Funda ukuthi yiliphi iqembu eligxila ekusekeleni labo abanomdlavuza webele we-metastatic
Ukubandakanya eqenjini lokusekela umdlavuza webele noma umphakathi wokusekela kuwusizo olukhulu kubantu abaningi ababhekana nomdlavuza webele we-metastatic. Lemiphakathi inikeza ithuba lokukhuluma nabanye ababhekene nezinselele ezifanayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukusekela nokuthanda umndeni wakho nabangani bakho, kunokuthile okukhethekile ngokukwazi ukuthi omunye uhlangabezana nento efanayo.
Ngaphandle kokwesekwa, umphakathi osekelayo ungaba yindlela yokufunda mayelana nezinketho zakamuva zokwelashwa ezitholakalayo umdlavuza wakho. Sifinyelele isikhathi nendawo lapho amalungu omphakathi wokusekela angase azijwayele ukuhlolwa kwemitholampilo ukutadisha ukwelashwa okusha kwesifo sakho kunabanye oncologists emphakathini.
Amaqembu ahlukile
Abantu abaningi abanomdlavuza webele we-metastatic bakuthola kuwusizo ukuba bahileleke eqenjini elenziwe ngabantu ababenomdlavuza webele we-metastatic. Izinhlobo zezinkinga ezibhekene nabesifazane abanomdlavuza webele wezinsana zokuqala ngokuvamile zihlukile kulabo abanomdlavuza wesifuba sezinyosi, futhi ukubhekana nalezi zingxabano kungaba buhlungu kakhulu.
Isibonelo, ngomdlavuza webele we-metastatic ungase ungakhathazeki ngokulondoloza ukuzala kwakho noma ukubuyekezwa ekuhlinzekeni kokuvuselelwa kwebele. Esikhundleni salokho, ungase ube nokukhathazeka okuningi okuhlobene nokuthola isifo esingelapheki abanye abantu abanesifo somdlavuza webele wesandulela-ngculazi abazange bacabange ngesilinganiso esifanayo.
Eqinisweni, ungase uzizwe ufana kakhulu nabantu abanezinye izinhlobo zomdlavuza ezisezingeni lesine kunabantu abanesifo somdlavuza webele esifushane.
Ngokujabulisayo, kukhona manje imiphakathi yomdlavuza wamabele eyenziwe ngokukhethekile kulabo abanesifo se-metastatic. Izibonelo zifaka:
- Ukuxoshwa ngumphakathi wokusekela owenziwe ngqo kulabo abanesifo se-metastatic
- I-Metastatic Breast Cancer Network (MBCN) inikeza ulwazi mayelana nendlela yokuphila nomdlavuza wesifuba we-metastatic, unomtholampilo wezilingo zomtholampilo, nokuningi okuningi
Ukusekela Amadoda
Iningi lemiphakathi ayinayo amaqembu okusekela umdlavuza wamabele oklanyelwe abesilisa, futhi amadoda amaningi angathola ukuthi iqembu labo lokusekela komakhelwane alihlangabezane nezidingo zabo.
Ubuhle be-inthanethi ukuthi abantu abaningi bangathola umphakathi ugxile ezimweni ezingavamile njengemdlavuza wesilisa wamabele.
Kukhona umehluko omkhulu phakathi komdlavuza webele emadodeni nasomdlavuza webele kubantu besifazane abavela ezinhlotsheni zomdlavuza, ezenzweni ezingcono kakhulu, ezenzweni zesimo sezakhi zofuzo. Ithuba lokukhuluma namanye amadoda lingasiza kakhulu uma ukhuluma ngezimpawu ezihlukile kubantu.
Ukusekela Abesifazane Abasha
Njengoba nje abantu abanomdlavuza webele benesidingo esiyingqayizivele, abesifazane abasha abanomdlavuza webele babhekana nezinkinga eziningi ezihlukile kubesifazane abasebasha. Futhi njengabantu, kunezindlela eziningi lapho lesi sifo singahluka khona.
Abesifazane abasebasha banamathuba amaningi okuba nezicubu ezinonya, izicubu ezingenayo i- hormone receptor engafanele futhi zibe nokuhlaselwa okubi kakhulu. Ukwelapha, futhi, kuvame ukuhluka, ngezinketho ezifana ne-chemotherapy edlala indima enkulu emdlalweni we-metastatic wamabele kunabesifazane asebekhulile abanesifo.
Ukuthola umphakathi wokusekela nabanye abantu abasha kungasiza kakhulu. Ezinye izinketho zifaka:
- I-Young Survival Coalition inhlangano eyenzelwe abesifazane abaneminyaka engama-40 noma abancane ababhekana nomdlavuza webele.
- I-Cancer Isisulu kuyinto iqembu labantu abadala (abaneminyaka engu-15 kuya ku-39) nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lomdlavuza, futhi lusebenza kakhulu ekusekeleni abantu abanezidingo ezihlukile kwabasindile abasha.
Ukusekela abaNakekeli
Ukunakekela othandekayo ngomdlavuza webele we-metastatic kuletha izinselele zayo. Nakuba sicabanga ngabantu abaphila nomdlavuza kaningi ngokuqondene nemiphakathi yokusekela, lezi zinethiwekhi zibaluleke kakhulu kubangani nomndeni.
Ngandlela-thile, ukusekela kungabaluleke nakakhulu njengoba ungakwazi ukuthembela othandekayo wakho ngomdlavuza wokusekela.
Ngesibonga ukusekela amaqembu abantu abanakekeli baba ngaphezulu. Inhlangano i-CancerCare inikeza ulwazi kanye nokusekelwa kwabanakekeli kanye nokukhathazeka okuyingqayizivele ababhekana nakho.
Ukuphepha ku-intanethi
Imiphakathi yomdlavuza e-inthanethi inganikeza ukuxhaswa okukhulu kubantu abaphila nomdlavuza webele we-metastatic, kodwa izwi lokuqapha lihlelekile. Sonke sizwile ukukhathazeka mayelana nokwabelana ngolwazi oluyimfihlo ku-intanethi, futhi ukuxilongwa kwakho akuhlukile. Ukwabelana ngendaba yakho nabanye ngemininingwane ethile ivumela abanye ukuthi bakusekele ngempela, ngakho ungakwenza kanjani lokhu ngokuphepha?
Amaqembu amaningi e-inthanethi yomdlavuza wesifuba we-metastatic ivikelwe iphasiwedi. Ngaphambi kokubhalisa qiniseka ukuthi ufunda mayelana nezinqubomgomo zabo zobumfihlo.
Kuzo zonke izingosi zokuxhumana, qiniseka ukuthi ugcwalise ngokucophelela izintandokazi zakho zobumfihlo ngaphambi kokuhlanganyela noma yini. Lezi zilungiselelo kumasayithi afana ne-Facebook avumela abantu abathile ukuthi babone ukuthi wabelane ngani hhayi abanye.
Yazi kahle izindaba zobumfihlo ngaphambi kokuthumela noma yini. Ufuna okuthunyelwe kwakho esesibhedlela ukuze ube umyalezo wokuthi udinga ukusekelwa kanye nemithandazo, hhayi ukuthi akekho umuntu ekhaya.
Qaphela ku-Advocacy
Kubalulekile ukwenza imibono embalwa mayelana nokukhuthaza. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngesikhathi esithile ohambweni lwakho uzocelwa ukuba ummeli webelevuza webele.
Ukuba ngummeli yingxenye ebalulekile yokuqwashisa nokukhiqiza izimali zokucwaninga. Abantu baphendula ebusweni nasezindabeni, hhayi izibalo, futhi ukwabelana indaba yakho kungaba yindlela ebalulekile yokwenza umehluko.
Noma kunjalo, ungabi nomuzwa wokuthi udinga ukuba ngummeli. Abantu abaningi bathola ukuthi ukubhekana nezibonakaliso zesifo sabo futhi banesikhathi esanele sokuchitha nabathandekayo kwenza kube nzima ukuhlanganyela kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi wokukhuthaza. Uma ngabe nguwe, sicela ungazizwa unecala noma ukuthi "awubuyiseli."
Esikhundleni salokho, kulabo abangenawo umdlavuza webele we-metastatic ukukhiqiza ukwesekwa. Indima ebaluleke kakhulu onayo manje ukuphulukisa ngangokunokwenzeka futhi uchithe isikhathi nabathandekayo oyidingayo.
> Imithombo:
> DeVita, Vincent., Et al. I-Cancer: Izimiso Nokusebenza Kwe-Oncology. Cancer of the Breast. I-Wolters Kluwer, ngo-2016.
> Society of American of Clinical Oncology. I-Cancer.Net. Ukubhekana nomdlavuza weMetastatic. Kubuyekezwe i-01/2016. https://www.cancer.net/coping-with-cancer/managing-emotions/coping-with-metastatic-cancer