Esinye sezibonakaliso zesifo sokuwohloka komqondo sidabukisa isikhathi, indawo noma umuntu . Umbhangqwana ukuthi ngokulahlekelwa inkumbulo , kanye nokukwazi ukudideka kokudideka.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lokhu kudideka kuboniswa ngokubiza umama noma ubaba. "Mama, uphi?" "Baba, woza lapha!" Umuntu onesifo sengqondo somqondo angase afune ukuba khona komzali ukuhlinzeka ngokuphepha nokuqinisekiswa esimweni esingavamile, futhi ukhohliwe ukuthi othandekayo wabo ufile eminyakeni edlule.
(Ngisho noma lokho kulungiselelwa kungumuntu womuntu, kungenzeka ukuthi awusakwazi ukuzibona.)
Iyiphi indlela enhle yokuphendula le kholi? Yini ongayisho ukuze uqiniseke futhi ududuze lo muntu?
Nazi izindlela ezintathu zokuzama:
Qinisekisa imizwa yomuntu ngokuchitha isikhathi naye, ubuza imibuzo futhi uyamqinisekisa. Ungazama into enjengale: "Sawubona, ufuna othile? Ngikuzwile ucela usizo. Ngingakusiza ngento ethile?"
Uma ebuza ukuthi unina ungubani, ungasho ngokuqinisekile ukuthi, "Angiqiniseki. Angikaze ngikubone kamuva." Uma uFran eqhubeka ecela unina, ungazama le mibuzo: "Umama wakho ubukeka kanjani? Ingabe wayengumpheki omuhle? Ungubani ukudla kwakhe okusemnandi? Ungakwazi yini ukucula kahle? Ingabe wayenomsebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya? Ngabe unjani izinwele zakhe? Wayefundisani? Uthandani ngaye? "
Ngezinye izikhathi, uma usebenzisa ukuqinisekiswa, lo muntu angase aduduzwe nje ngokukhuluma ngomama wakhe noma ubaba ophuthelwayo.
Lezo zinkumbulo zinganele ukuze zizolile futhi ziqinisekise lowo muntu. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuqinisekiswa kungasiza ngisho umuntu ukuba eze endaweni engxoxweni lapho bethi, "Uyazi, ngimkhumbula ngempela umama wami. Wafa eminyakeni eminingana edlule."
- Ukuphazamiseka
Ukuhlangabezana nesidingo sesiguli sakho noma esimthandayo ngokumqinisekisa ngendlela ehlukile.
Msize agxile kokuthile okuhlukile futhi kujabulise. Zama lokhu: "Mama, singakwazi yini ukuhamba ndawonye? Ngidinga ngempela ukwelula imilenze yami futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi nawe uyenze. Ake sithole umoya omusha. Ngizizwa ngingcono kakhulu ngemva kokuphefumula ngokujulile ngaphandle wena? Ngingakuthola yini ikhukhi ukuze ngijabulele ngaphandle, futhi? Mama, ngibonga kakhulu ukuthi ngingakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi nawe. "
Ngezinye izikhathi, isimo siqala lapho kungcono khona ukuba sibe nokuqondisa nokuthembeka, ngisho nalapho kungalimala. Isibonelo, uma othandekayo wakho ekhathazekile ngomama wakhe noma ubaba futhi akholelwa ukuthi abagula noma engozini, kungase kube usizo, uma beqhubeka nokukhathazeka kwabo, ukubatshela ukuthi umuntu usufile kakade ukuze abakhathazeki ngokuphathelene nabo.
Ngokuvamile, le ndlela ayinconywa ngoba ingase ibangele umuntu ukuba aqale inqubo yokulila ngokuphindaphindiwe ukulahlekelwa ngumzali. Kodwa-ke, ekuhlangenwe nakho kwami kwempilo, kuye kwaba nezikhathi lapho empeleni kunikeze ukukhululeka komuntu onesifo sengqondo somqondo ngenxa yokuthi bangabeka eceleni izinkathazo zabo eceleni.
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