Ingane yakho encane noma isenkulisa isakhula ngokuhlukile. Inkulumo yakhe ibambezelekile, inezimo ezithile ezingavamile, futhi uthanda ukwenza izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Unenkinga enzima ngomsindo omkhulu futhi kunzima ukuxhumana nabangane bakhe abafanayo.
Ingabe u-autistic? Impendulo, yiqiniso, kungenzeka.
Ingabe manje yisikhathi esifanele sokucela ukuhlolwa okuvela kudokotela wezingane ophuthumayo noma ithimba lezokwelapha okungenzeka, liholele ekhelini le "autism" eliboshwe esifubeni somntwana wakho konke ukuphila kwakhe?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo iyoxhomeka kunani elikhulu lezinto.
Ingakanani Ingane Yakho?
Izingane ezijwayelekile ziyakwazi ukuthuthukisa amazinga ahlukene. Iqiniso lokuthi ingane yomakhelwane wakho ingenangqondo akusho ukuthi ingane yakho ibambezelekile! Hlola ngokucophelela ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi lokho okubona njengokulibaziseka akuyona ukuhluka okujwayelekile okuthuthukiswa.
Izimpawu Zengane Yakho Ziyigugu Kangakanani?
Ukuxilongwa kwe- autism akunikezwa kalula. Izimpawu zezingane kufanele zinciphise kakhulu ikhono labo lokuxhumana , zihlanganyele emisebenzini ejwayelekile, futhi zixhumane nomphakathi. Ngokuvamile, ukukhathazeka okujulile ngokuthuthukiswa kwengane akuveli kuphela ekuboneni komzali kodwa nakubathishela, odokotela, emndenini owandisiwe, nabanye abathola izindaba ezibalulekile. Uma umehluko owubukeleyo omncane, noma uma udokotela wakho wezingane engaboni isizathu sokukhathazeka, ungase uthande ukuthatha indlela "yokulindile".
Wena, Ngamuntu, uzizwa kanjani ngegama?
Abanye abazali banomuzwa wokuthi ukubiza ingane ngokuthi "autistic" kuyinkinga, futhi sikhathazeke ngokuthi ilebula elinjalo lingabangela ukulimala kunokuhle. Bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi ibulali iveza ukungafani okuyizinto ezizimele - futhi bafisa ukugwema ukubhala uma nje kungenzeka.
Abanye abazali banomuzwa wokuthi ilebula iyithuluzi eliwusizo lokuqonda, ukubhekana nalo, nokuthola ukwesekwa. Ngokunikeza "ukungezwani" igama, bazizwa, bangaqhubeka phambili ukunikeza ingane yabo ngezisekelo eziwusizo, ukwelapha namathuba.
Ingabe Kunenzuzo Ye-Autism Diagnosis?
Kuye lapho uhlala khona, i-autism i-diagnostic spectrum ingase ibe yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola izinsizakalo kanye nemithi yokwelashwa yengane yakho. Kwezinye izindawo, ukuxilongwa kungase kutholakale izinsiza ezimbalwa zombuso noma zendawo. Enye umshuwalense wezempilo unikela ngemali yezingane KUPHELA uma une-diagnosis ye-autism; abanye banikeza izinsizakalo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuxilongwa.
Ungakwazi Ukufinyelela Ukusekela Okufanayo Nezinsizakalo Zinawo Noma Ngaphandle Kokuthola I-Diagnosis?
Eziningi zokwelapha ngokuvamile ezinikezwa ingane ene-autism zingatholakala ngaphandle kokuxilongwa - uma unesikhathi, imali nesifiso. Isibonelo, kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukuqasha umuntu oziphatha ngokuziphatha noma othuthukayo ngasese, futhi kungenzeka ngokufanayo ukufunda ukuhlinzeka ngezikhungo eziningi zokwelashwa. I-RDI , i-floortime, i-SCERTS, kanye nezinye eziningi zokwelashwa ezicwaningwa kahle zihlinzekwa ngabazali abanakho noma ngaphandle kokusekelwa. Ukusebenza ngokwemisebenzi, inkulumo, kanye nokwelashwa kungahle kunqunywe udokotela wezingane zakho ngokusekelwe ekukhathazeni okungahambisani nezinga eligcwele lokuxilongwa kwe-autism spectrum.
Izikole Zakho Zasekhaya Futhi / Noma Izinqubo Zokungena Ekuqaleni Ziphatha "Ukuphikisana" Ngokumelene Nokuthola Izifo?
Ngokwalokho, izifunda zesikole kufanele zinikeze izingane zasenkulisa noma zezikole ukuthi zisekela ingane ngayinye ngezidingo zazo kunokuba zixilongwe. Ngokwenza, Nokho, le ndlela ayinakwenzeka ukuphatha. Uma unamaqembu ezineminyaka efanayo ubudala ene-autism-diagnostic diagnosis, kunengqondo ukuqasha uthisha onolwazi nokuqeqesha okuqondene nezingane ezine-autism. Uma ingane yakho ingazuza kuleso siklasini - kodwa ingenaso ukuxilongwa kwe-autism - isifunda sakho sizovuma ukubeka ingane yakho kuleso simo?