Imindeni eminingi ifunda nge- autism yengane yakho lapho ingena esikoleni samaschool. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, ingane yabo ingase ibonakale ithule, i-quirky, noma izwela - ihlukile kancane. Ezikoleni zasenkulisa, noma kunjalo, ezinye izinkinga zivela. Ingane ene- autism ingase ibe nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu kunezinye izingane ezinamashejuli amasha, ukubandakanyeka komphakathi, ukuzenza sengathi udlala, nokusetshenziswa kolwimi.
Futhi nakuba abazali bengase bazivumelanise ngokungafani nokuhlukana kwengane yabo , othisha bezilwane zasenkulisa balindele ukuthi izingane zizovumelanisa nezimo ezizungezile. Bese kufika "ucingo."
"Ngicabanga ukuthi kudingeka sikhulume ngentuthuko yengane yakho," kusho umqondisi wesenkulisa. Ngokungazelelwe, izwe liyashintsha. Abaqondisi besikole bangase bacindezele abazali ukuba basuse ingane yabo esikoleni masinyane, bechaza "asinayo izakhiwo ezifanele zokumsiza," noma "akulungile kwabanye abantwana."
Ukubhekana Nezingane Zokuqala: Izinketho ezine
Manje? Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ama-ejensi wombuso nezifunda zesikole e-United States kudingeka ukuba banikele ngezinsizakalo ezinganeni ezinesidingo esikhethekile. Uma ingane yakho ingaphansi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, inelungelo lokungenela usizo lokuqala, oluvame ukufaka izinhlobo eziningi zokwelapha. Uma ingane ingu-3 noma ngaphezulu, ineminyaka eyanele ngokwanele ukuze ikwazi ukuthola uhlelo lokufundisa oluzimele olwenzelwe izinselele ezithile.
Ungawasebenzisa ngokunenzuzo lezi zinzuzo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi yalezi ezine ongakhetha kuzo:
- Iminye imindeni enezingane ezise - autism spectrum ithumela izingane zazo ezikoleni zasenkulisa ezijwayelekile (noma ngaphandle) ukwesekwa okuzimele. Kuye ingane, isenkulisa, kanye nohlobo lokusekela okungu-1: 1 olutholakale emndenini ngemithombo yomphakathi noma yangasese, lokhu kungasebenza kakhulu. Yiqiniso, uma isenkulisa isivele isikhombise ukukhathazeka mayelana nokukwazi kwengane yakho yokusingatha uhlelo lwabo, kungase kudingeke wenze okujulile ukufuna ukuthola ngokwengeziwe, ukusekela okusekelayo.
- Imindeni eminingi ikhetha ukugcina izingane zabo nge-autism ekhaya kuze kufike isikhathi sokuba enkulisa. Leyo mindeni ivame ukusebenzisa izindlela zokwelashwa zomphakathi nezangasese. Lokhu kungaba yinto enhle ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile, nakuba kungase kube ngokwezimali futhi kube nzima kakhulu emindeni ethile. Abazali abakhetha ukuya "emakhaya" izingane zabo zasenkulisa bangase bakuthole kunzima ukuhlanganisa izinhlelo ezijwayelekile zokuthi "mama namami" zihle kakhulu, kodwa zingase kube yinselele kakhulu kubantwabantwana abanezinkinga zokuzwa noma zokuxhumana.
- Wonke umbuso wase-US udinga izifunda zesikole ukuhlinzeka izinhlelo zokungenelela zakuqala ezikoleni zasenkulisa eziye zatholakala ngezidingo ezikhethekile. Yiqiniso, ikhwalithi yalezo zinhlelo zihlukile, kodwa zikhululekile futhi zenzelwe ngqo izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile. Ngokuya ngekhwalithi yohlelo, lokhu kungase kube ukukhetha okuhle. Uzofuna ukuphenya ngalolu khetho ngokucophelela ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ukhululekile ngesitayela sengqondo nokuqeqeshwa etholakalayo; ukuxhuma nezinye izidingo ezikhethekile zendawo abazali bangaba indlela enhle yokuthola umbono womuntu.
- Ezindaweni eziningi, izinkolo zangasese ezizimele zizakhela ukusiza izidingo zezingane zasenkulisa ezinama-autism nezinye izidingo ezikhethekile. Lezi zikole zingaba nezindleko, kepha zinganikeza nezinhlelo eziphezulu. Ngaphambi kokuxhuma, qiniseka ukuthi ifilosofi yesikole ihambisana nefilosofi yakho, nokuthi ezinye izingane ohlelweni zinenkinga efanayo neyengane yakho.
Yikuphi kulawa okukhethwa kukho okulungile kumndeni wakho? Ngezinye izikhathi, impendulo iyabonakala: bobabili abazali kufanele basebenze, azikho izinkolo zasesekhaya ezizimele, futhi isenkulisa esivamile esendaweni ngeke isithathe ingane yakho. Ukuzikhethela komphakathi okudingekayo kusenkulisa kuyona kuphela okukhethayo okusemandleni. Kodwa-ke, ngokuvamile impendulo ayifuni ngokucacile. Unentshisekelo ekuhloleni izinketho zakho? Lezi zihloko zingena ngokujulile ukunikeza abazali ulwazi kanye nemibono.