Abantu abaphila ngesifo esasongela impilo bavame ukuzwa imishwana evela kulabo abanakekeli njengalezi: "Masibe nethemba lokuhle," noma "Ungakhathazeki, konke kuzokwenza kahle." Ngaphandle kwamazwi yizinhloso ezinhle kakhulu. Sibona ubuhlungu obungokwengqondo othandekayo wethu obhekene nakho, futhi sifisa ukwehlisa. Siba ngabaqaphi, sikholelwa ukuthi ukuvuselela ithemba lomthandi wethu kuyasiza.
Emva kwakho konke, sibona ubuhlungu babo manje , futhi imicabango yesikhathi esizayo ibe yinto yesibili. Ngeshwa, ukunikeza usizo okusheshayo kungase kube okungenani kunenzuzo empilweni yesikhathi eside yengqondo yomuntu othandekayo. Nazi izizathu ezine zokuthi kungani ungafanele ube yi-cheerleader.
I-Cheerleading May ingabhubhisa ithemba
Umuntu ogcinwa udinga ukuthembela kumnakekeli wabo ngoba ubudlelwane buyingxenye yokuthembela. Lelo themba livela ezintweni eziningi kufaka phakathi izimemezelo ezinjengokuthi "ungakhathazeki, uzothola ngcono." Ukuthembela kuxhomeke ekuzimeni komuntu othandekayo ukuveza ukukhathazeka kwakhe nokubona iqiniso komnakekeli othembekile.
Umkami womuntu onomdlavuza wesisu obulalayo wamqinisekisa ukuthi uzowunqoba lesi sifo. Inkolelo yakhe emathuba akhe okusinda akuhlangene namaqiniso, ngoba i-oncologist yomyeni wakhe yayicacile ukuthi umdlavuza wawungelapheki. Njengowesifazane othembekile kakhulu, wayesekelwe ekukholweni kwakhe.
Umyeni wakhe, owayengenalo inkolo wayefuna ukumkholelwa. Wayenikeza insindiso; wayelindele ukufa.
Njengoba umdlavuza waqhubeka, kwacaca ukuthi amaqiniso ayengamacilongo. Umdlavuza wakhe waba mandla naphezu kwemithandazo eyashiwo ngumkakhe. Akukhona nje ukuthi intuthuko yomdlavuza icindezela umyeni, kodwa futhi iphakamisa izinkinga zokuthembana.
Uma bekungalungile ngesikhumbuzo sami, kuthiwani ngakho konke okunye okushoyo? Njengoba izifo ziqhubeka, izinqumo ezibaluleke kakhulu zibhekene nokukhetha okunjalo phakathi kwezivumelwano ezahlukene zokwelapha nokuthi ngabe ukwelashwa kufanele kuqhubeke yini.
Uma izitatimende zokubikezela zigcwaliseka, ukwethenjwa kuyakhuliswa. Kodwa kwenzekani uma izinto zingapheli njengoba zibikezelwe? Kwenzekani ebuhlotsheni uma isimo oqinisekisile ukuthi umyeni wakho sizozinza, akunjalo? Ukukhululeka ayekuzwa ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kunciphisa njengoba isimo sakhe sithuthuka. Ngeshwa, yini eyaqala njengesitatimende esihle ukwenza ukuthi azizwe ekhuphuka kakhulu, iphenduke isibonelo sokuba kungani igama lomnakekeli lingathembeki.
Okufanele ukwenze: Ithemba lakho lokuyeka noma ukuguqula isifo esibucayi kufanele lufaneleke. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokulindela isimangaliso. Kodwa-ke, kufanele uzigcinele lezo zicabango, uma kungekho esinye isizathu kunezingqinamba zokutakula kungenzeka kube isikhathi eside. Ububanzi balokho okushoyo othandekayo kufanele kube nokucabangela . Isibonelo, ungatshele othandekayo wakho ukuthi uzosinda emdlalweni wesigaba se-IV lapho izibalo zezokwelapha zithi ngeke. Kunalokho gxila kulokho azokwazi ukukwenza esikhathini esifushane (isb., Ukuvakashela izihlobo ngosuku olulandelayo).
Uma ungakwazi ukuthuthukisa ukuthembela kusenesikhathi, othandekayo wakho uyoba lula ukulalela iseluleko sakho lapho kunesidingo esinzima.
I-Cheerleading ingavimbela izingxoxo ezibalulekile
Sivame ukuzama ukugwema izingxoxo ezinzima . Ezinye zihilela izinkinga zokuphela kokuphila; ezinye zihilela ukuguqula indlela yokuphila ngenxa yemvelo eqhubekayo nokuqhubekayo yokugula. Abanakekeli bavame ukugwema izingxoxo ezinzima zokuthi lesi sifo sithinta kanjani othandekayo noma izinkinga zokuphela kokuphila. Ukuqinisekiswa ukuthi impilo yomuntu othandekayo izothuthukisa noma kunesikhathi esiningi sokuxoxa ngezihloko ezinzima kungenza okunye ngaphandle kokulungiselela umuntu ukuthi yini ezayo.
Kunezinto eziningi ekuphileni esifisa ukuzigwema, noma okungenani sihlehlise. Ukuphazanyiswa kobudlelwane noma isitayela sokuphila ngenxa yokugula kungaphezulu kwehlu, kuphela okuxoxwa yizingxoxo zokuphela kokuphila. Noma kunjalo, iminyaka yokulala ngendlala yokulala esibhedlela inikeze ukuba ngiqonde ukuthi lezi yizinkinga ezingase ziphazamise ukufa okunamandla. Ukuzama ukubhekana nezinkinga zokubonga, ukuzisola, ukuthethelelwa, kanye nefa eduze nokuphela kokuphila noma uma ukugula kuqhubeke kunzima. Kungcono ukubhekana nabo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Umyeni waqhubeka eveza ukukhathazeka lapho umkakhe owatholakala enesifo senhliziyo esiphuthumayo efuna ukukhuluma ngekusasa lakhe. Wayesazi kahle ukuthi lesi sifo sasiqhubeka futhi kungakapheli unyaka, ukusinda kwakhe kwakuyosongelwa. Ngokuphindaphindiwe waqala izingxoxo nomyeni wakhe mayelana nezindaba ezingaphendululwa zesikhathi esidlule, izinguquko zamanje endleleni yokuphila, nokuthi ikusasa lenzelwe bobabili. Wayeka njalo imizamo yakhe yokuxoxa ngalezi zinkinga ezinzima. "Angifuni ukukhuluma ngalokhu," esho. "Sinesikhathi esiningi sokuxoxa nabo." Wayengakholelwa ukuthi unesikhathi esiningi esisele, kodwa umcabango wokuphila ngaphandle kwakhe wawunzima kakhulu ukuthwala.
Ngeshwa, ukungafuni kwakhe ukubhekana nesimo sangempela kwanciphisa ithuba lomkakhe kanye naye ukuba aqale izingxoxo ezinzima ezingase zenze ukuthi ukufa kwakhe kufinyeleleke kalula. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuxilongwa kwakhe, isimo sakhe senhliziyo sagula ngokushesha. Njengoba isimo sakhe sasibucayi, kanjalo namandla akhe okuxhumana nomyeni wakhe njengoba ehlala ephelelwe amandla, futhi ukugxila ekubhekeni kwegazi kwakunzima.
Okufanele ukwenze : Ungalindi ukuxoxa ngezinto ezibalulekile, ngisho noma uqiniseka ukuthi othandekayo wakho uyosinda ekuguleni kwakhe. Kukhona inkulumo yamaBuddha, "Kusasa noma ukuphakade, asikwazi ukuthi ubani ozovela kuqala." Awudingi ukuxoxa konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Thatha isihloko esisodwa ngesikhathi. Ngokuqala ekuqaleni, kuzoba namathuba amaningi okuqeda ingxoxo.
I-Cheerleading Ngeke Isekele
Ukusekelwa akudingeki kube njalo ngesimo sethemba. Ngokuvamile, isenzo esisekela kakhulu singase samukele ukwamukelwa yilokho okuthandayo. Omunye iklayenti wangitshela ukuthi umcimbi omuhle kakhulu ohambweni lwakhe lwe-lupus kwaba ngumyeni wakhe nje ephethe isandla sakhe ngesikhathi esibuhlungu.
Sivame ukucabanga ukuthi kusekela ukunciphisa ukungathí sina kwesimo somzimba, ngisho nalapho amaqiniso ebonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ukuvuselela kuyinto encane. Ukucabanga ukuthi, "Ngiyazi ukuthi lesi sifo sibuhlungu kangakanani, kodwa uma ngingamnika ngisho nesikhathi esithile sokuphumula, kufanelekile ukungazinaki amaqiniso."
Uma unikeza ukusekelwa, cabanga ngezikhathi ezimbili ozimele: isikhathi esifushane nesikhathi eside. Yebo, kunenani eliphansi lesikhathi sokuthuthukisa ithemba lomuntu. Othandekayo ucindezelekile, futhi uzama ukumkhipha ngomcabango omuhle. Nakuba kungase kube isebenze isikhathi esifushane, ukucindezeleka okungenzeka uma uthanda umuntu uyaqaphela ukuthi ngeke aphucule, kungabhubhisa.
Okufanele ukwenze: Yisekela imigomo enengqondo. Gxila ekusekeleni lokho owaziyo uma kungenzeka. Isibonelo, ngokuhluleka kwenhliziyo ekhululekile, umqondo wokuqeqesha uhambo olulandelwayo olungenakusiza wenza umqondo, kepha lokho kwaba umgomo womnakekeli oyedwa engangiyeluleka. Futhi ngenkathi ekuqaleni evuselela othandekayo wakhe, wacindezeleka lapho umbuso wakhe wokuqeqesha uvinjelwa ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbili. Ukuzikhandla okwesikhashana okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe lapho ecabanga ukuthi angakwazi ukufaka isikhwama esikhwameni, wayegqoke ukucindezeleka isikhathi eside lapho eqaphela ukuthi umgomo awuzange ube nomqondo. Okubi nakakhulu, waba yisisulu sokuqonda komkakhe ngalokho ayekwazi ukukwenza. Gxila ezintweni ezinokuthi zenzeke, njengekhono lokuthutha ngaphandle kokuphuma emgqeni.
I-cheerleading ingaba yincithakalo
Umuntu othile wangibuza ukuthi yini ephila nomdlavuza iminyaka eyishumi nantathu ifana, engazi ukuthi ngabe lesi sifo sizohlala silawulwa yini. Ngathi, "Kufana nokuphonswa kwi-movie yama-1950 ye-horror movie lapho wazi khona izinto ezimbi, kodwa awukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzeka nini." Abantu abaningi abanezifo ezingapheli noma ezikhungathekile bacabanga imicabango ephindaphindiwe phakathi nalezo zikhathi ezinokuthula lapho ingqondo igcina lokho abaye bazame ukucindezela usuku lonke. Izobuya nini? Ingabe izoba nzima nakakhulu? Ngizolahlekelwa nini lezozinto engizithandayo?
Okuphakathi kwamaningi alawa mqondo ukukhona kokungazinzi. Izifo ezingapheli futhi ezinzima azizona izimo. Ziyaqhubeka futhi zingashintsha inhlalakahle yomzimba wakho ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Ukukhubazeka kuvame ukuyingxenye yezifo eziningi ezingapheli futhi ezinzima. Ukuhlala kancane kufana nokuhamba okugulayo.
I-Cheerleading eveza inkolelo yokuthi isimo sizinzile sibeka ithemba lamanga ngothandekayo wakho. Ucela ukuthi akholelwe ukuthi konke kuzobuyela emuva "ngisho nakanjani" noma okungenani hhayi inqubekela phambili. Noma kunjalo, siyazi ukuthi ezimweni eziningi, ukuzinza akuvamile. Kubalulekile ukuqinisa umqondo wokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi konke okusele kwesimo se-status kuncane.
Indoda enomdlavuza wamaphaphu yayinzima ukwamukela izinguquko eziqhubekayo emandleni akhe njengoba umdlavuza waqhubeka. Ukuphila kwakhe kwaba uchungechunge lwezenzakalo eziphazamisayo. Ngaphambi kokugula, wayezohlangana nabangani bakhe njalo ngekhofi njalo ekuseni. Manje, ezinsukwini ezithile, wayengenawo amandla okushayela imoto yakhe endaweni yokudlela. Ngisho nokwenza amalungiselelo okuya emaphathini kwakuyi-crapshoot. Umkakhe wayelokhu emqinisekisa ukuthi izinto zizoshintsha, uma isimo sakhe "sizinzile." Yayiyindlela yakhe yokumqinisekisa ukuthi ukuphila kuzobuyela esimweni esijwayelekile. Uma kungakaze kwenzeke.
Okufanele Ukwenze: Ukuzinza yisimo esingavamile esinezifo ezinzima kakhulu nezihlala njalo. Ngisho noma isimo somzimba omthandayo sizinzile, isimo sakhe somzwelo sihlala sithinteka ukulahlekelwa kakade. Esikhundleni sokuzenza sengathi ubuyisele esimweni esizinzile, lungiselela othandekayo wakho ukuthi abhekane nokungahlali kahle kwesifo esiyinkimbinkimbi kuya kwezifo eziningi ezinzima nezihlala njalo.
Izwi elivela
Sonke sifuna okuhle kubathandekayo bethu, ngisho nalapho imigomo ingase ingakwazi ukufezeka. Imicabango yethu ivame ukugxila ezintweni ezincane zemiqondo yalokho esikwenzayo futhi singazinaki imiphumela yesikhathi eside. Ukusekela kufanele kugxile emiphumeleni yesikhathi esifushane nesikhathi eside. Izinkolelo akufanele neze zishaye indiva iqiniso.