Wena ubhalisa i-autistic yakho ohlelweni lwebhola lezinyawo zasenkulisa futhi ubukele njengoba ingane yakho ichitheka ngenkathi ezinye izingane zikhahlela ngenjabulo ibhola bese zigijima zibhekise emgomweni.
Ugqoka ingane yakho ngokucophelela ukuze i- Halloween ibonakale njengomlingiswa wakhe we-TV oyintandokazi, kuphela ukuthola ukuthi akakwazi ukuhlala endodongweni imizuzu engaphezu kwemibili ngaphandle kokuqubuka komzwelo .
Umema othandana naye enobungane ngaphezu kwedethi yokudlala. Ingane yakho ishiya ngokuzenzekelayo igumbi lokudlala futhi ikhuphuke phezulu phezulu - amahora amabili ngaphambi kokuba idethi yokudlala iphela.
Konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuvamile kubazali be-autism. Eqinisweni, abazali abaningi be-autism bahlangabezana nezinselelo ezinkulu kakhulu ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangenwe nakho kwezenhlalakahle: ingane yabo iphuma ngaphandle kwekamelo, ihlasela enye ingane, noma ihlukana ngokomzwelo lapho ibuzwa ukuba iqhaza.
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani imisebenzi yezenhlalakahle ejwayelekile kunzima kubantwana embukisweni - ikakhulukazi uma lezo zingane zisencane kakhulu, zinezinselelo ezinkulu, futhi / noma zinenkinga ebalulekile ngolimi olwamukelekayo nolwazile. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Umsindo nemisindo yomsebenzi wethimba efana nebhola kungaba yingozi yokuzizwa kwengane yakho ye-autistic.
- "Ukudlala ndawonye" nomunye ingane kungadinga amazinga okubandakanyeka komphakathi, ukuxhumana, kanye nokufunda okungaphezu kwamandla omntanakho.
- Imisebenzi enemibandela eyinkimbinkimbi, engaqondakali ingase ibe yinkimbinkimbi, ididekile futhi ikhungathekise ingane yakho.
- "Yenza ukukholelwa" futhi wenze sengathi imisebenzi ingadinga ukulungiselela nokuzikhandla okukhulu kunokuba abazali abaningi bazimisele noma bakwazi ukuhlinzeka.
Okuyiqiniso ukuthi imisebenzi eminingi ejwayelekile yomphakathi ingase ibonakale ilula futhi imnandi kumama nobaba, kodwa ayiyona into ebalulekile, engajabulisi, noma ephazamisa izingane ezine-autism.
Abazali, bazizwa benesifiso sokuhlangana nomndeni wabo nabangane babo-futhi bangakholelwa ukuthi ukuveza ingane yabo nge-autism emisebenzini kanye nemicimbi ejwayelekile kuyogcina ekuholeni ekutholeni nasekuhlanganyeleni. Bangase bazizwe becindezelekile ukuba baxoshe izingane zabo ze-autistic ukuba ziphathe "ngokujwayelekile."
Kodwa-ke, kungumqondo omuhle ukucindezela izingane ze-autistic zibe imisebenzi evamile abayijabuli ngokucacile? Cishe sonke isikhathi (ngezikhathi ezimbalwa ezingavamile ezingavamile ezifaka izimo eziphuthumayo nemicimbi ekhethekile, engavinjelwe) impendulo ayikho.
Nasi isizathu:
- Imisebenzi evamile ihilela izingane ezijwayelekile, abazali, nabafundisi / abaqeqeshi. Laba bantu bengazi kangako nhlobo mayelana ne-autism , futhi bangaba nesineke, bekhungathekile futhi behle ngisho nalapho ingane ingakwazi noma ingabe ingabambisani noma iqhaza.
- Imisebenzi evamile ivame ukuthatha insizakalo yezenhlalo kanye nokuzibandakanya izingane ezingenayo i-autistic. Isibonelo, abaqeqeshi bebhola lezinyawo bathi abadlali abaneminyaka emithathu noma engu-4 eqenjini labo ALREADY bamba umqondo wokuthi bazodlala kumaqembu, ukuthi umsebenzi wabo ukukhahlela ibhola emgomweni, ukuthi "ukwenza umgomo" kuyinto enhle , nokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele ajabule lapho ibhola lingena emgomweni. Izingane ezine-autism, ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, kungenzeka zingabi nalolu lwazi - futhi ngaleyo ndlela lonke ulwazi lubukeka, futhi luzwa, njengemingcele. Nakuba izingane ezine-autism ngokuvamile zikwazi ukukhahlela futhi zigijima, zidinga izinto ezinhle zeqembu elincanyana noma i-1: 1 imfundo nokuzijwayeza ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda imibono nokwakha amakhono abontanga babo abonakala sengathi abamba umoya omncane.
- Okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile ngemisebenzi evamile akunakwenzeka ukuthi kuholele ekuhlangenwe nakho okuhle ngemisebenzi ejwayelekile. Yebo, "zama futhi uzame" yi-mantra enhle ngokujwayelekile - kodwa iqiniso lokuthi abantwana abambalwa abane-autism bafuna ukuba yingxenye yeqembu lezenhlalakahle noma bahlanganyele emphakathini, ngakho-ke abanaso isisusa sokukhuthazela. Eqinisweni, uma bengenakho injabulo, ukhetho lwabo oluhle kakhulu ukukhombisa ukungabi naso injabulo ngokuzwakalayo futhi ngokusobala ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze baphume esimweni ngokushesha!
- Iningi lezingane ze-autistic zinezindawo ezithakazelisayo nezintandokazi ukuthi zona, ngokwazo, zijabulela. Lokhu kungase kungabi ngumphakathi - noma kungabandakanya umuntu oyedwa kuphela. Kungenzeka ukuthi akufaneli, noma kufanelekile ubudala . Bangase bangayitholi indumiso ka-grandparent s noma ontanga ejwayelekile. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ithanda i- egos, izitimela zamathoyizi , amakhosazana aseDisney, noma ihambahamba echibini lokubhukuda, lezi yizintshisekelo zangempela ezingaba isisekelo sokwakha ubudlelwane, ukwakha ikhono, noma ukuzijabulisa okulula .