Kuyinto evamile ukukhathazeka ngempilo yengane yakho, ikakhulukazi phakathi neminyaka yentsha. Njengoba ingane izuza ukuzimela, ngeke ukwazi ukuqapha yonke imisebenzi encane. Kunalokho, kuzodingeka enze izinqumo - eziningi ezingathinta impilo yakhe - eyedwa.
Ngakho kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bazi ngezingozi ezinkulu zempilo abasha abhekene nazo. Khona-ke, gxila ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ingane yakho inolwazi olunembile futhi ilungele kahle ukwenza izinqumo ezempilo zodwa.
Gxila ezingozini zangempela zezempilo ezingaba nomthelela kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe.
1. Izingozi
Izingozi zemoto yizona ezibangela ukushona kwentsha e-US Izikhungo zokuLawula nokuvimbela izifo ukuthi izinsizwa ezingu-7 ezineminyaka engama-16 no-19 ziyafa nsuku zonke ezilimala imoto kanti ngisho nangaphezulu ziphathwa ngamakamelo aphuthumayo nsuku zonke ukuze zibheke ukulimala. Intsha engama-16 kuya ku-19 inengozi enkulu yokufa noma ukulimala ekushayweni kwemoto kunanoma iyiphi enye inhlangano yobudala.
Ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ilandele isondo - noma iba umgibeli onomshayeli wesibindi - kubalulekile ukuqonda izingozi ezinkulu eziholela ekushayweni kwemoto yasencane. Zifundise ngezingozi zangempela bese ukhuluma nengane yakho ngabo. Dala uhlelo lokuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho izophephile ngemuva kwesondo futhi uzokwehlisa ingozi yengozi.
2. Ubudlova
Ubudlova buba yingxenye yezingozi ezinkulu zezempilo ezinganeni zakho, njengoba izintsha ezingaphezu kuka-16,000 ezineminyaka engu-12 kuya ku-19 e-US ziyafa ngonyaka ngodlame.
Intsha ingabhekana nezimo eziningana ezinobudlova.
Kwesinye isifundo sabafundi abasuka ebangeni lesi-6 kuya ku-grade 10, cishe ingxenye eyodwa yesithathu ibike ukuthi ihlukunyezwa noma iziphatha ngendlela yokuxhaphaza ngokwabo, ngokwe-CDC . Abafundi abangamaphesenti angama-33 ku-inhlolovo kazwelonke babike ukuthi babephethe isikhali - ummese noma isibhamu - okungenani kanye ezinsukwini ezingu-30 ezedlule.
Zifundise ezenzweni eziyingozi zokuhlukunyezwa kwentsha. Xoxa ngezingozi nengane yakho bese ukhuluma ngamasu angasiza ingane yakho ukuba ihlale iphephile. Qinisekisa ukuthi uxoxisane nobudlova obuseduze, ngoba ukuhlukunyezwa nobudlova kungenzeka ebuhlotsheni bomshado.
Ukuzibulala
Lesi yisizathu sesithathu sokufa kwabasha, cishe cishe kwabafundi abayi-11 esikoleni esiphakeme bazama ukuzibulala. Intsha eningi iningi ukucabanga ngokuzibulala kodwa ungenzi lutho kuyo. Izizathu zokuzibulala nokuzama ukuzibulala ziyahlukahluka, kepha zihlanganisa isizungu, ukucindezeleka, izinkinga zomndeni kanye nokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa. Lezi zinkinga ziyinkimbinkimbi futhi azikona umphumela owodwa noma ezimbili. Intsha enokukhulumisana okuhle okungenani umuntu oyedwa omdala ayinamathuba okuba ahlanganyele ekuziphatheni okunobungozi futhi kungenzeka ukuthi angacindezeleka.
4. Ukukhulelwa kwentsha
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi izinga lokukhulelwa kwentsha liye lancipha eminyakeni yamuva kusukela ekuphakameni kwayo eminyakeni yama-1980 kanye no-1990. Ngonyaka ka-2012, abesifazane abangaba ngu-29 kuphela kwabayishumi abaneminyaka engama-15 no-19 ubudala bakhulelwa, ngokwe-CDC. Kubonakala sengathi intsha eningi isetshenziswa ukulawula ukubeletha kunasekupheleni kwamashumi eminyaka adlule, okwenza kube nokukhulelwa okuncane okungahlelelwe. Kulabo abasha abakhulelwe, noma kunjalo, izingozi zingabandakanya izinkinga ezivela ekukhulelwe, okungenzeka zibangele ukugula noma ukulimala kumama noma ingane, futhi ithuba elilahlekile lomnotho ngokukhulelwa kwentsha lihlala liphawulekayo.
5. STDs
Nakuba intsha imelela amaphesenti angama-25 kuphela abantu abanobulili, i-50% yezofo ezintsha ezithathelwana ngocansi, ngokusho kweDoSomething.org. Amacala amasha angu-20 amasha wezifo zocansi avela e-US ngonyaka ngamunye. Cishe amaphesenti angu-46 esikoleni esiphakeme e-US abike ukuthi babe nobulili ; kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi intsha iqaphe izingozi zokutheleleka nge-HIV kanye ne-gonorrhea phakathi kwamanye ama-STD.
6. I-cigarettes, i-Alcohol, kanye nezidakamizwa (kubandakanya izidakamizwa zemithi)
Ngonyaka owedlule, abangaphezu kwezingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zabadala baye bazama noma basebenzisa imikhiqizo kagwayi njalo.
Ucwaningo lukazwelonke lubike ukuthi amaphesenti angu-28 abafundi esikoleni esiphakeme njengamanje asebenzisa imikhiqizo kagwayi. Ukusetshenziswa kwemikhiqizo yegwayi kuhlotshaniswa nemikhuba eminingana eyingozi, kuhlanganise nokusetshenziswa kokuphuza utshwala. Abafundi abangu-9 kwabangu-10 esikoleni esiphakeme babika ukuthi baphuze utshwala, ngokusho kwe-Mentoring.org.
Ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa kuyingozi enkulu enganeni, kanti amaphesenti angu-6 amasha abikwa ukuthi asebenzisa i-cocaine okungenani kanye, ngokusho kwe-Mentoring.org. Amaphesenti amathathu esikoleni samabanga aphezulu abika ukuthi usebenzisa ama-steroids. Kukhona inani elikhulayo labantu abafa eminyakeni eyishumi nambili kusukela ku-anti-painter prescription.
7. Ukudla ukuphazamiseka nokugqithisa ngokweqile / ukukhuluphala
Amaphesenti angaba ngu-87 abafundi abafunda esikoleni esiphakeme abadli izinsizakalo eziyisihlanu zezithelo nemifino ngosuku, futhi amaphesenti angaba ngu-25 adla okungaphezu kwama-servings amafutha aphezulu ngosuku. I-adolescents ingahlakulela ukuphazamiseka kokudla lapho bengadli okwanele, futhi ngokuzithandela balambile ngokwabo, njenge-anorexia, noma bangase bahlambuluke, njengokungathi ku-bulimia, noma bangadla ngokweqile futhi babe namandla ngokweqile noma bakhuluphele. Cishe amaphesenti angu-33 abafundi abafunda esikoleni esiphakeme abatholi ukuzivocavoca ngokwanele , kanti amaphesenti angaba ngu-36 abhaliswa izinhlelo zemfundo yansuku zonke.