Ukunakekela Othandekayo Ngemva Kokuhlinzwa Okuphelele Okuhlangene Okuphelele

Umngane noma othandekayo uye wahlinzwa ngokugcwele , futhi ngenkathi elulame esibhedlela, udokotela osebenza ngokomzimba ufaka ukuqala inqubo yokuvuselela. Ukubuka i-grimace yakho ethandekayo njengoba evuka futhi ehamba nge-hip yabo entsha kwenza uzizwe ungenalutho. Yini ongayenza? Ungaba kanjani umsizi osebenzayo ekuhlanganiseni komunye umuntu ngokuhlanganyela ngaphandle kokucindezela noma ukuhamba endleleni?

Iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuba ngumnakekeli womuntu emva kokuhlinzwa okuphelele kokujoyina okuphelele?

Indlela Ongasiza ngayo

Uma ngabe umngane noma ilunga lomndeni lisebenza ngokuhlinzwa ngokuhlanganyela, kunezinto ongayenza ukuze usize. Lokhu kungabandakanya izinto ezilula noma imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa noma iyiphi into ingaba usizo ngenkathi othandekayo wakho elula. Izindlela ezehlukene umnakekeli angasiza ngemuva kokuba ukuhlinzwa kokujoyina okubandakanya kungafaka:

Ngokuvamile, ukutholakala kumngani wakho noma othandekayo emva kokushintshaniswa okuhlangene kungase kube konke okudingekayo. Ukunikeza ukunakekelwa kanye nokugqugquzela kungase kube yilokho okudingekayo. Lalela isiguli, futhi ube nesineke lapho unakekela othandekayo wakho emva kokuphindaphinda okuhlangene.

Indlela Ukwelashwa Kwemvelo Kungasiza Ngayo

Kungumqondo omuhle ukuhamba nomngane wakho noma othandekayo ku-PT ngemuva kokuphindaphindiwe okuphelele kokuhlanganyela. Umhlinzeki womzimba angasebenza nawe (nesiguli) ukusiza wonke umuntu ukuba aqonde ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe ukuze inikeze ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu. Ezinye izinto i-PT engayenza ingaba:

Qinisekisa ukuthi ulalele ochwepheshe bezempilo, bese uzama ukungabi kakhulu ngokweqile ngesikhathi sesipiliyoni. I-PT izokubiza uma kunesidingo; akukho okubi kakhulu kunomnakekeli ovimbela inqubekelaphambili ye-rehab emva kokuphindaphindiwe kokuhlanganyela okuphelele.

Izwi elivela

Kungaba nzima ukubukela umuntu okhathalelayo ukuthi ahambe ngokuhlinzwa okuphelele kokujoyina ngokuhlanganyela kanye nokuvuselela kabusha, futhi ungase uthande ukuzibandakanya nokusiza. Ukuba ngumnakekeli womuntu emva kokuphindaphindiwe okuphelele kungaba nzima. Ngeke ukwazi ukuthi yini edingekayo noma okufanele ukwenze ukuze unikeze usizo olungcono kakhulu. Sebenza nomthandi othembekile wenyama futhi ulalele izidingo zesiguli, futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi ungumnakekeli osebenzayo kumuntu emva kokuhlinzwa okuphelele kokujoyina.

> Umthombo:

> Scott, JE, etal. Ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka emva kokuphindaphindiwe okuhlanganisiwe kwabantu abadala: ukuhlaziywa kwemeta. Impilo Ekhulile Impilo, 20 (12): 2015; 1243-1254.