I-Autism iyanzima. Kunezinhlobo zokwelapha i-zillion autism, izinhlelo, izikole, amaqembu okusekela, imisebenzi futhi, ngokuya lapho uhlala khona, kungase kube khona okungenani i-gazillion ngabathinteli abathile abazimisele ukunikeza ukwelashwa kwabo nge-autism ngomntanakho.
Engeza kule mithetho eminingi, imihlahlandlela yomshuwalense, ama-ejensi, kanye ne-tape ebomvu okungenzeka uzobhekana nakho njengoba usebenza eminyakeni yesikole, izinhlelo zehlobo, nangaphezulu.
Kuthiwani ngokuhlela izidingo zabantu abadala, izimo eziphilayo, imisebenzi, nokusekela ?.
Ubani ongakuholela ekukhethweni kwezinketho, ama-blind alleys kanye namathuba?
Okwenza Abazali Kumele Abe Abachwepheshe Babo Abazimele
Yebo, kukhona abantu abangakuqondisa ngezici ezithile zokuphila kwengane yakho-izidingo ezikhethekile ezimele, odokotela, abahlinzeki ngabanye, njll Futhi kukhona "abaqeqeshi bokuphila be-autism" abasiza futhi basekela abantu abadala kule nselele ngezinselele zansuku zonke.
Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi awuyena kuphela ummeli noma ingane (noma abantu) abazodinga ukufunda, ukuhamba, ukukhetha, ukuxhasa, ukuqapha nokuphatha izinketho zomntanakho.
Kungani kunjalo? Nazi ezimbalwa zezizathu zokuthi kungani abazali bevusa izindlela zabo eziyingqayizivele ehlathini le-autism:
1. I-Autism Ihlukile Kuwo Wonke Umuntu
Uma ingane yakho ithola ukuthi unesifo sezokwelapha ngesisusa esaziwayo, izimpawu ezibikezelwe, kanye nokwelashwa okwenziwe kahle ungalindela ukuthi ochwepheshe bazokuqondisa ngokufanele.
Kodwa i-autism yinkinga enezimbalwa ezimbalwa eziyaziwayo , izimpawu ze-idiosyncratic kanye nezilwane ezihlukahlukene, kanye nezinhlobo zokwelapha okungenzeka noma ezingafaneleki noma eziwusizo kumntanakho.
Ukwengeza kulokho iqiniso lokuthi izingane ezahlukene ziphendula ngokuhlukile ngezindlela ezahlukene zokwelashwa ngezikhathi ezahlukene empilweni yabo, lezo zinhlelo zesikole zihluke kakhulu komunye nomunye endleleni kanye nemiphumela ...
futhi ungabona ukuthi kungani kungekho muntu okhona ngaphandle kolwazi olubanzi oludingekayo ukuze aqondise indlela yakho kusuka ekuxilongweni ngokusebenzisa umuntu omdala.
2. Izinketho kanye nokuxhaswa kwezimali kuxhaswe kusuka endaweni kuya endaweni
I-New Jersey icebile ezinhlelweni zokuthuthukisa kanye nezikole zezingane ezine-autism. I-Florida inezinhlelo ezinhle zokuziphatha. I-California ine-MIND Institute, enikezela ngezinsiza nezinhlelo eziningi, kuyilapho iNew York indawo eshisayo yamasevisi omdala nezinhlangano zokusekela. Ezikoleni, i-SCERTS inkulu e-Rhode Island, kanti izinhlelo ze-TEACCH zithandwa eNyakatho Carolina.
Ezinye zithi, izifundazwe, futhi amazwe anikezela ngemali evulekile yokwelashwa okuhlukahlukene, kuyilapho abanye beqinisa izintambo zabo zemali.
Akekho ongakutshela ukuthi yiziphi izinsizakalo nezinhlelo ezinikezwa lapho, ngaluphi inani, lapho abahlengikazi, ngaphansi kweziphi izimo. Futhi ngisho noma bebengakwazi - ngeke bakwazi ukukutshela ukuthi lezo zinsizakalo zingabe zikhetha kahle ingane yakho noma umndeni wakho. Kungcono kuwe ukwenza ucwaningo futhi wenze izinqumo ezingcono kakhulu zezidingo zakho ezithile.
3. Akunakho "Okuhle kakhulu" Ukwelashwa Kwe-Autism
Ngengozini yokumema ukugxeka, ngikholelwa ukuthi ngilungile lapho ngithi akukho "izinga legolide" lokwelapha kwe-autism okulungile kuwo wonke umntwana.
Yebo, abanye abantu bayokutshela ukuthi ukwelashwa kokuziphatha ( okubizwa ngokuthi i-ABA ) yiyona "standard standard" yokwelapha i-autism. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ngenkathi i-ABA ingelashwa ngokucwaninga ngokugcwele (mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi imiphumela yayo ilinganiselwa kalula), akuyona leyo ephumelela kakhulu (noma efanele) kunoma iyiphi ingane enikeziwe.
Ngisho noma ukholwa ukuthi i-ABA ibheja elihle kumntanakho, kukhona "ama-flavour" amaningi e-ABA , ngamunye akhiwa ngumcwaningi noma iqembu elihlukile. "Ukuphendula Okubalulekile," "Izivivinyo Ezizimele," "Ukungenelela Kwezindlela Zokuziphatha," nezinye izindlela eziningi ezisebenzisa izindlela zokuziphatha kwezinye izinga-kodwa ngezindlela ezahlukene kakhulu.
Yikuphi okuhle? Ngokuvamile kuxhomeke ekutholakaleni, izindleko, kanye nekhono lomuthi ngamunye ukuxhuma ngokuphumelelayo nengane yakho ngayinye!
Ukubeka eceleni i-ABA, kunezinye eziningi zokwelapha ezisekelwe kahle ezingahle zingatholakali noma zingatholakali, zifanele, noma ziphumelele kumntanakho. Ngokuqinisekile, ingane yakho kufanele ithole imithi yokwelashwa, kodwa kuthiwani mayelana nokwelashwa kwezinzwa zokuzihlanganisa (igatsha lokwelapha okusebenzayo elivame ukusiza izingane ze-autistic)? Ingane yakho ingazuza yini emitholampilo asekelwe kwezobuciko ? Dlala ukudlala? Hippotherapy (ukugibela amahhashi)? Ukwelashwa kokuzijabulisa? Kuzoba kuwe ukubona izinketho bese unquma ukuthi kufanelekile ukuhlola.
Khona-ke kunezinhlobo eziningi zokwelapha ezithuthukayo ezithandwa kakhulu futhi zibhekwa kahle. I-floortime, i-RDI, i-TEACCH, ne-SCERTS ziyizinketho ezimbalwa ongakhetha kuzo noma ngasesikoleni sakho.
Uma usuhlole izinto ezingezona eziphilayo, ezingezona ezokwelapha ze-autism, cishe uzophinde ubheke amathuba angaphezulu. Ingabe ingane yakho ingazuza ngemithi efana nezidakamizwa zokulwa nokukhathazeka noma imithi eyanciphisa ukucindezeleka? Kuthiwani ngokungenelela kokudla okunomsoco? Kukhona odokotela kanye nabanikazi bezondlo abaqeqeshiwe kulezi zindawo - kodwa, yiqiniso, bayingcweti, futhi abakwazi ukukutshela okuningi, bathi, ukuxuba imithi kanye nokwelashwa kwedrama!
Ngezansi, zonke izindlela zokwelashwa nezinyathelo ezibhalwe ngenhla (futhi okuncane kakhulu) kungasiza, futhi noma yikuphi okungenzeka kube yinto enhle. Kodwa akekho omunye kodwa ungenza isinqumo sokugcina mayelana nokuthi iyiphi into engcono kakhulu kumntanakho nganoma iyiphi indawo enikeziwe empilweni yakhe.
4. Imali Yomndeni Nezinto Ezibaluleke Ngayo Kuqala
Udokotela wakho, umeluleki wezokuqondisa, noma umhlinzeki angase ancoma ukwelashwa kobuciko, i-RDI, noma olunye ukwelashwa ozwakalayo (futhi mhlawumbe kuwukuthi) kuyamangalisa. Amaqembu asekela angase akhombise izikole ezizimele ezingaba "ukushintsha impilo" yengane yakho.
Kodwa uma ngabe isikole sakho noma inkampani yakho yomshuwalense ingeke ixhaswe ngaleyo ndlela yokwelapha noma isikole (njengoba kuvame ukubhekana nalokhu), ingabe kufanele ubambe imali yakho yokuyikhokhela?
Kukhona imindeni enamandla okuqala izikole zonke ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lwezokwelapha olutholakale kumntanakho. Kukhona imindeni echitha imali yabo yokugcina imali nokuthatha umhlalaphansi ukuze ikhokhele izikhungo zokwelapha nezikole ezikhethekile. Futhi-ke kukhona imindeni ekhethayo nokukhetha phakathi kwezinketho ngokucophelela ukuze ugweme ukugijima ezinkingeni zezezimali njengoba zihlinzeka izidingo zabo zomntwana we-autistic.
Akekho ongakutshela ukuthi kuningi kangakanani ukwelashwa, isazi, esikoleni, noma esikoleni esikoleni noma uhlelo olufanelekile noma ingane yakho. Okubaluleke nakakhulu yiqiniso lokuthi akekho ongakutshela ukuthi "uma ukhokhela ephaketheni le-X, ingane yakho ngeke idinge Y eminyakeni eyishumi."
Ngokuqinisekile, leso sikole esibizayo singenza umehluko kumntanakho-kodwa futhi, mhlawumbe ngeke. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi, kakhulu kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho iyoba autistic kulo lonke impilo yakhe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungase usebenzise imali enkulu ekungeneni kokuqala okungeke ube nazo izimali ozidingayo ukusekela ingane yakho ye-autistic njengomuntu omdala-akeke uvumele ukuthumela izingane zakubo ekolishi futhi unayo imali yokuthatha umhlalaphansi!
Kufanele ubeke kuphi imali yakho? Ungathola iseluleko, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isinqumo somuntu siqu.
5. Imibono Mayelana Nezemfundo Nokukhulelwa Kuphuthumayo
Yini engcono kakhulu kumntanakho?
- Isikole sangasese esibuchwepheshe ekukhonzeni izidingo zezingane nge-autism?
- Ukufakwa ngokugcwele emakilasini ajwayelekile emfundo esikoleni sendawo?
- Ukufakwa okuyingxenye emfundweni jikelele ngaphezu kwezinhlelo ezikhethekile nezinqubo zokwelashwa?
- Igumbi le-ABA? Igumbi lokufundela le-SCERTS? Igumbi le-TEACCH?
Yonke yezinketho ezibalulwe ngenhla ingase ibe yinto engcono kakhulu kumntanakho-noma cha. Futhi ayikho indlela elula yokwazi, ngaphambi kwesikhathi, okungenzeka ukuthi iphumelele kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, isinqumo sisekelwe ekutholakaleni nasekukhethweni kwabazali.
Ingabe ingane yakho ye-autistic kufanele ifakwe ezinhlelweni zokuzilibazisa ezivamile, izinkonzo zesonto, nezenzakalo zomphakathi? Ingabe kufanele abe yingxenye yezinhlelo eziguquguqukayo noma ezikhethekile? Kwezinye izimo, isinqumo siyokwenzela wena ngesisekelo sokuziphatha kwengane yakho namakhono. Kodwa ucabanga ukuthi ukukhetha kungenzeka, kuzoba ngokwakho. Akukho okulungile noma okungalungile uma kuziwa ekufakweni.
6. Izinkolelo Mayelana Ne-Autism Iphephile
Yini, ncamashi, i-autism? Ingabe ukukhubazeka noma amandla? Ingabe yindlela ehlukile yokucabanga nokubona izwe-noma ingabe iyisifo sokucabanga nombono? Impendulo yale mibuzo ixhomeke, ngokwengxenye, ebucayi bezimpawu ze-autistic kanye nefilosofi yomuntu ngamunye kanye nomndeni wabo.
Ngokusekelwe emizwa yakho-futhi, empeleni, imizwa yengane yakho-ungase uthande ukuyeka ukususwa kwemithi ethile noma ukhethe abanye. Ungakhetha izinhlobo ezithile zezikole ezisekelwe kwifilosofi yakho. Ungase uthathe isinqumo sokuchitha imali yakho hhayi ngemithi yokuziphatha kodwa kunomculo wezingoma, i-chess, noma i-gear ukuze ukwazi ukusekela izithakazelo nemandla yengane yakho kunokuba "uphathe" izinselele nezinkinga zakhe.
Funa Izeluleko bese Wenza Izinqumo Zakho
Odokotela, othisha, abahlinzeki, abeluleki nabaqondisi nabanye abazali banganikeza ulwazi olubalulekile nokuqondisa mayelana ne-autism. Amabhuku, amavidiyo, nezinkulumo zibalulekile futhi.
Ekugcineni, indlela ngayinye izoba eyingqayizivele. Kuzoqondiswa abazali kanye nabantu abenza izinto ezizenzekelayo, izinkolelo, izithakazelo, izintandokazi, amakhono, nezifiso kuzoba nendima ekwenzeni izinqumo. Futhi lokho kulungile. Ngoba yonke impilo ihlukile.