I-Autism akufanele ikuenze ungabonakali.
I-Autism isekela amakilasi , ihlonipha izinselele zokuzwa, igcine imihlobiso elula futhi emisindo ephansi. Izenzo zomculo ze-Autism zithule, ziyi-key-key, futhi ziyavumelana nezimo lapho izilaleli zamukelekile ukuvuka, ijubane, noma ukwenza umsindo. Kukhona ngisho abakhiqizi nabakhi bezangaphakathi abakhethe ngokukhethekile ekudaleni izikhala ezizenzekelayo ze-autism lapho imibala nomsindo zithululwa.
Kukhona okunye okumele kushiwo ngezindawo zokududuza. Kubantu abane-autism kanye nabanye abanezinkinga ezizwakalayo , izindawo ezinokuthula, eziguquguqukayo zingaba i-godsend. Ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kanye / noma ukunganaki okudalwe yimisindo eqondile, izibani, imibala nabantu, kungaba lula kakhulu ukuphumula, ucabange, ufunde futhi udlale. Ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okudalwe yimigomo yokushintsha kanye nemigomo, abantu abane-autism ngokuvamile bayakwazi ukugxila ekufundeni noma emsebenzini.
Kungani Uhamba Ngaphandle Kwendawo Yenduduzo Yomuntu Wegunya?
Konke lokhu okushiwo, noma kunjalo, kunezizathu ezinhle zokusiza umuntu nge-autism ukuba athuthele ngaphezu kwenduduzo yezigaba. Lezo zizathu zifana nezizathu zokuthi kungani umuntu kufanele avuke futhi ashiye induduzo yendlu yakhe, iqembu labangani, isethi yemisebenzi, noma imizila. Zihlanganisa:
- Amathuba okuthola izithakazelo zakho siqu. Umuntu ohamba ngendlela efanayo futhi ahlangabezane nezinto ezifanayo usuku nosuku angeke abe nethuba lokuhlola izwe elibanzi lemisebenzi. Yebo, isibonelo, ikhonsathi ejwayelekile cishe iphakame kunekhonsathi "ye-autism" - kodwa ingase iveze umlaleli wonke umhlaba wezwi elisha nelithakazelisayo.
- Amathuba wokwakha ukuqina. Izingane ezincane kakhulu zivame ukuvikelwa ezweni elibanzi ngoba zingakakulungeli ukuphatha okungalindelekile noma okungaziwa. Kodwa uma noma ubani, i-autistic noma cha, ekhula ngaphezu kwengane esemncane, sebekulungele ukuqala amakhono ukuphatha izimo ezinzima, ezintsha, noma ezijabulisayo. Njengoba kungenakuhlangenwe nakho okusha noma okungajabulisayo, abantu abane-autism bangase bazithole bexakekile ngokushintsha kancane.
- Amathuba okuthola izixazululo ezinselele ezingase zibe khona. Uma ungalokothi uphonswe ukubhekana nezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi noma ezinzima, akudingeki uthinte umcabango wakho noma amakhono okucwaninga ukuze uthole imisebenzi noma ezinye izindlela. Kodwa ngokuvamile kuvame ukuthi izinto ezisebenza kanye nezinye izindlela zenze ukuba abantu abane-autism benze okubonakala sengathi "akunakwenzeka." I-pair elula ye-earphone evimbela umsindo ingenza kwenzeke ukuthi othile onenkinga yokucubungula izinzwa ukujabulela ubuhle obubukwayo bokuqhumisa. Amasu okunciphisa ukucindezeleka angenza kube lula ukuthi othile abe nokukhathazeka okukhulu ukuhlanganyela emcimbini womndeni.
- Amathuba okuba ilungu elisebenzayo nelenhlonipho lomphakathi omkhulu. Akuyona into engavamile ukuba ilungu lomndeni eliphethe i-autism libe "engabonakali" kumalungu angewona amalungu omndeni, ngoba nje engekho kwimicimbi yomphakathi evamile. Izindleko, izinkonzo zesonto, ama-barbecues, nezinye izenzakalo zomphakathi zingabonakala zinzima kakhulu - kungaba ngumuntu ono-autism, noma umndeni wakhe. Ukuvimbela izimo ezingavamile, noma kunjalo (umuntu onokuziphatha okubi kakhulu, isibonelo), asikho isizathu esihle sokuba ilungu lomndeni lingabonakali. Yebo, kwakuyiminyaka eminyaka edlule. Kodwa umhlaba wethu, iminwe ewela, uye wadlula kakhulu ukukhathazeka kwamadolo ayo emadodeni abheka noma abaziphatha ngendlela ehlukile.
- Amathuba okuqashwa nokuvolontiya. Kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu one-autism aphile futhi asebenze ezimweni ezivikelekile impilo yakhe yonke. Lokhu kwenzeka, okungajwayelekile, ngokuvamile uma kungekho ezinye izinketho ezitholakalayo. Ezikhathini eziningi, umsebenzi wokukhokha wangempela kanye nokuvolontiya okunenjongo kuyisinqumo esingcono. Ukuze ulungiselele lawo mathuba, noma kunjalo, abantu abane-autism badinga ithuba lokufunda amakhono, zama amaphiko abo, futhi baxazulule izinkinga uma bevuka.
Wonke umuntu udinga indawo yokududuza, abantu abane-autism kunaningi. Uma indawo yokududuza ikubuyisela emuva, nokho, sekuyisikhathi sokuhlola izwe elibanzi.