Indlela Yokukhuluma Nodokotela Wakho Mayelana Nokunqamuka Kwesikhashana

Uma ufunda isihloko salesi sihloko bese uthi kuwe, "Kungani ngidinga ukubona udokotela?" Okulungile kakhulu.

Ukunqamuka kwesikhashana kanye nokuphela kwesikhathi akuzona izifo noma izifo; akudingi ukuthi badinga ukwelashwa noma ukuphulukiswa (nakuba abezindaba kanye nabanye abakhiqizi bemikhiqizo baye basiholela ekukholweni okungenjalo). Ngempela, asithathi izingane zethu kudokotela lapho kushaywa ubusuku, akunjalo?

Lokho kusho ukuthi, ukuhlola nodokotela wakho, ukusebenza kahle, nokusebenzisa ama-aphoyintimenti ahleliwe njalo njengethuba lokungena ngemvume mayelana nezinguquko empilweni yakho yonke imibono emihle.

Futhi, kungase kube nezimpawu ezingase ziphazamise izinga lakho lokuphila futhi ungase ufise ukuxoxa ngezinketho nodokotela wakho.

Cishe abesifazane abangu-20% abanaso izimpawu nhlobo. Amaphesenti angu-80 abesifazane abhekana nezinguquko ezithile zomzimba, ezokwenyama kanye / nezingokwengqondo / ezomzwelo-kusukela ekunciphiseni kuze kube ngokweqile. Uma ungekho phakathi kwe-20% noma iqembu elincane, yazi lokhu:

  1. Izimpawu ezihlobene nokushintsha kwe-hormonal mid-life zingokoqobo.
  2. Akudingeki ukuba uyilise noma uhlupheke ngokuthula.
  3. Uma omunye umhlinzeki wezempilo enqamula izimpawu zakho noma ekutshela ukuthi "awukho khona okwamanje," unezinye izinketho.

Izimpawu zokuphela kwesikhathi zingase ziphazamise ngoba zivame kakhulu ukuthi sizishiya kakhulu (thina-ngabesifazane). Ikakhulukazi phakathi neminyaka engama-30 nangama-40s, asiqiniseki ngempela ukuthi sibhekene nezimpawu zokuzimela noma izimpawu zokuphila ("Ngicindezelekile emsebenzini ... izingane ... ukuhlukaniswa, njll") .

Ukukhungatheka kuyakhula uma ufaka phakathi kokungaqondakali okuvamile ukuthi ukuphuma esikhathini sokuya esikhathini (ngakho-ke izimpawu) aziqali kuze kube yilapho usu-50. (Isilinganiso seminyaka yokumisa isikhashana-isikhumbuzo sezinyanga ezingu-12 sesikhathi sakho sokugcina-siyi-51.2. kuya eminyakeni eyi-15 ngaphambili.)

Nini Ukubonisana nodokotela wakho

Ngokuvamile abesifazane bavame ukubeka imibala yokuqala noma izinguquko ezibonakalayo emshini wokushisa emuva.

Kodwa-ke, ukuphenya kungasho ukukhathalela ukukhathazeka kwezempilo okungathí sina. Kungcono ukulawula labo ngaphandle; kungcono ukuphepheka kunokudabuka.

Incwadi Yokunqamuka Kwesimiso KaPat Wingert noBarbara Kantrowitz inikeza lokhu okulandelayo njengesiqondiso lapho kufanele ubone udokotela ngokuphathelene nezimpawu okungenzeka zihlobene nama-hormone aguqukayo, i-midlife kanye / noma ukuyeka esikhathini sokuhamba kanye nokuphela kwesikhathi:

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wenze i-aphoyintimenti ukuthi uxoxe ngokuqondile ngesikhatsi sokuzimela nomhlinzeki wakho wokunakekelwa kwezempilo, noma uhlola ukuhlola njalo noma ukuhlolwa kwonyaka, kuhle ukubuyekeza uhlu lwezimpawu zokuphela komuntu bese ulandelela inyanga noma ngaphezulu ngaphambi kokuqokwa kwakho. Yenza uhlu lwezinguquko, njengalezo ezibalwe ngezansi, bese usebenzisa isilinganiselo 1-10 ukuze ulandele ubunzima.

Khumbula ukuthi odokotela basosayensi futhi bathanda idatha. Ukuboniswa kuze kufike aphoyintimenti yakho ngezinyanga eyodwa noma ezimbili idatha elandelwe ukuchaza izimpawu zakho kuzohamba indlela ende ukusiza udokotela wakho akusize.