Umbuzo engibuzwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ngabe kungenzeka yini ukuthola i- STD ukuba ulale ocansini nentombi. Impendulo inguyebo
Kunenganekwane yokuthi nje ngoba othile uyintombi ukuthi ubulili nabo buphephile ngokuzenzakalelayo. Nokho, akulona iqiniso. Ngisho noma sekuyisikhathi sokuqala sokuthola ubulili , akusho ukuthi abakaze bavezwe ku-STD.
Kunezindlela eziningana ukuthi izintombi zingatheleleka nge-STD.
Okokuqala, ubuntombi abufani nokungakaze uthintane nocansi - okungenani hhayi wonke umuntu. Abantu abaningi bazibheka njengezintombi ngisho noma bebe nobulili bomlomo kanye nobulili obudala . Zombili lezi zinhlobo zocansi ziyizinto eziyingozi zokuthola i-STD. Yilokho, empeleni, enye yezinkinga eziyinhloko ezithembisweni zobuntombi . Bagxila ekuziphatheni komzimba wesifazane , ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngezinye izinhlobo zengozi. Yingenye yezizathu zokuthi kungani zingekho ithuluzi eliwusizo ikakhulukazi ku-arsenal yomfundisi wezocansi. (Akunakusizo ngoba abanikazi abaningi abaphika noma abakhohlwa ukuthi baye bafaka isifungo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abafakizibophezelo abangekho amathuba okulala ocansini. Ngeshwa, ABANYE amathuba okulala ocansini ngokuphepha.)
Kodwa-ke, ingozi yokulala nobulili akuyona nje izincazelo ezihlukene zobulili. Ngisho noma umuntu engakaze abe noxhumana naye ocansini, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi ukhonjiswe ku-STD.
Abantu abaningi bathola i- herpes ngomlomo ngokuthandana nomndeni wabo. Abanye abantu bavezwa ngama-STD omama ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma ukuzalwa. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi unegciwane lesifo, njenge- HIV , ngokuziphatha okungeyona ingozi. Isibonelo, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ngamagciwane kuyisici esiyingozi kwizifo eziningi ezithwala igazi .
Ukungazi kahle ngokobulili okwenzayo kungenza kube lula ukuthi umuntu abe ne-STD. Ungacabangi ukuthi nje ngoba othile uthi uyintombi ukuthi awuthathi ingozi . Kusadingeka ukuba usebenzise ubulili obuphephile , uma kungekho esinye isizathu kunomkhuba omuhle wokulondoloza impilo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuthiwani ngokubeka umngane wakho engozini? Ngokuphambene nezinganekwane eziningi ezithandwayo, abantu bangakhulelwa okokuqala lapho bezocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukulala nentombi ngeke kuphulukise i-HIV yakho noma ezinye izifo ze-STD. (Le ngqungquthela yindawo ebalulekile yomsakazo we-Broadway The Book of Mormon.)
Uma kuziwa ocansini, kungcono ukuphepheka kunokudabuka. Ucabanga ukuthi usengozini ye-STD noma ukukhulelwa kuphephile kunokuba ungathinti lezo zingozi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngisho noma ngabe unamantombazane amabili enza ucansi.
Kusho Ukuthini Ukuba Intombi?
Esinye sezizathu zokuthi ubulili nentombi ayikho ephephile ngokweqile ukuthi ayikho isivumelwano esenza umuntu abe intombi. Owesifazane ongakaze abe nobulili besifazane kodwa uye waba nabalingani abaningi bezocansi abalingani bazobhekwa njengezintombi ngezinye izincazelo. Kodwa-ke, uzoba nesifo se-STD esiphezulu kakhulu kunomuntu ongakaze abe nobulili obufanayo futhi abe nobulili besifazane oyedwa kuphela.
Inkinga yukuthi ubuntombi buyincazelo yamasiko. Akuyona yezokwelapha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izincazelo zobuntombi zivame ukusekelwe ekucabangeni kwe- heteronormative . Uma umfana engalahleki ubuntombi bakhe aze alale nentombazane, futhi ngokuphambene nalokho, kunjani ngabantu abathandana nabesilisa nabesifazane? Ingabe bahlala "bantombi" uma nje bengenabo abalingani bobulili obuhlukile?
Abanye abantu bangase bathi abantu abangekho izintombi uma sebebe nobulili. Noma kunjalo, ngisho nencazelo yesondo ayivunyelwanga. Yingakho kwenza umqondo omkhulu ukukhuluma ngokuziphatha kunokuthi ukhulume ngamalebula. Kubuye kube nengqondo ukuthembela ekuhlolweni kunokucabanga.
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