I-hymen iyisiqephu sesishukela sokuthi, ngesikhathi sokuthuthukiswa, ivimbela ezinye noma zonke ukungena kwesifazane. Ikhona ezinhlobonhlobo eziningi, futhi ososayensi abanakho ukuqonda kwangempela injongo yayo kubantu.
Akuwona wonke owesifazane onalo uhlobo olufanayo lwe-hymen. Kulaba besifazane abathile, ukungena kwamasendlini kuningi, noma ngokuphelele, okungahlanganiswa; kwabanye, isimo esibizwa ngokuthi i- imperforate hymen singavimbela wonke umnyango ukuze kungabi ngisho negazi lokuya esikhathini.
Yiqiniso, kukhona ukuhluka phakathi.
Yini I-Hymen Eyayithinta Ngayo Insizwa?
Ukuba khona noma ukungabikho kwe-hymen akusho okuningi ngesipiliyoni socansi besifazane. Abaningi besifazane balahlekelwa yi-hymen ngemisebenzi yemvelo efana nokugibela ibhayisikili, kanti abanye balondoloza izingoma zabo ngisho nangokuhlolwa kokuqala ngokocansi.
Imicabango engafani mayelana ne-hymen, nokuthi isebenza kanjani, iningi lezinkolelo ezinzima mayelana nobulili. Umqondo wokuthi "ukuphuma kwe-cherry yintombazane" kungumhlahlandlela, kanye nemithi engalungile. Ngisho nangowesifazane osenayo i-hymen eqinile ngesikhathi sokuqala kocansi lwakhe, ama-hymen ngokuvamile alula ngesikhathi sokungena, futhi kungenzeka noma angabi nobuhlungu. Ngezinye izikhathi ukugcoba kanye / noma ukuphuma kwegazi kungenzeka, kodwa lokhu kuhlobene nokuguquguquka kwezicubu. Wonke umzimba wesifazane uhlukile, ngakho-ke kuyoba nakho kwakhe kokungena ngokocansi.
Ngaphandle emiphakathini lapho ukuphila komuntu kanye nokuma komphakathi kungasengozini ngaphandle kwalesi sakhiwo esivame ukungaqondakali njengobungqina obubonakalayo bokungcweliswa, akukho okungazithokozi kakhulu nge-hymen.
Noma kunjalo, odokotela abahlinzayo base-plastic baye bahlakulela inqubo eyaziwa ngokuthi i-hymenoplasty ukuze ivuselele ama-hymen ngokweqile kwabesifazane abalahlekelwe yibo. Nakuba kuyinto ehlekisa ngayo owesifazane oye walala ocansini ukukholelwa ukuthi ukuvuselela i-hymen yakhe kuzomenza abe yintombi futhi, ukuhlinzeka kungaba usizo kubantu besifazane abanokuphila kwabo engozini ngaphandle kwalo.
Ngokuthakazelisayo, amanye amazwe acabangela ukuthi i-hymenoplasty ibe uhlobo lwe- mutilation yesisu somzimba wesifazane , futhi ngezikhathi ezithile lihlehliswa ngaphansi kwezimiso ezenzelwe ukuvikela abesifazane abasebasha kulolu hlobo lokuphulwa.
Virginity & STDs
Ngokuvamile abantu bakhathazekile ngesimo samankosikazi wesifazane ngenxa yezinkolelo ezingalungile mayelana nobuhlobo nobuntombi obukhulunywe ngenhla. Ngokwemvelo, abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuphoqa ubulili besifazane, futhi ukuhlola ukutholakala noma ukungabikho kwe-hymen wesifazane kucatshangwa ukuthi kuyindlela yokwenza lokho. Akunjalo, kodwa kunabantu abambalwa kakhulu abazimisele ukuxoxa ngaleyo ngxoxo, kungabikho izingxoxo mayelana nokuthi kungani abantu becabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuqapha nokuvimbela ubulili besifazane ngenkathi bezinqabe ubulili besilisa.
Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ngenkathi kwabanye abantu, umbuzo wobuntombi ubonakala njengenkinga yokuziphatha, ngoba abanye bacatshangwa ukuthi bayasebenza. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa, ngokungalungile, ukuthi uma belala nomuntu osengumfana ongekho engozini yokuthola i-STD . Ngeshwa, lokho akunjalo ngempela. Okokuqala, amanye ama-STD afana ne- oral herpes angasakazeka ngokuxhumana okungavamile emndenini ngaphambi kokuba umuntu asebenze ngokocansi.
Okwesibili, amanye ama- STD amaningi angasakazeka phakathi nemisebenzi efana nesandulela ngculazi kanye nezocansi zomlomo , ezingaphazamisi izincazelo zakudala zobuntombi noma insizwa yowesifazane.
Iqiniso liwukuthi owesifazane une-hymen engenandaba nokuphila kwakhe ngokocansi noma ngisho nangomqondo obanzi, izinga lakhe lokwabelana ngokocansi. Indlela kuphela yokwazi lezo zinto ngomuntu ukukhuluma nabo, futhi ngaphambi kokwenza, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuzibuza ukuthi kungani ucabanga ukuthi yiyiphi ibhizinisi lakho futhi ucabange ngokujulile ukuthi kungani ukhathalela.