Ingabe ukuhlolwa kwengane yakho ye- autism kufanele kube ulwazi olujwayelekile? Ubani okufanele azi? Ubani ongafanele? Kufanele ungathini futhi kungani?
Kweminye imikhaya, le mibuzo ingase ibonakale ingenangqondo. Kungenxa yokuthi, kwezinye izimo, kubonakala sengathi izimpawu ze-autism zicacile kangangokuthi akekho ozozilahleka. Kubazali abakulesi simo, kungase kusimangaze ukuzwa ukuthi abanye ababukele bangaphazamisa izimpawu ze-autism ngenxa yesiyalo esibi - futhi benze izigwebo ngokufanele.
Kweminye imindeni eminingi, umbuzo wokudalula ukuxilongwa kwe-autism ungavela njalo. Ingane ene- autism esebenzayo ingase ikwazi "ukudlula" ejwayelekile ezimweni ezithile, ngakho-ke kungani ugwaza isikebhe ngokudalula ukuxilongwa okungase kubangele abanye ngokumelene naye? Ngisho nezinye izingane ezinezimpawu ezinzima ngokulinganayo zingakwazi "ukudlula" ngaphansi kwezimo ezifanele.
Ezingcono kakhulu zezwe, ukudalulwa kufanele kube into enhle. Kufanele inikeze othisha, abaqeqeshi, abaqondisi, abacebisi, nabanye ngamathuluzi abawadingayo ukusiza ingane yakho iphumelele emphakathini. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi lokho kuyiqiniso ngempela.
Kodwa abazali abakhathazeka ukuthi ukudalulwa okungabangela usizi olungadingekile bangase babe nephuzu: abanye abantu abadala abakakhululekile ukukhubazeka ukuthi ngisho nokucabanga nge-autism kuba mkhulu. Uma lokho kuchaza umqeqeshi we-Little League ozoqeqesha indodana yakho, ingabe kuyoba usizo ngempela ukuchaza ukuthi uyayithola yini?
Kuye ngezimo, kunezinketho eziningi ezihlukene zokudalula. Mhlawumbe enye yalezi zizobe zikulungele isimo sakho.
1. Chaza Izinselelo Ngaphandle Kokudalula Ukuxilongwa
Uma ungumzali wengane ene-autism ephezulu yokusebenza, ungase ube nenketho yokuchaza izinselele ezithile zomntanakho ngaphandle kokusebenzisa igama elithi "a" .
Lokhu kungaba usizo lapho usebenzelana nabantu abadala abakhathazekile ngokukhubazeka. Isibonelo, ungase uchaze izinselelo zengane yakho ngokusho ukuthi "Ngezinye izikhathi uBilly angakhononda lapho izingane zizwakala kakhulu; Ngamnika lezi headphones ukusebenzisa uma lokho kwenzeka. Ungakhathazeki: uyazi ukuthi angayisebenzisa kanjani-ngifuna nje ukukunika ikhanda phezulu! "
2. Veza "umehluko"
Uma izimpawu zizobonakala kodwa zingase zingakhubazi esimweni esithile, ungase ufune ukuchaza ingane yakho ngokuthi "ehlukile" noma "ukuhamba ngokushaya kwakhe." Ngokwesibonelo, "Emily uzimisele ukube ngumSwirl Scout, futhi Ngizokwenza umsebenzi omuhle - kodwa ungabona ukuthi uthanda ukusebenza yedwa kunokujoyina iqembu. Ngithemba ukuthi kunjalo; kuyamsiza ukuba agxile engcono. "
3. Dlulisa amehlo kumuntu ofanele
Ezisethweni eziningi - esikoleni, esontweni, noma emphakathini - kunabantu "abathola" i-autism nabantu abangaboni. Isibonelo, umqondisi we-YMCA wendawo angase angakhululekile ukukhubazeka ngenkathi umqondisi wekhamera efuna ukuthola indawo efanele yokuhlala ukuze aqinisekise impumelelo yengane ngayinye. Kungani udala izinkinga wena nomntanakho ngokukhuluma no-Y ngomqondisi mayelana nezidingo zomntanakho lapho umqondisi wekamu azoba yindlalifa yengane yakho yonke Y?
4. Chaza Uma Kunesidingo futhi / noma Usizo
Akuwona wonke umuntu emhlabeni okudingeka azi ukuthi ingane yakho ine-diagnosis ethile - ngoba ayifanele ngempela wonke umuntu ohlangana naye. Yebo, udokotela omusha wengane yakho udinga ukwazi, kodwa akekho - asikho isizathu sokuhlanganyela nabalingani emsebenzini. Yebo, isikole sakho sidinga ukwazi, kodwa ngokuya ngezinga elithile lezingqinamba zomntanakho, ungase ungadingi ukusho igama kumakhelwane wakho. Uma kungenakwenzeka ukuthi kube usizo - futhi kungadala inkinga - kungani uhamba khona?
5. Chaza Ngezimo Ezintsha
Nakuba kungekho isidingo esithile sokwenza udaba lwe-autism yengane yakho esikoleni noma ezimweni lapho ingane yakho isivele ikwazi khona, ungafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukuxilongwa kwakhe kuqondwa ngezilungiselelo ezintsha.
Ungase futhi udinga ukuchaza izimpawu ezithile zomntanakho ukuze ugweme izinto ezingalungile mayelana ne-autism .
6. Chaza Amakhadi Nezingubo Zansuku zonke
Kubantu abathile, futhi kwezinye izimo, kungase kubaluleke kakhulu (noma kuthanda nje) ukuvumela umhlaba wazi nge-diagnosis ye-autism. Abanye abazali bathengisa amahembe wezingane zabo ze-autistic ngeziqubulo ezifana nokuthi "Ngingu-Autistic - Iyini Isizathu Sakho." Abanye bathengela amakhadi bona bona noma izingane zabo zingakwazi ukusabalalisa okuchaza ukuziphatha kwengane. Lezi zingasetshenziswa ezimweni ezinzima kusukela ekuhlakaleni komphakathi ukuhlangana namaphoyisa.
Ukuzikhethela ngalokho okuzokwethula kanye nokuthi kuzokukhipha nini, kuyiqiniso, okuyimfihlo. Kubantu abaningi, i-autism ingumthombo wokuziqhenya; kwabanye, kuyindaba yangasese. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha ngani, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abantu abadinga ulwazi banalo ulwazi.