Nazi ezinye izeluleko zokuzama
Amakhondomu ngokuvamile ayindlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza ucansi luvikeleke. Ngeshwa, akubona wonke umuntu othanda ukusebenzisa amakhondomu. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi, esithandweni esithandana nabesilisa nabesilisa abahlala ocansini, ngaso sonke isikhathi ngumlingani wesilisa ocansini obengafuni ukusebenzisa ikhondomu . Nokho, lokho akunjalo ngempela. Ngokuvamile owesifazane uthi akafuni ucansi ngamakhondomu noma akafuni ukuyisebenzisa.
Abanye besifazane bakhathazekile kuphela ngokukhulelwa, noma abakwazi ukuzicabangela ukuthi basengozini yezocansi . Bangase bakhethe ezinye izinketho zokulawula ukubeletha amakhondomu. Bangase bacabange ukuthi amakhondomu ayadingekile. Bangase bakhathazeke ngokuthi umlingani ocela ukusebenzisa ikhondomu uwahlulela ngokuziphatha kocansi kwangaphambilini. Kulezi zimo kubalulekile ukuba nezingxoxo ezingokoqobo mayelana nezingozi nokukhathazeka. Isibonelo, amadoda aphinde akhathazeke ngokukhulelwa angacabangela amakhondomu ukukhetha okuphambili kwipilisi.
Abanye besifazane bacabanga ngamakhondomu njengokuthile kwabanye abantu, ngenxa yekilasi, ubuhlanga, noma ezinye izici. Bangase banqume ukusetshenziswa kwekhondomu noma babe nezinkolelo ezinzima mayelana nendima yabo ekuhlangabezaneni ngokocansi okunempilo. Laba besifazane bangadinga ukucabanga okubalulekile kokudala ubulili obuphephile. Ngesinye isikhathi, uma bengenakuqiniseka ukuthi basebenzisa amakhondomu, bangase badingeke banikezwe ngenhlonipho. Bobabili abalingani kufanele bavumelane ngezingozi ezamukelekayo phakathi kocansi.
Uma kungenjalo, akuwona umqondo omuhle ukuqhubeka phambili. Ukuvumelanisa ukulala ocansini uma ungaqiniseki ngokulawula ingozi yakho kwenza kube lula ukuzijabulisa wonke umuntu.
Okokugcina, abanye abesifazane abathandi amakhondomu ngoba benza ubulili bungakhululekile noma buhlungu ngisho. Leli qembu lingakusizwa ngempela. Izinhlobo zamakhondomu ezihlukile zingase zibe yindlela enhle kubo.
Ngakho-ke kungakwazi ukushintsha kancane imikhuba yabo yobulili.
Kungani Amakhondomu Agula?
Izizathu ezintathu ezivamile zokuthi kungani abesifazane bekwazi ukubhekana nobulili bekhondomu kukhona ukuphefumula kwe-latex, izinkinga nge- nonoxynol-9 , nabalingani abangasebenzisi lubisi olwanele. Ukucasuka kunoma iyiphi yalezi zinkinga kungashiya owesifazane ezwa engakhululekile. Okubi nakakhulu, lokho kuthukuthela kungamshiya engcupheni yokutheleleka kwamagciwane , izifo zesilonda , kanye ne- bacterial vaginosis . Ngenhlanhla, zonke lezi zinkinga zilula kakhulu ukubhekana nazo.
Uma umlingani wakho ekutshela ukuthi amakhondomu enza ubulili buhlungu, lalela. Bese umtshele ukuthi kunezindlela ezithile zokwenza kube lula ukhululekile ukwenza ubulili obuphephile :
- Shintshela kumakhondomu angasebenzi. Ngabo, sebenzisa i- lubricant eningi-esekelwe ngamanzi, noma i-silicone-based (ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ayinayo i-N-9). Ungakwazi (cishe) ungalokothi ube ne-lube kakhulu. I-Lube iyindlela elula yokwenza ucansi lungcono. Iyanciphisa ukungqubuzana nobuhlungu, futhi kungenza nokungenelela kube mnandi kubo bonke abantu.
- Zama amakhondomu ambalwa amakhondomu ahlukene . Ama-condoms ahlukene e-latex angase abe nezinhlobo ezahlukene zama-proteine ezitshalo. Ngokuthakazelisayo, ngokuvamile lawo ma-protein ukuthi abantu abaphikisana ne-latex empeleni bazwela. Bambalwa abantu abaphikisana ne-latex ngokwayo.
- Shintshela kuma- condomsthane amakhondomu . Lezi khondomu ziphephile futhi zivikela izifo ze-STD (iziphi ikhondomu zemvelo ezingekho ). Ngcono nakakhulu, ungasebenzisa i-lubricants-based based oil! Kodwa-ke, zibiza kakhulu kunezikhondomu ze-latex, futhi zingase ziphule kaningi. Amakhondomu amaningi abesifazane abenziwa nge-polyurethane. Kungaba yinto ejabulisayo yemibhangqwana ethile.
- Shintshela kuma-condoms e- polyisoprene . Lezi kondomu zenziwe nge-latex yokwenziwa okungenakwenzeka ukuthi ibangele ukusabela okweqile. Kungenzeka ukuthi bayakukhetha ukuba i-polyurethane ikhondomu kwabanye abantu. Ukuzwa okuvela kubo kubuye kufane nekhondomu yendabuko, i-latex.
Abanye besifazane bangalokothi bathande ubulili obuphephile njengoba bathanda ubulili obuvikelekile. Kodwa-ke, uma ubulili obuphephile kubalulekile, kungakufanelekela ukuyekethisa. Ukuthula kwengqondo kwenza kube lula ukuzijabulisa ngesikhathi socansi, uma kungenzeka ube nokukhathazeka ngama-STD.
Kubuye kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kukhona amathiphu njalo namasu okwenza ucansi oluphephile ngesondo . Ukusebenzisa ikhondomu kungashukumisa futhi kumnandi esikhundleni sokuphazanyiswa. Ingqondo evulekile, umcabango omncane, nolwazi mayelana nezindlela ze-latex zingenza indlela ende yokwenza abesifazane bathande amakhondomu.
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