Hlala Ukhulile Futhi Ukhumbule i-Autism iyiMarathon, Awuyi-Sprint
Uma ufana nabazali abaningi, izwe lakho liguqukile lapho uqala ukuzwa igama elithi "autism" elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza ingane yakho. Futhi, njenganoma imuphi umzali omuhle, ukuthambekela kwakho kokuqala kungase kube ukufunda konke ongakwenza, ukuthola odokotela abakhulu, futhi uthathe isinyathelo esinobudlova ukulungisa inkinga. Ngaphambi kokuba uzenzele isenzo, noma kunjalo, ungase ufune ukuthola ukubuka okusheshayo ngalokho okuthandayo ngempela ukuba umzali we-autism.
Ngolwazi oluncane, ungenza izinqumo ezihlakaniphile mayelana nokuthi ungaphendula kanjani nokuthi ungabeka nini isikhathi sakho, amandla, ithemba, nothando lwakho.
Gwema Ulwazi Lwengeziwe
Ucabanga ukuthi uzofunda nge-autism ezinsukwini ezimbalwa nje? Iqiniso liwukuthi, abantu abaningi bavame ukuchitha amasonto nezinyanga ezingakapheli befunda yonke iwebhusayithi, ibhulogi, nokubhuka ... beya kuzo zonke izingqungquthela ... futhi ekugcineni, badidekile kakhulu kunangesikhathi baqala. Yebo, kuwumqondo omuhle ukwazisa mayelana nezinketho. Kodwa incwadi eyodwa noma amabili enhle (njengesiqondiso esicacile nesiphelele se-Autism Guide for Dummies ngu-Steven Shore) izokunika ikhono elihle ngaphandle kokukukhulula ngolwazi nemibono ngakho konke okuvela ezibangela ukwelashwa ekuphileni komuntu omdala ne-autism.
Ungakhathazeki Kakhulu Nge-"Whys" ye-Autism
Iphesenti elincane labazali empeleni liyazi ukuthi kungani ingane yabo i-autistic. Bangase babe ne-autism emindenini yabo. Kungenzeka ukuthi bayazi ukuthi ingane yabo inezifo ezimbalwa zofuzo ezingase zenze i-autism.
Noma kungenzeka ukuthi umama uthatha imithi emibili noma emithathu eyaziwa ukuthi ibangela i-autism ngenkathi ekhulelwe.
Uma ungangeni kulezo zigaba, kungenzeka ukuthi awusoze wazi imbangela ye-autism yengane yakho.
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zemibono yalokho okubangela i-autism . Iningi lisekelwa okungenani ngesifundo esisodwa sokucwaninga.
Eminye yalezi zihlanganisa amakholi, i-WiFi, i-Pitocin (umuthi owasetshenziselwa ukusheshisa inqubo yokuzalwa), ubuthi obuningi be-mercury, obaba asebekhulile, ama-dyes okufakelwayo kanye neminwe ye-ultrasound. Ngamafuphi, ukukhukhumeza izimbangela ze-autism cishe kuzokudonsula - futhi kuzokuphazamisa emsebenzini obaluleke kakhulu wokusiza ingane yakho ukuthi isebenze ezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu.
Nciphisa Ukuxhumana Kwakho Nabanye "Abazali Be-Autism"
Yiqiniso, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuphuma uphinde wazi abanye abazali abasesimeni sakho ikakhulukazi njengoba ubheka abahlinzeki bendawo, izikole, imali kanye nokunye. Kodwa qaphela ukuthi abazali abanezingane ze-autistic bavame ukuthakazelisa ngabahlengikazi kanye nemithi abaye bayikhetha. Futhi kulula ukucindezeleka njengoba abazali bephikelela ukuthi indlela yabo yindlela kuphela. Iqiniso liwukuthi akekho owazi indlela engcono kakhulu yengane yakho.
Ungakhethi Ukwelapha Ngaphansi Kokucindezelwa
Njengoba ufaka umhlaba we-autism, uzohlangana nabafundisi, abazali, odokotela, kanye nabahlengikazi abaqiniseke ukuthi bayazi ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu kumntanakho. Ngayo yonke injongo enhle emhlabeni, bayobhala ngokuqinile ukuthi uthathe ingane yakho kuDkt X, noma uhambe amakhulu amakhilomitha ukuze uthole ukwelashwa okunikezwa uDkt. Z.
Nod ngokuzithoba, uthathe amanothi, futhi wenze ucwaningo lwakho siqu. Uma ukwelashwa kuzwakala kuhle kakhulu ukuba kube yiqiniso, kubiza imali eningi kakhulu, kunezingozi ezingathandeki ezihlobene, noma kungekho cwaningo ngemuva kwalo, awukho ngaphansi kwesibopho sokuthi "yebo." Futhi awukho ngaphansi kwesibopho sokubika kumuntu obambelele empilweni yakho.
Yazi ukuthi Ezinye Izindlela Eziphephile Nezokwelapha Azicatshangwa "I-Gold Standard"
Ezingcono kakhulu kuwo wonke umhlaba, ukwelashwa kukhethwe ngesisekelo sezifundo ezizimele ezizimele ezimbili ezizimele. Ukube nje kuphela okwakungenzeka ezweni le-autism! Eqinisweni, ukwelapha okumbalwa kwe-autism kuye kwahlolwe ngale ndlela.
Kuphela, i-Applied Behavioral Analysis, isetshenziswe kabanzi futhi yathola ilebula "yezinga legolide". Kodwa i-ABA akuyona impela ukwelashwa okungcono kunabo bonke abantwana. Izindlela eziningi zokwelashwa, njenge-Floortime, RDI, SCERTS, nokuningi kusekelwe kwisayensi eqinile, ayinabungozi, futhi zingasiza kakhulu ingane yakho. Kubiza isikhathi sakho ukubheka eziningana zalezo ezibonakala zikhona futhi zihambisana nengane yakho.
Ungakhathazeki Nge-Autism
Kulula ukukhathazeka mayelana ne-autism. Eqinisweni, kulula ukuba abazali bahlale becabanga ngokuzenzekelayo kwi-autism yengane yabo. Ngeshwa, ukugqilaza kungadala izinkinga eziningi kunokuba zixazulule. Imishado engaphezu kweyodwa imisiwe njengoba umphumela womlingani oyedwa ugxila kakhulu ku-autism ukuze eze kumlingani wakhe. Imindeni eminingi isiye yaphuka emzamweni wokuhlinzeka yonke imithi yokwelapha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyindleko noma ingacacile. Futhi kuvamile ukuthi abafowethu nodade bezingane abane-autism bazizwe benqatshelwe ngokungafanele abazali ababonakala bekhathalela kuphela ukusekela ingane yakhubazekile.
Ungacabangi ukuthi uhlale wazi kahle
Abazali bavame ukubuka, ukuchaza nokuqonda izingane zabo. Abazali futhi, bafuna ukukhuthaza izingane zabo esikoleni nakwezinye izindawo. Kodwa ngisho omama abazi njalo ukuthi yini ezosebenza kumntanakho futhi kaningi uthisha noma uchwepheshe uzothola ithalenta, isidingo, ikhono, noma inselele okukumangalisa wena. Ngamafuphi, isizakala somama siyamangalisa, kodwa sinemingcele yaso. Futhi ngokugcizelela ukuthi njalo uyazi ukuthi ingane yakho idinga yini, ungase unciphise ongakhetha kuye.
Ungadluli Ingane Yakho (Noma Yakho)
Kukhona isifiso esizwakalayo sokubona imiphumela emizamweni yakho. Futhi ngokugxila kakhulu ekungeneni kokuqala, abazali bavame ukubona izingane zabo "zihleliwe" ngokushesha. Kodwa kungcono ukugwema isilingo sokuqhamuka emitholampilo eminingi ngethemba lokuthi okuthile kuzosebenza. Ngeke nje wena nomntwana wakho nikhathele kuphela, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi yini esebenza ngempela. Khumbula ukuthi akukho "ithuba lokuthola ithuba," futhi ingane yakho izoqhubeka nokufunda nokukhula kuyo yonke impilo yakhe.
Ungakhohlwa Ukuphefumula
Naphezu kwemibiko yabezindaba ngokuphambene nalokho, akuyona into engavamile kakhulu ukuba ingane ihlolwe ngokunembile nge-autism bese "ilulame" i-normalcy ephelele. Kodwa-ke, isikhathi esiningi, uma ingane yakho ithola ukwelapha okuqinile, ukusekela, nothando, iyakwazi ukuthuthukisa amakhono nobuhlobo futhi iqhubeke nokukwenza njalo kulo lonke impilo.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukwelapha i-autism akukhona ngokusheshisa ekuphulukiseni ukwelashwa. Esikhundleni salokho, mayelana nokuthola isethi yezinsizakalo kanye nendlela yokuphila ezosebenza, nge-tweaks kanye nokulungiswa, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhamba ngokushesha kangakanani, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uchitha imali engakanani, ingane yakho ene-autism cishe iyohlala i-autistic nayo yonke into ephezulu futhi ephansi (futhi yebo, kunezinhlawulo "ezihambayo" ) ezihamba nalesi sifo.
Uma kungenzeka, thatha isikhathi sokujabulela ingane yakho, umngane wakho womshado, umndeni wakho, impilo yakho. Thola umoya omusha omusha. Khumbula, uma kungenzeka, ukuthi ingane yakho ayisengozini yokuphila noma isilungu, futhi ukuthi usengumuntu ofanayo owake wathanda.
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Izikhungo zokuLawula izifo. I-Autism Spectrum Disorders: Ukwelashwa. Amasevisi Ewebhusayithi Yokulawula Izifo. http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/treatment.html. 2016.