I-Autism Akufanele Ihambisane Nendlela Yokuzijabulisa Kanye
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ene-autism isiphetho esincane noma esinzima se-autism spectrum, imisebenzi eminingi ingaba inselele. Eqinisweni, izinkinga ezithinta izinkinga kanye nesidingo sokuhambisa, "ukuvuselela," noma ukuphawula / ukwenza umsindo kufana ngokufanayo kulo lonke uhlobo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu abaningi abane-autism bakhetha ukwenza izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngokuvamile ngendlela efanayo .
Umphumela walezi zinselele, ngokudabukisayo, ukuthi imindeni eminingi enamalungu e-autistic igwema ukuzama izinto ezintsha namalungu omndeni wabo we-autistic.
Baye bavame ukugwema ukuzibandakanya ezithakazelweni zamalungu omndeni wabo, bethi (isibonelo) "Angifuni ukusunduza," noma "uzobuza ukuthi uyangifuna yini." Kodwa iqiniso lokuthi abantu abasemkhatsini angeke bacele inkampani ngenkuthalo noma bahlole amathuba amasha ngokwabo akusiyo isizathu sokuyeka!
I-Autism Akufanele ihlale endleleni yezintshisekelo ezabelwana ngazo
Njengoba kwenzeka, kunezindlela eziningi zabantu abane-autism namalungu omndeni wabo ukujabulela izinto zokuzilibazisa kanye nemisebenzi ndawonye. Kwezinye izimo, kuzodingeka izindawo zokuhlala - kodwa ezimweni eziningi, i-autism akuyona inkinga noma empeleni iyinzuzo.
Uzibandakanya kanjani ndawonye? Okokuqala, cela futhi uqaphele. Yini ilungu lomndeni wakho we-autistic elijabulelayo? Ukhetha kanjani ukwabelana nezithakazelo nawe? Kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, landela phezulu ekuholeni kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungase uthande ukucabangela ezinye zalezizinto ezithandwayo phakathi kwabantu abanomthelela ekusebenzeni okuphezulu kwe-autism.
Ukuzilibazisa kanye Nemisebenzi Yokujabulela Jikelele
- Amageyimu wevidiyo . Njengoba iningi lethu liyazi, imidlalo yevidiyo ayiyona nje yezingane - futhi iza emazingeni amaningi obunzima nobunzima. Ingane yakho ye-autistic ingase ijabulele ukudlala i-Minecraft noma i-Lego Harry Potter yodwa, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukujoyina futhi uhlanganyele kumnandi. Esikhundleni sokucabanga ukuthi awufunwa (noma ukuthi imidlalo inzima kakhulu kuwe!) Thatha isikhathi sokufunda izambo, ubuze imibuzo, futhi uhileleke. Uma ingane yakho isanda kuqala noma inenkinga ngemidlalo eyinkimbinkimbi, akukho lutho olungalungile ngokudlala imidlalo elula kakhulu. Eqinisweni, ungase ufune ngisho nokuqeda "ama-classics" ka-1980 "ukudubula abantu ababi" imidlalo, njengoba elula, elula, futhi ehlanganisa amabhathini amabili!
- I-Legos. I-Legos. Ubani owazi ukuthi isakhiwo sezitofini zokwakha amaplastiki singashintsha ngokugcwele, isisetshenziswa somhlaba jikelele sobuciko nesayensi? Uma ingane yakho ene-autism iyinhlangano ye-lego (futhi iningi) izinketho zakho azipheli. Yakha kusuka kuzinhlelo nemidwebo. Dala amadolobha wakho. Buka i-Lego movie. Yiya emihlanganweni ye-Lego. Hlanganyeka ne-Lego Mindstorms, bese ujoyina amaqembu futhi uphisana. Iya ku-Lego imibukiso yobuciko. Amathuba ayamangalisa!
- Izitimela . Uma ungumMelika, ungase ucabange ukuthi kuyinqaba ukukhumbula ngekhanda izinombolo zesitimela, ama-schedule, nama-specs. EBrithani, noma kunjalo, ukuqapha isitimela ngumsebenzi ohlonishwa isikhathi. Joyina ingane yakho ekufundeni ngezitimela. Hlola iminyuziyamu yezitimela lapho izitimela zangempela (kungamangazi) zibukeka kahle njengalezo eziboniswa nguTomas the Tank Engine TV . Buka amavidiyo ahlobene nesitimela. Funda izincwadi ezihlobene nesitimela. Yakha izitimela zemodeli. Vakashela izakhiwo zamafomethi. Joyina i-modeling club ndawonye.
- Ama-Anime . Inani elimangalisayo labantu abaningi e-spectrum uthando i-anime-uhlobo oluyinkimbinkimbi noluthandekayo lwezithombe zaseJapane. I-Anime inkulu, futhi yonke indawo. Joyina ingane yakho ngokubukela, ukufunda nokudweba i-anime. Yakha i-anime yakho kukhompyutha. Hamba (ngezingubo) ku-anime con. Izikole eziningi nemiphakathi ngisho neqembu le-anime ungajoyina!
- SF / Fantasy . Isayensi yezinganekwane kanye nefantasy ivame ukuthakazelisa kakhulu abantu abane-autism. Ngokuya ngamazinga abo abanomdla kanye namakhono abo, abantu e-spectrum bangase bafunde yonke imininingwane "yendawo" ethile, bhala izindaba zabo, babukele futhi babuyeke ama-movie , bafunde amahlaya, bahlanganyele noma badle izingubo zabo. Kukhona umhlaba wonke wamathuba omsebenzi wokuzijabulisa lapho, kuwo wonke amazinga. Thola i-crusader yakho yangaphakathi, futhi uhlanganyele!
- Ukubhukuda . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi olwandle, echibini, echibini, noma ngaphansi kwe-sprinkler, imisebenzi yamanzi iyamnandi cishe wonke umuntu. Futhi ngenkathi abanye abantu befunda ukushaywa, bajoyine amaqembu okubhukuda, noma baphathe isondo, abaningi nje ... bahambe bajabule ndawonye.
- Izintaba nokuhamba. Abantu abane-autism abavami kahle emidlalo yeqembu , kepha abaningi banamandla amaningi nokuqina. Uma ingane yakho ene-autism iwela kulolu chungechunge, cabanga ngokuhamba ngezinyawo nokuhamba. Kwezinye izindawo, ukuhamba ngezinyawo kusho ukugibela intaba eseduze; kwezinye izindawo, kusho ukuhamba phansi emgwaqeni. Noma yikuphi, kuyithuba elikhulu lokuzivocavoca futhi uchithe isikhathi ndawonye. Ungase futhi ufune ukuletha i-pair of binoculars ukuze uhlole ezinye izinyoni, ukuqeqesha isitembu noma inkanyezi ukubuka - futhi ucabange ngokwakha esinye isithakazelo esabelana ngaso.
- "Ukwenza." Abantu abaningi abane-autism bahle kakhulu ekuthatheni kanye nokwakha amadivaysi kusuka ku-alamu ama-engines amancane. Leli khono liyigugu kakhulu ngaphakathi komphakathi "Umenzi". Lo mphakathi okhulayo uhilela amalungu omphakathi ekukhuliseni, ekudaleni nasekuboniseni amadivaysi asebenzayo enza konke ngokuphakamisa nokuthuthela ekufundiseni nasekufundeni. Ingane yakho ingaba ngumenzi wokuqala, kodwa amakhono akhe angaba yindlela enhle yokuqalisa.
- I-Puzzle Solving . Abantu abaningi abane-autism, ngisho nalabo abangamagama, banekhono elikhulu lokuxazululisa ama-jigsaws namapuzzles afanayo. Lesi yisikhathi sokuzilibazisa esidumile - futhi ongabelana nawe ekhaya lakho wedwa, neqembu labangane, noma ngisho nasesimweni seqembu.
- Ukunakekelwa Kwezilwane. Akuwona wonke umuntu ohlangene othanda izilwane, kodwa labo abanesithakazelo banesithakazelo ngempela ngempela! Cabanga ngokwabelana ngalowo nentshisekelo ngemisebenzi ekwazi ukuhamba ngokugibela amahhashi ukuya ekunakekelweni kwezilwane, ukuzithandela ezindaweni zokugcina imvelo, ukukhuthaza ama-kittens noma amantombazane, ukujoyina ama-4-H, noma ukusebenza epulazini lendawo.