Ingabe Ukuziphatha Kwengane Yami Kuyisibonakaliso se-Autism?

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Ingabe Ukuziphatha Kwengane Yami Kuyisibonakaliso se-Autism?
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Lezi zinsuku, kubonakala sengathi i-quirk encane ingahle ibhalwe "uphawu lwe-autism." Ingane ikhetha ukudlala yodwa - ngakho kumele ibe yi-autistic. Akabheki abantu ebusweni - yi-autism. Uphuza ukukhuluma - kufanele kube yi-autism.

Yiqiniso, akekho kulezi zinto eziziphathekayo ngokwazo eziyizibonakaliso ze-autism, nakuba zingase zibonise noma yini ezivela kunzima ngombono noma ukuzwa ukuzwa ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo ukuze kube namahloni alula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuziphatha okuthile (noma ukuhlanganiswa kokuziphatha) kuvame ukusikisela kakhulu kwe-autism - futhi kungase kubonise ukuthi ukuhlolwa kungaba umbono omuhle.

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Ukuduma, ukuTubling, i-Pacing
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I-Stim isifushane "yokuzivuselela." Wonke umuntu - i-autistic noma cha - inqabile. Abanye abantu baluma izipikili zabo, abanye badonsa umunwe wabo. Ezinye izingane ziyasisa izithupha zazo. Izinsizi zisisiza ukuba sikhulule ukukhathazeka, ukuze sikwazi ukugxila esimweni esiphambi kwethu. Abaningi bethu bakhetha izithiyo ezamukelekayo ngokwemvelo (ukushaywa kwama-nail kunokugwedla emuva nangaphandle, isibonelo). Asikho isizathu esihle sokuthi ukubamba i-nail kufanele kube ngukuthi "Kulungile," kodwa ... kunjalo.

Abantu abane-autism, noma kunjalo, bavame ukubuka nxazonke ukuze babone ukuthi abanye benzani ngaphambi kokwenza lokho abazizwa bekulungele. Ngakho-ke, izinwele ezijwayelekile zokubamba kanye nokuluma kwe-nail akuvamile kakhulu kubantu abane-autism. Esikhundleni salokho, izibhamu ezithile, ezihlanganisa izinzwane ezihamba ngezinyawo, ukuzulazula, ukushaya izandla, ukuxubha izandla, nokuhamba phambili, kubonakala sengathi zivame kakhulu kubantu abane-autism kunabanye abantu.

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Ukungabi "Nokunakwa Okufanayo"
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Ukhombisa ingane yakho ukuthi ushaya kanjani ama-bubbles, futhi uyabopha. Uyethula indodakazi yakho enjaweni yomngane, futhi uyabukela bese ephinda abuyele inja njengoba wenza. Ufunda kumncanyana wakho, futhi uthatha le ncwadi, aphendule amakhasi, athi amagama akhunjulwe kahle nawe. Lezi yizona zonke izibonelo 'zokunakwa okuhlanganyelwe,' okusho ukuthi ulalela into ndawonye, ​​ukwabelana nakho.

Ingane engazi kahle ukuthi uzama ukunaka, noma obonakala engakwazi ukubona noma ukuzwa okubonayo noma okuzwayo, ingaba nenkinga ngokubona noma ukuzwa. Kodwa uma lezo zinkinga zihloliwe futhi udaba luqhubeka, kufanelekile ukucubungula ukuhlolwa ngodokotela wezingane othuthukayo noma ochwepheshe abanjalo.

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Ukudinga kakhulu ukulingana
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Wonke umuntu unemikhuba nemikhuba, kanti abanye abantu bakhetha ngempela ukuba nokuphila okuhleliwe. Izingane ngokuvamile ziyizidalwa zomkhuba, futhi zijabulela ukuzwa izindaba ezifanayo, ukubukela amabhayisikobho ofanayo, nokuphinda ziphindaphindiwe amabhayisikobho ofanayo.

Izingane ezine-autism, noma kunjalo, zivame ukuthatha okufanayo ngokweqile. Kungenzeka, ngokwesibonelo, banqabe ukuzama ukudla okusha, izingubo ezintsha, i-TV entsha, noma indaba entsha yokulala - bese usabela ngokuphazamiseka noma ukuqubuka uma isimiso sishintshwa. Bangase babe nokukhathazeka ngokweqile lapho becela ukuba bagqoke ingubo ebusika, noma izingubo zokugqoka zomcimbi okhethekile. Esikoleni, ukushintshana phakathi kwamakilasi kungabangela ukucindezeleka kakhulu, futhi izinguquko kwansuku zonke zingase zibe mkhulu.

Ngenkathi isidingo sokwenza okufanayo akuwona uphawu lwe-autism ngokwaso, izingane ezine-autism zivame ukufuna futhi zithembele esimisweni esingaphezu kwezingane ezijwayelekile (nokuningi, ngisho nangaphezu kwezingane eziningi ezinenkinga yomphakathi okungezona i-autism).

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Ukuphindaphinda Amagama afanayo, Imibono, noma Izenzo
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Izingane ziyakujabulela ukudlala imidlalo efanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe - kepha ngezingane ezijwayelekile, umdlalo ngamunye uhlukile kancane. Izingane ezine-autism, noma kunjalo, zivame ukuphikelela (ukunamathela) emicabangweni, izenzo, noma amagama afanayo-phansi yonke imininingwane yokugcina.

Isibonelo, ingane ene-autism ingase ivule futhi igcine umnyango ngendlela efanayo, ngokuphindaphindiwe ... Buza umbuzo ofanayo, ngezwi elifanayo, izikhathi ezingu-50 (ngisho nalapho eyazi impendulo) ... Noma chaza isakhiwo se-movie efanayo emazwini afanayo, ngezwi elifanayo, izikhathi eziningi. Ukukhuthazela kwalolu hlobo akuyona into ehlukile kakhulu kwi-autism, kodwa ngokubambisana namanye "amafulegi abomvu" kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthi ukuhlolwa kuzofaneleka.