Ibhentshi lesikhumbuzo lihlobisa umphakathi wakho ngenkathi udumisa othandekayo
Phakathi neminyaka engamashumi amabili edlule, inani lezindlela ongazikhumbula ngalo othandekayo oshonile lande kakhulu. Njengoba engasagcini ilitshe legumbi noma uphawu lokuqala ngaphakathi kwamangcwaba, uhla olukhula njalo lwemikhiqizo nezinsiza ezitholakalayo namuhla lwenza kube lula ukukhetha intela efanelekayo nenenjongo. Lesi sihloko sihlola ukuthi ungasungula kanjani ibhentshi lokukhumbula endaweni yomphakathi ukuhlonipha othandekayo.
"Yenza i-Adopt-A-Bench" e-Central Park
Uyazi ukuthi iPark Park eNew York City, eNew York, iqukethe amabhentshi angaphezu kuka-9 000? Nsuku zonke, izinombolo eziningi zezivakashi ezingu-38 zezigidi zepaki zimi kancane ukuze zihlale kulezi zindawo futhi mhlawumbe zicabange ngobuhle bomuthi othize noma umthombo wamanzi, noma zimane zikumangalisa ukuthi kukhona le "gemerald gem" engu-843-acre enhliziyweni komuzi omkhulu.
Yikuphi abangase bangaboni, noma kunjalo, ukuthi ngaphezu kwamabhentshi angaphezu kuka-2 000 anama-plaque amancane, aqoshiwe, okubonisa ukuthi othile "wamukele" ibhentshi - kaningi ekukhunjweni othandekayo oshonile. Ngokusho kweCentral Park Conservancy, inhlangano ephethwe ukugcinwa nokusebenza kwepaki, i-plaque eyodwa ibhalwe kanje: "NguLui Pour Moi, Moi Pour Lui, Dans La Vie" ( Ekuphileni, kukhona yena kuphela kimi , nami mina ). Abanye banomthelela wendabuko "Inkumbulo ..." negama lomuntu oshonile kanye nezinsuku zokuzalwa nokufa.
Uma le ndlela yokuhlonipha othandekayo iyakuthanda, ungase umangale uma ufunda ukuthi izinhlelo zokubheka isikhumbuzo ezifana ne-Central Park "I-Adopt-A-Bench" zitholakala lonke izwe - mhlawumbe ngisho nasemphakathini wakho .
Ukuthola Uhlelo
Kunezindlela eziningana zokuthola uhlelo olukhona lwe-memorial bench eduze nawe.
Okulula nje ukubona ibhentshi elinjalo bese ubuza ngakho. Ungathola lezi zindawo ebhodini noma e-state park, eduze kweziteshi zebhasi, ngenxa yezibhedlela noma ezinye izikhungo zezempilo, ngaphandle kwebhizinisi lendawo, njll.
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuthola ibhentshi ekhona endaweni yomphakathi, cinga i-Inthanethi "yamabhentshi esikhumbuzo ku- XYZ " bese ubeka i-XYZ esikhundleni "ngepaki yedolobha" noma "i-state park" noma igama lomuzi wakho. (Ukumane nje ufune "amabhentshi esikhumbuzo" ngokuvamile kubonisa abakhiqizi abaningi ukuba babonise ukuthi bayasiza.)
Uma lokhu kuhluleka, xhumana nomuzi wendawo yomngcwabo noma amathuna bese ucela iziphakamiso. Ngokuvamile, la mabhizinisi agcina uhlu lwezinsizakalo zekhanda kanye namathuba okuphakamisa umndeni uma kufanelekile. Ungaphinde uthinte umakhi womcibisholo wesikhumbuzo sokusikisela, kodwa ungase futhi uthole i-pitch yokuthengisa yemikhiqizo yabo.
Uma ungasakwazi ukuthola uhlelo lwesikhumbuzo sendawo, ungaphelelwa ithemba! Kulesi sikhathi sokunciphisa izinsiza kanye nokuqiniswa kwesabelomali, ohulumeni abaningi basekhaya, amabhizinisi kanye nezinye izinhlangano zizobonisa ukuthi zamukelekile uma unikela ukunikela ibhentshi ukuze usebenzise endaweni esesidlangalaleni, noma ukuhlobisa izizathu. Futhi ngubani owaziyo - umnikelo wakho ungase ubonise ukuthi kunesidingo sokwenza uhlelo olusesikhumbuzo, okuwenza kube lula kwabanye esikhathini esizayo.
Izindleko
Amanani amabhentshi okukhumbuzo ahluka kakhulu. E-Central Park City yaseNew York City, isibonelo, kudinga amaRandi angu-7 500 ukuba "athole" ibhentshi ekhona, futhi u-$ 25,000 abeke ibhentshi elisha endaweni yokukhethwa komnikeli. E-Los Angeles, California, uhlelo lokupaka, ukufaka i-plaque eqoshiwe ebhentshini ekhona ebiza u-$ 1,000, kuyilapho u-$ 3,000 uhlanganisa ibhentshi elisha lomuntu siqu kanye nokukhetha ukuthi ungayithola kuphi kwelinye lamapaki angaphezu kuka-400.
Uma kuqhathaniswa, idolobha laseScottsdale, e-Arizona, linikezela ngemali engu-$ 1,300, umnikezeli uthola ibhentshi elisha lepaki eliphethe i-plaque ye-bronze eqoshiwe, ukulungiswa kwesayithi nge-pad ekhonkment, ukufakwa nokugcinwa kwempilo ebhentshini.
Lezi zibonelo nje ezimbalwa, kodwa kufanele ulindele ukukhokha noma yikuphi kusuka kuma-dollar angamakhulu ambalwa ukuze "wamukele" ibhentshi elikhona, ezinkulungwaneni eziningi ukubeka ibhentshi elisha lomuntu siqu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini ekugcineni enqume ukuyenza nalapho ikhona khona, ukusungula ibhentshi lesikhumbuzo endaweni yomphakathi ukuhlonipha othandekayo wakho kuyisipho esiyinhloko ukuthi wena-nabanye abaningi, abanye abantu abaningi - uzokujabulela iminyaka ezayo.
> Imithombo
> "Adopt-A-Bench" ngu-Elyse Newhouse, uJennifer Rich noPhyllis Cerf Wagner. www.centralparknyc.org . Ibuyiselwe ngoJuni 24, 2013. http://www.centralparknyc.org/donate/honor-someone-special/adopt-a-bench.html
> "FAQ." www.centralparknyc.org . Ibuyiselwe ngoJuni 24, 2013. http://www.centralparknyc.org/visit/general-info/faq/
> "Nikela-A-Bench." www.laparksfoundation.org . Ibuyiselwe ngoJuni 24, 2013. https://secure.laparksfoundation.org/EN/donation1.html?typed=bench
> "Izikhumbuzo zeBench and Tree." www.scottsdaleaz.gov . Ibuyiselwe ngoJuni 24, 2013. http://www.scottsdaleaz.gov/parks/memorial
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