Ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi esithile semfanelo nengane yomunye umuntu - futhi ngokuzikhandla ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uqonde ngempela ukuthi izingane zikhula ngesivinini esikhulu kakhulu - uqinisekile ukuthi ingane ibonisa izimpawu ze-autism. Abazali bomntwana abonakala bengenalutho. Eqinisweni, babona ukuziphatha kwengane yabo yokuphindaphinda nokuzizwa njenge "cute."
Unquma ukuthi udinga ukusho okuthile . Kodwa yini?
Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokubonisa ukuthi abazali bangase bacabange ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yabo enhle, ehlakaniphile, enothando ingase ivele ibe yi-autistic.
- Buza Imibuzo Evulekile . Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bathola ukungezwani kwengane yabo lapho behlola bacabangisisa ngokubona kwabo. Ukuze usize abazali ukuba benze lokhu, ungacela imibuzo evulekile njengokuthi "Ingabe uJamie uhluke kakhulu kubantwana bakho asebekhulile / ontanga yakhe kule minyaka?" noma "Yiluhlobo luni lomdlalo uJill ajabulela ukudlala nawe?" Njengoba abazali bebheka izimpendulo zabo, bangathola ukuthi, ngempela, uJamie uyindlela yokuthuthuka kwentuthuko yakhe, noma ukuthi uJill akajabuli neze ukudlala noma yini nabo.
- Yenza Ukubheka Okungekho Ekwahluleleni . Kunzima kakhulu kubazali ukuzwa izahlulelo ezimbi mayelana nezingane zabo. Isitatimende esinjengathi " uBilly kufanele akhulume manje " kungenzeka ukuthi aqede ingxoxo masinyane. Kodwa ukubhekwa okungenakugwetshwa kungasiza ukuvula amehlo abo. Isibonelo, uma ubukela ingane imboza izindlebe zabo ngehora leshumi ngehora, ungase uvele uthi "Ngiyabona uCarly ezwela kakhulu kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezwi elikhulu;
- Khuluma Ngokuzizwa Kwakho . Esikhundleni sokusikisela ukuthi ingane yomuntu ingase ixilongwe nge-disorder disorder, ungase ufune ukuchaza okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Lokhu kuzokunika abazali okuthile okufanele bacabange ngakho ngaphandle kokuvikela ukuziphatha kwengane yabo (noma izenzo zabo). Isibonelo: "Ingane yomngane wami wayengasebenzisanga amagama eneminyaka emine ubudala, ngakho bamyisa kudokotela wezingane ophuthumayo. Manje uya kumthandi wezinkulumo futhi wenza kahle kakhulu."
- Izinsiza Zokunikela . Uma ujwayele i-autism, kungenzeka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ungatholaphi ukwaziswa okunokwethenjelwa, odokotela abasebenza kahle nabahlengikazi, amaqembu okusekela , nokuningi. Esikhundleni sokutshela abazali "Kufanele uhlole ingane yakho," cabangela nje ukuwazisa ukuthi ungabahlinzeka ngezinsiza uma usulungile. Isibonelo: "Ngiyazi ukuthi ukhathazekile kakhulu ngokuthuthukiswa kukaSam; uma unquma ukuthi ufuna umbono wochwepheshe, ngiyakunikeza amagama we- neurologist ephakeme yokuthuthukisa i-neurologist ."
- Bhekisela ezintweni ezihle ze-Autism. Abanye abazali sebekhubazekile lapho bebhekene nokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yabo "ingalimala." Ngenxa yalokho, abaphishekeli ukuxilongwa noma ukwelashwa - futhi ngenxa yokuthi ingane yabo ilahlekelwa ithuba lokungenelela kanye nokwelashwa kwangaphambili. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukukhubazeka kusekelwe ekungaqondani mayelana ne-autism. Uma kunjalo, ungase ufune ukuchaza isimo lapho ingane ehlungwe nge-autism iphumelele ekufezeni umgomo obalulekile. Isibonelo, "Umshana wami u-autistic, kodwa lokho akuzange kumnciphise: ungomunye wabadlali abakhulu kakhulu eqenjini eliphakeme le-chess school!"
- Qinisekisa Iqiniso Lokho Abazali Akufanele Bakhulume Nge-Autism . Emuva ngosuku, omama babekwe icala nge-autism yabantwana babo futhi babizwa ngokuthi " omama beqhwa ." Ngenkathi leyo mbono ivuliwe ngokujabulisayo, abazali bavame bakholelwa ukuthi okuthile abakwenzile (noma abakwenziwanga) kubangela ukulibaziseka kwengane yabo. Kungasiza ukuqinisekisa abazali ukuthi ukubambezeleka kwengane yabo akuyona iphutha labo - nokuthi ukungenelela kwangaphambili kungenza umehluko wangempela futhi omuhle.