Uma ukhona onjengawe, uziqhenya ngamandla akho okubhekana nesimo sangempela, ukubhekana nezinselele, futhi uthole okuhle - ngisho nasezimo ezinzima. Uma kuziwa ku-autism, cishe ufuna ukwenza into efanayo. "Ngitshele ngokuqondile, Doc," ofuna ukusho. "Ingabe ingane yami izoke ifunde ukukhuluma? Ingabe uzokwenza abangane ? Ingabe uzophothula esikoleni, abambe umsebenzi, akhe ubuhlobo?" Emva kwakho konke, ungase uzizwe, ngisho nokuhlaselwa okungalungile kuzokusiza ukusekela izinselelo zezingane zakho nokuhlela ikusasa lakhe.
Ngezinye izimo, cishe uzothola impendulo efanelekayo. Mhlawumbe uzozwa "kunamathuba angama-60% alowo mphumela," noma "uzilungiselele ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi i-X izokwenzeka."
Nge-autism, noma kunjalo, ayikho indlela enhle kakhulu yokubikezela imiphumela . Udokotela wengane yakho ayikwazi, ngokukholwa okuhle, akutshele okuningi ngalokho ingane yakho engakwenza noma ezokwazi ukuyenza - ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho isencane kakhulu. Odokotela abanayo amathuluzi athembekile okuthola ukuthi ingane izokwenza ngcono yini, kakhulu, noma kakhulu - futhi akukho mathuluzi nhlobo ekunqumeni ukuthi yiziphi izindlela zokwelashwa ezihlukahlukene noma izilungiselelo zemfundo ezizophumelela kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu onikeziwe.
Ngenxa yalokho, ingxoxo yakho engokoqobo ingahamba into enjengale:
- Ingabe uzofunda ukukhuluma?
- Kungenzeka. Eziningi zezingane ezine-autism zifunda ukukhuluma kamuva kunokujwayelekile.
- Ingabe uzophothula esikoleni esiphakeme?
- Kunzima ukwazi. Abanye abantwana abane-autism benza kahle kakhulu esikoleni, kodwa abanye abakwenzi.
- Ingabe usizo lwe-XYZ luzosiza ingane yami?
- Awu, unedumela elihle futhi alikwazi ukulimaza-kungani ungazami!
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, ezinye izici zekusasa lakhe zizocaca. Ingane engazange ifunde ukukhuluma ngeminyaka eyisithupha noma eyisikhombisa cishe ayikwazi ukuthuthukisa ulimi olukhulunywa ngendlela ejwayelekile.
Ingane enokukhubazeka kakhulu ekufundeni izokuthola kunzima noma kungenakwenzeka ukuhlala ekilasini ejwayelekile. Kodwa ngisho lezi "zingokoqobo" zingashintsha njengoba ingane yakho ifunda futhi ikhula. I-kindergartener ephumelela ekilasini ehlangene angathola ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuphatha okulindelekile okusemqoka, ngenkathi engenakulingisa-ukuphatha esikoleni esingafundile angavuthwa ukuba abe umfundi ofanelekayo.
Mhlawumbe ngisho nokuzikhandla ukubikezela ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho izophatha kanjani izinkinga ezithinta izinkinga eziyingxenye ye-autism. Ezinye izingane ezincane zizwela kakhulu ngokuzwakalayo, ukukhanya, noma iphunga - kodwa ziba nzima kakhulu isikhathi. Abanye abantu balondoloza amazinga afanayo wokuzwela kodwa bathola amathuluzi okuphatha izinselelo zabo. Kodwa abanye abantu abakaze bafunde ukubhekana nanoma yikuphi ukuvelela okuphawulekayo "okuhlaselwa," okwenza kube nzima ukuphendula ngokujwayelekile kumabellane esikoleni, ukuhlonipha izimpondo, izibani zokukhanyisa, noma ezinye izinto ezijwayelekile nemisindo yokuphila kwanamuhla. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu ophethe i-IQ ephezulu kanye nezindaba ezinzulu ezizwayo angathola kunzima ukubhekana nesikole nomsebenzi kunomuntu one-IQ ephansi kanye nekhono elikhulu lokuphatha izinselele zengqondo.
Ngolwazi oluncane kakhulu olwaluzokwakhela kuso, kuba nzima kakhulu ukubhekana "neqiniso". Eqinisweni, ngokwamukela ukulinganiselwa okuncane empilweni yengane yakho, kungenzeka ube nomkhawulo wamathuba abo wokunqoba lezo zimingcele.
Ngomfanekiso ofanayo, umzali othatha ingane yakhe encane uzokhamba, ahambe, futhi adonsele izinselelo ze-autistic ezedlule zingase zibe yinto engamangalisa.
Ngezansi, abazali ababhekene neqiniso le-autism banamathele esimeni esingenakulungiswa kodwa sangempela sokuthatha impilo njengoba ifika.