Uma kunenkinga eyodwa okwabelwana ngazo zonke izingane ezincane nge-autism, kunzima ngamakhono okudlala avamile . Abancane abane-autism bangase bahlanganise noma bapake amathoyizi, badlale ngokwabo futhi banqabe ukuxhumana nabontanga babo, noma bavele bavele, badwala noma bachithe isikhathi ezweni labo.
Yilokho ukuzibamba okwenza kube nzima kakhulu ezinganeni ze-autistic ukufunda ukulingisa, ukuzihlanganisa nezinye izingane, noma ukuxhumana nabantu abadala empilweni yabo.
Ngokombono, abazali bangadlala indima ebalulekile empeleni bafundise izingane zabo ezizimele ukuba zidlale. Kodwa ngenkathi "ukudlala nomntanakho" kuzwakale njenge-no-brainer, kungaba yinkinga enkulu kumzali we-autistic ingane.
Okwenza Kunzima Kakhulu Ukudlala Ngezingane Ezizimele
Nakuba abanye abadala bekuthola kulula ukudlala nezingane ngokujwayelekile, abaningi abaqiniseki ukuthi bangahlanganyela kanjani nomncane. Izingane ezivamile zisiza abantu abadala ngokuzicela ukuba "badlale i-horsey," noma "baphonsa ibhola," noma bahlanganyele emdlalweni. Izingane ezigunyazayo, noma kunjalo, zingase zingenise lutho kumuntu omdala. Eqinisweni, kuya kumuntu omdala ukuthola indlela yokuzibandakanya ngayo nokuxhumana nengane okungenzeka ingabi nentshisekelo ebonakalayo ekudlala. Ngenxa yalokho:
- Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthatha ukunakwa kwengane ye-autistic noma ukubambelela okungaphezu kwesikhashana noma ngaphezulu
- Uma uhlanganyele, ingane ene-autism ivame ukukhetha ukwenza izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe, futhi kungaba nzima ukuphula iphethini
- Izingane ezine-autism ngeke zivame ukuletha imibono yabo noma amandla ekudlala ukudlala, ngakho-ke yonke imibono namandla kumele ivela kumzali. Lokhu kungaba ukukhathaza nokukhungathekisa.
- Amathuluzi avamile esiwasebenzisayo ukubandakanya izingane, njengokubuza imibuzo, ukunikeza iziphakamiso, ukuqala umsebenzi othakazelisayo, kungase kuhambisane nomntwana nge-autism.
Kodwa zonke lezi zinkinga azitholi lutho uma kuqhathaniswa nokuzwakala kabuhlungu kwabazali kanye nokudabuka lapho ingane yabo ingayinaki izwe langaphakathi noma into. Yebo, abazali abaningi bangadlulela umuzwa wokwenqaba ukuzama izindlela ezintsha zokuzibandakanya nokuxhuma. Kodwa uma sifinyelela kumntanakho futhi uyasikhathalela, lapho sikhonsa ingane yethu futhi ihamba, lapho sihlanganyela ingane yethu futhi ibonakala ingaboni, kunzima kakhulu ukuthola amandla angokomzwelo okuqhubekayo ezama.
Esinye isisindo esikhulu yiqiniso elidabukisayo lokuthi abazali abaningi abakhohlwe ukuthi bangadlala kanjani. Yebo, bangadlala imidlalo yebhodi noma yezemidlalo, kodwa umqondo wokuzenza sengathi ungumuntu noma into abangekho awusathandeki. Abazali abaningi bangakwazi ukuhlela izinsuku zokudlala bese beka emuva ngenkathi izingane zabo zigijima futhi zidlala. Kodwa abazali abanezingane ze-autistic abanalo lokho okunethezeka.
Ngisho nokwesekwa nolwazi olumayelana "nendlela yokudlala nengane yakho ye-autistic," abazali abaningi bazizwa benzima kakhulu. Kunezinye izindlela ezilula zokuqala ukudlala nge-autistic ingane yakho, kanye nemithi eholwa ngumzali ukukusiza ukusiza ingane yakho ukwakha amakhono okudlala.
Amathiphu okudlala nge-Child Autistic yakho
Ngisho noma umdlalo ungaveli ngokwemvelo kuwe, ungasebenzisa ezinye zalezi zindlela ezivivinyayo nezokweqiniso ukubamba ukunakwa kwengane yakho futhi ujabule ndawonye.
- Uma unenkinga yokuthola ukunakekelwa kwengane yakho emisebenzini "ethandwayo" (ukuvula nokuvala umnyango, ukufaka izinto eziphezulu, njll), isisombululo esihle kakhulu ukujoyina ingane yakho kulo msebenzi. Uma usuqaphele, zama ukuhlukahluka komsebenzi nge (isibonelo) ungeze inselele encane noma uhambisa into ngaphandle komugqa. Ingane yakho izodinga ukuza kuwe ukuqhubeka yenza lokho akuthandayo, futhi lokho kuyisiqalo sokuxhumana .
- Ukuxosha kanye nokudlala imidlalo kungase kuqhubekele ingane encane engaqiniseki ukuthi ingaxhumana kanjani ngamazwi noma isabele ngendlela enomuntu.
- Ama-bubbles amathuluzi amangalisayo okubandakanya nokudlala. Blow inqwaba yamabhule ngokushesha bese bubble eyodwa enkulu. Ukushintshana.
- Ama-puppets angavame ukuxhuma nezingane lapho abantu bengakwazi. Ukusebenzisa ama-puppets abalingiswa abathandayo ngezinye izikhathi kungabangela izimpendulo ezimangalisayo.
- Ukudlala kwamanzi kungaba yindlela ehle kakhulu yokuzijabulisa nomuntu odlala ngokuzenzekelayo we-autistic. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udlala nge-hose noma echibini, noma nje uhamba emgodini noma ibhakede lamanzi, ungaba mnandi omningi ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuxoxa noma ukuncintisana.
- Ngenkathi izingane ezine-autism zingase zibe nesikhathi esinzima ekusebenzeni kwefomu yamahhala, ngokuvamile zithola kulula ukukhumbula ngekhanda izikripthi. Ungakha kulokhu ikhono ngokuphinda noma ukuhlabelela ndawonye kusuka kumbukiso we-TV ozithandayo. Ngisho noma "ungadlala" ngomqondo ojwayelekile, ungashintsha, wenze izigcawu, futhi uthuthukise ndawonye.
> Imithombo:
> Freeman S., et al. Ukusebenzisana komzali nengane ku-autism: izici zokudlala. I-Autism. 2013 Mar; 17 (2): 147-61. i-doi: 10.1177 / 1362361312469269.
> Strid, K, et al. Yenza sengathi udlalwa, ukuxhumana okulandelwayo nokulandelana komzali nengane ekukhulumeni nasezinganeni ezingenazo i-autism. I-Scand J Psychol. 2013 Feb; 54 (1): 26-32. i-doi: 10.1111 / i-sjop.12003.