I-Autism iyanzima. Kuyinto eguquguqukayo. Ayikho isizathu esivumelwaneni-ukwelashwa, ukwelashwa, ukwelashwa, noma ukuchazwa kwabantu abaningi abanenkinga. Ngokungaqiniseki okunengi, abazali abaningi bathembele emininingwaneni, isiqondiso, kanye nezincomo ezinikezwa ochwepheshe - odokotela, abahlinzeki, othisha nabacwaningi - okufanele babe nolwazi oluthe xaxa omunye umuntu.
Yiqiniso, ukwethembela ochwepheshe ngokuvamile kuyisimo esihle.
Ngezinye izikhathi, noma kunjalo, akunjalo.
Lapho Iseluleko Sezochwepheshe Kungase Kungabi Lusizo
Nazi ezinye izimo lapho iseluleko sochwepheshe esivela emithonjeni evamile kungeke kube usizo njengoba kufanele.
- Ubona izinkinga nengane yakho engase iphakamise i-autism, kodwa ingane yakho yezingane i-pooh-poohs wena . Iningi labahlengikazi babona izingane ezinokuphuza okuhlukahlukene kanye nabazali abanenkinga enkulu okungenani izikhathi ezingu-12 ngosuku. Ezimweni eziningi, "ukulibaziseka" akuyona into ehlukile nje kuphela ehambisana ngqo nephutha le-bell lokuthuthukiswa kwengane (uJohnny kufanele abe namagama angu-50 kodwa usebenzisa kuphela 30, isibonelo). Ngenxa yalokho, iningi labahlengikazi labajwayele ukuhlukumeza ukuthuthukiswa ngaphandle uma bebaluleke kakhulu futhi banzima kakhulu - ngolwazi lokuthi ukulibaziseka okubonakalayo kuzolungisa. Uma lokhu kwenzeka kuwe, ungase ubone ukuthi yini ingane yakho engeke ibone ngokuvakashelwa okufishane - futhi kufaneleka isikhathi sakho ukufuna ukuhlolwa kanye / noma ukuhlolwa. Akukwazi ukulimaza - futhi kungasiza kakhulu!
- Utshelwe ukuthi uzame ukwelashwa okungaxhaswa ucwaningo noma imithombo ebuyekezwe ngemithi. Kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu unokwelashwa "okuyisimangaliso" noma ukwelashwa kwe-autism, futhi ngisho nabaqeqeshiwe abaqeqeshiwe noma othisha bangase basikisele okukhethwa ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukusiza (futhi kungabi kubiza futhi / noma kuyingozi). Uma lokho kwenzeka, yimisa futhi wenze ucwaningo lwakho ngaphambi kokuqhubekela phambili. Ingabe le mithi yokwelapha ifaneleka ngempela, iphephile ngokwemithi, futhi ingabizi? Uma kungenjalo, kungani ungazama?
- "Uchwepheshe" wakho wazi ngokucacile kunaphansi kwakho . Abazali abaningi be-autism bachitha amahora amaningi ukufunda, beya ezinkomfa, futhi bafunda ngezinqubo zokwelashwa, izinhlelo, imali, izikole, izindlu , nokuningi. Ngenxa yalokho, bavame ukwaziswa kangcono kunokuba "ochwepheshe" okubhekiswe kuzo lezi zindaba kuphela. Uma uthola ukuthi uyazi kabanzi mayelana nokwelapha, uhlelo, isikole, noma i-ejenti kunokwakhe "ochwepheshe" othembela kuyo - hamba kude (noma wabelane ngemithombo yakho futhi wenze izinqumo zakho siqu!).
- Udokotela osebenza naye wenza izinsolo ukuthi akakwazi ukusekela. Ingane yakho ibona umsebenzi, inkulumo, ukudlala noma omunye umhlinzeki wonyaka, futhi awukwazi ukubona noma yikuphi ukuthuthukiswa. Uletha lokhu, futhi lo mkhakha wezokwelapha uphikisana nawe. "Yebo," kusho yena, "ingane yakho ihambe ngendlela ende." Ucela ukubona ukuhlolwa okusekela isitatimende sakhe - kodwa "akazange abe nesikhathi sokuqhuba ukuhlolwa." Manje kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokuthola umuthi ohlukile.
- I-professional osebenzayo ineziphakamiso ezingacacile ngalokho okufanele ukwenze nokuthi ungayenza kanjani. Ingane yakho ikhonjiswe ngumsebenzi owazi kahle ngokuphathelene nokuhlola nokuxilongwa . Kodwa uma ubuza "yini engingayenza manje?" uthi "kahle, cishe uzofuna ukwelashwa kokuziphatha futhi ingane yakho idinga isikole esikhethekile." Uma ucindezelekile, yilokho ngempela angayinikela ngendlela yeluleko. Uma lokho kwenzeka, sekuyisikhathi sokuthola umuntu owazi ukuthi yini ngempela etholakalayo futhi efanelekayo kumntanakho ngamunye, esimweni sakho nendawo yakho. Ukuthi omunye umuntu angase abe umvolontiya womzali ngeqembu le-autism ukwesekwa noma inhlangano yomzali.
- Uchwepheshe akafanelekeli emkhakheni lapho anikezela khona iseluleko. Othisha babe ochwepheshe ekufundiseni, kodwa hhayi ekuxilongweni. Izifo zokuthola izifo zingase zingazi kangako mayelana nokwelashwa kwenkulumo. Uma uthola iseluleko kumuntu ofanele mayelana nento engalungile, ngithi sibonga - futhi uthole ochwepheshe owazi ngempela insimu!