazali abangayithatha ngenkathi bejabulela isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane zabo. Funda phezulu uphinde ubuke amavidiyo ku-play therapy, i- Floortime , noma indlela yokukhuluma ye-Hanen (ukubiza izinketho ezimbalwa) futhi ufunde ukuthi ungajika kanjani isikhathi esivamile ndawonye kwiseshini yokwelapha. Ngisho noma ingane yakho ingenalo ukwelashwa ngokomthetho phezu kwehlobo (futhi kufanele, ngokusebenzisa ESY!), Uzofunda okuningi ngesikhathi sakhe nawe.
8. Yakha "isikhathi sami" ehlobo lakho. Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nengane ye-autistic kungaba nomvuzo, kodwa kungase kuphazamise futhi kuphazamise. Ukuze ube ngummeli wakho womntwana, umhlinzeki, umnakekeli, nomzali, udinga isikhathi sokuhamba bese ushona. Lokhu kungase kusho ukuhlela isikhathi sakho ukuze usebenzise amahora e-ESY, noma, uma kungenjalo ukhetho, uchitha imali encane yomntwana obamba ingane "othola" ingane yakho. Noma ngabe yikuphi, ungazivumeli ukuba udangele kakhulu kangangokuthi awukwazi ukukhombisa ngokugcwele ingane yakho.
Izwi elivela
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ehlobo eliphumelelayo nezingane zakho ze-autistic ukulungiselela. Hlela phambili, lungiselela ingane yakho izimo ezintsha futhi wazi kusengaphambili ukuthi uzophatha kanjani izimo ezikhohlisayo. Uma usuqalile amadada akho ngokulandelana, kungenzeka ukuthi uzokwenza kahle.