Indlela Yokutshela Umlingani Wakho Womuntu Ufuna Ukuzivocavoca Ngezocansi Zomlomo Ophephile

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi ubulili bomlomo buyicansi eliphephile . Nakuba bephutha, lokho kucabangela kungenza kube nzima nakakhulu kubantu abafuna ukuzenza ubulili be-oral ephephile ukuze baxoxisane ngokusebenzisa i-fallatio ephephile . Uma umuntu engacabangi nge-blowjobs njengengozi, angase angaqondi ukuthi kungani umuntu efuna ukwenza ubulili ngomlomo esebenzisa ikhondomu . Yingakho kubalulekile ukulungele ingxoxo.

> * Ngisebenzisa "yena" njengesinqamuleli sokubhekisela kumlingani ophethe ipeni.

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Nakhu:

1. Qala ngokutshela umlingani wakho ukuthi unesithakazelo ngempela ekumnike umsebenzi onzima (kungenjalo, kungani uxoxisana owodwa?). Bese utshele ukuthi wenza iphuzu lokuziloca ucansi ophephile ngomlomo .

   Isikripthi seSampula: "Ngicabanga ukuthi u-sexy ngempela, futhi ngingathanda ukukunika i-blowjob. Noma kunjalo, ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi ngenza iphuzu lokuba nobulili bomlomo obuphephile."

2. Uma umlingani wakho engazi ukuthi ubulili bomlomo obuphephile buyini, khuluma ngakho. Mtshele ukuthi iqala ngokumvusa ngezandla zakho, noma ezinye izinkinga ,. Khona-ke ungabeka ikhondomu epeniseni ngaphambi kokuba uyithathe emlonyeni wakho. Ungamthatha futhi ngezinyathelo ozothola ku- How To Give A Safe Blowjob article.

   Isikripthi seSampula: "Kulungile, sizoqala ukuvula. Khona-ke sizobeka ikhondomu ngaphambi kokuba ngithathe ipeni lakho emlonyeni wami."

1. Uma umlingani wakho engaqondi ukuthi kungani ufuna ukuziphatha ngocansi ocansini oluphephile, ungakhathazeki. Vele ulungele ukukhuluma ngezingozi zezocansi zomlomo ezingavimbelwe. Khombisa ukuthi ubulili bomlomo bungabeka bobabili abalingani engozini yama-STD amaningi. Khumbuza ukuthi ukwenza i-fallatio ephephile kuyindlela enhle yokunciphisa ingozi yakho.

   Isikripthi seSampula: "Eziningi ze-STD zingasakazeka ngocansi lomlomo, kuhlanganise ne- herpes ne-syphilis. Eqinisweni, esinye sezizathu zokuthi lezo zifo ziba zivame kakhulu ukuthi abantu abaningi abenzi ubulili obulondekile bomlomo. kulula kangaka ukusakaza ngaleyo ndlela. "

1. Abanye abantu abazimisele ukuvumelana nocansi ngomlomo ophephile. Bangase bathi bangathanda ukungabi nobulili ngomlomo noma bazame. Bangase bazame ukukuphoqa ukuba uvume ukungasebenzisi ikhondomu. Uma ubulili obuphephile kubalulekile kuwe, khona-ke hamba nge-gut yakho. Kufanele ulungele ukuhamba kude nokuhlangana kocansi okungeke ukwazi ukukwenza ngokuphepha noma ukuphakamisa ezinye izinketho.

   Isikripthi seSampula: "Angifuni ukulala ocansini uma singenakho ukulala ocansini oluphephile. Uma ungafuni ukusebenzisa ikhondomu ukuze ubulili bomlomo, mhlawumbe singayilinga ingozi encane njengendlela yokushaya indlwabu ."

2. Ukusebenzisa ubulili obuhle ngokukhuluma ngomlomo , noma olunye ucansi oluphephile, akulona indawo yokuhlola okujwayelekile kwe-STD. Kodwa-ke, eziningi ze-STD ezingadluliselwa ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo, njenge- herpes azihlolwe njalo odokotela abaningi. Ngisho nalapho ukuhlolwa okuphelele kuphelile, kungenzeka ukuthi ungaphuthelwa i- STD . Isibonelo, izivivinyo kungenzeka zingalungile uma ukutheleleka kwenzeka kakhulu eduze nosuku lokuhlola noma ngemuva kokuthi ukuhlolwa kwenziwe. Khumbula ukubuza umlingani wakho lokho ahlolwe ngakho. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuhlolwa kwe-STD kuyingxenye yokuhlola uma kungenjalo.

   Isikripthi seSampula: "Ngiyazi ukuthi usuhlolwe ama-STD, kodwa yiziphi ozihlolwe ngazo?"

3. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ukuphepha akuyona kuphela isizathu sokusebenzisa amakhondomu ngenkathi i-fallatio. Abanye abantu abathandi ukunambitheka kwesimanga. Abanye bathanda ukuthi ikhondomu igweme ngokucophelela ukuphikisana "okugxeka" noma "ukugwinya". Okokugcina, amanye amadoda athola ukuthi ukusebenzisa ikhondomu ngesikhathi sex sex ngomlomo kungenza isipiliyoni isikhathi eside. Ukusebenzisa amakhondomu okwenza ucansi ngomlomo kungaba yindlela enhle, hhayi nje indlela yokunciphisa ingozi ye-STD.

Amathiphu:

1. Yilungele ukukhuluma ngezingozi zomlomo womlomo kanye nokuthi kungani ukuphepha kubalulekile kuwe. Kungase kusize ukuphrinta uhlu lwe- STD ezingadluliselwa ngocansi lomlomo olutholakala kusixhumanisi sokuqala.
2. Gxila ekutheni ucansi olulondekile lomlomo lusekhona ngokobulili ngomlomo. Uma ubulili bomlomo buyinto oyithandayo, ukuvuma ukukwenza ngekhondomu kungamthola okuningi.
3. Ungalokothi uxoxisane ngocansi uma ukhathele, u-cranky, noma phakathi kwesiphephelo socansi. Kulula kakhulu ukuba nengxoxo enhle mayelana nomsebenzi wocansi uma nonke niphapheme ... kodwa ngaphambi kokuba iqale ukushisa nokunyuka.
4. Khumbula ukuthenga amakhondomu angavunyelwe ukulala ngocansi. Awufuni ukuthi ulimi lwakho lube yindima kusukela ku- N-9

1. Kungaba nzima ukuxoxisana noshintsho kumikhuba nomlingani wamanje, kunokuba uxoxisane nomlingani omusha. Khuluma nomlingani wakho ngokuthi kungani ufuna ukwenza ushintsho. Lesi sizathu singase sibe esilula njengoba sinquma ukuba sisebenze ngokwengeziwe ngokuvikela impilo yakho yombili.

Okudingayo:

• Indawo ephephile ukuhlala futhi ukhulume nomngane wakho.
• Umlingani wakho, mhlawumbe esimweni esamukelekayo.

> Imithombo:

> Barbee LA, Khosropour CM, Dombrowski JC, Manhart LE, Golden MR. Ukulinganisa kwenani le-gonococcal, i-chlamydial ne-non-conmydial urethritis ephawulekayo yesifo se-gonococcal eyenziwa ngomlomo womlomo phakathi kwabantu abalala namadoda: isifundo sokulawula icala. I-Sex Transm iphelele. 2016 Mar; 92 (2): 155-60. i-doi: 10.1136 / i-sextrans-2015-052214.