Ukuhlela Ukuvakashela I-Clinic yakho ye-Oncology

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Ukuhlela Ukuvakashela I-Clinic yakho ye-Oncology
Lungiselela ngaphambi kokuqokwa kwakho kwe-oncology. istockphoto.com

Kungase kuzwakale kulula, kodwa kuyamangaza ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kwe-oncology kaningi kangakanani kuncishisiwe ngoba i-oncologist ayinayo imininingwane eyanele yokuxoxa kahle ngokukhetha kwakho. Ukuze ugweme ukulibaziseka kwenhliziyo, zama ukuletha yonke imininingwane i-oncologist yakho ezoyidinga ukuhlola kangcono isimo sakho futhi wenze izincomo.

Yini okudingeka uyilethe?

Hlola lesi sihloko kulokho okufanele ulethe ukuvakashelwa kwezempilo ngemdlavuza .

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Letha Umuntu Omunye Naye
Ngabe omunye uhamba nawe ekuvakaseleni kwakho emtholampilo. istockphoto.com

Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani kungumqondo omuhle ukuletha umngane noma ilungu lomndeni nawe ekuqokeni kwakho kwe-oncology.

Esinye sezizathu nje ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo umngane wakho angakunikela Ngesinye sezimo ezinkulu zesifo seziguli zomdlavuza ubhekene nohambo lwabo yedwa. Izindaba ezinzima zingase zibe lula ukugwinya lapho ungabelana naye othandekayo. Futhi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, izindaba ezinhle ukuthi kungcono kakhulu uma ungabelana nabanye.

Esinye isizathu sokuletha umngane ukuletha elinye izwi . Umngane wakho angase acabange ngemibuzo yokubuza ukuthi awuzange ucabange (kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi uzoqhubeka) futhi angakusiza ngokubuza imibuzo enzima ongazithemba ukuyibuza.

Isizathu esithile sokuthi omunye umuntu ahambe nawe ukuletha esinye isethi sezindlebe . Ukuvakashelwa nge-oncologist yakho kuvame ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, futhi kulula ukukhohlwa izingqinamba ezibalulekile zolwazi. Ukuletha umngani ukuba alalele - futhi ngokuqinisekile, uthathe amanothi kanye - kuyindlela eyodwa yokuqinisekisa ukuthi awugcini nje ukubuza imibuzo ofuna ukuyibuza kodwa khumbula izimpendulo.

Umngane naye angaba ngummeli wakho . Sonke sifuna ukuba oncologists sithande, futhi abantu abaningi banqika ukucela ukucaciswa okuphindaphindiwe kwezindaba esiziqondi kahle ukuze singaba "neziguli ezinenkinga." Ukuba nomngane wakho kukuvumela ukuba ube "isiguli" esihle, ngenkathi ulungisa izinkinga ongase uzikhulele wena.

Uma uzizwa ungenqikazi ngokuphazamisa isimiso somngane wakho ngokumcela ukuba eze nawe ukuvakashelwa, cabanga futhi. Abangane abafuna ukusiza futhi babe nomngane onomdlavuza bangabashiya bazizwe bengenalutho. Ngibheka emuva ngothando ngezikhathi zami zamakhemikhali. Ngiletha umngane ohlukile ngesikhathi ngasinye (kwakudinga ukuhamba okuthile) futhi ngibheka njengethuba lokukhulisa ubungane bethu. Abangane abambalwa bangitshele ukuthi bangaphuthelwa ngalezo zinsuku, kanye nethuba lokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye ngaphandle kweziphazamiso (ngaphandle kwe-chemotherapy, okungukuthi) futhi ukusondelana okwakusungulwa njengezingqinamba ezingxoxweni ezijulile kususwe ukucindezeleka kokuxilongwa komdlavuza.

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Letha uhlu lwemibuzo
Lungisa uhlu lwemibuzo kumdokotela wakho. istockphoto.com

Lungisa uhlu lwemibuzo oyifisa ukuyibuza ngesikhathi sakho sokuqokwa. Ungase ucabange ukuthi uzokhumbuza imibuzo yakho, kodwa uma ufana nabantu abaningi, ngisho nemibono ekhudlwana ingakhohlwa njengoba ukhuluma ne-oncologist yakho.

Kungaba usizo ukugcina inothi ngesandla, futhi uma kuphakama imibuzo phakathi kokuvakashelwa, bhala phansi ukuze uvakashele ngokulandelayo.

Ngizwile abanye abantu bathi bacabanga ukuthi udokotela wabo uzobe "ekhishwe" ngokuza nohlu lwemibuzo, kodwa akunjalo. Ama-oncologists abamukela imibuzo. Bayakwazisa isikhathi abantu ababeka kuzo ekulungiseleleni imibuzo, futhi kuyindlela yokuqinisekisa ukuthi ikhuluma ngokukhathazeka kwakho okukhulu.

Uma unenkinga yokucabanga ngemibuzo, nansi eminye imibuzo yokubuza udokotela wakho ngomdlavuza wamaphaphu .

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Yiba nesineke futhi unomusa
Ukuba nesineke ehhovisi le-oncologist. istockphoto.com

Incazelo eyodwa yezingxabano ukuziphatha okungaqondakali - futhi ukuphi ukuziphatha okubonakala kakhulu kunomtholampilo we-oncology? Ngokuqinisekile, ungase uzizwe ukhathazekile - ngokuba ukwethuka lapho ungena ekuqokweni komdlavuza kuvamile, kodwa khumbula ukuthi awodwa. Abanye abantu egumbini lokulinda - abanye, abangeke babe nesiguli njengoba nawe - nabo besaba. Futhi nakuba abasamukelayo kanye nabahlengikazi bezama ukuzithula ngesiphepho, bangabantu kuphela. Uma uzizwa unesineke, gcina le ncaphuno engqondweni:

"Yiba nomusa, ngoba wonke umuntu ohlangana naye ulwa empini ongazi lutho." - Wendy Mass, The Candymakers

Ngokuqondene nokwakho ukunakekelwa, ukuveza ohlangothini lwakho lwesineke nolomusa lungase luhambe ngendlela ende. I-adage yakudala, "Uthola izimpukane eziningi uju kunokuviniga," kuqinisile emtholampilo we-oncology noma kuphi. Ungase ucabange nokuthi - ukuzwa ukwesekwa okulile - udokotela wakho angase afise ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nawe.

Ukuba nesineke nomusa akusho ukuthi ube umnyango. Akusho ukungabi nokuqiniseka noma ukwehluleka ukuba ngummeli wakho. Hlola lawa macebiso ngokuba ngummeli wakho njengomgulane wesifo somdlavuza .

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Shiya Ukuvakashelwa Ngenqubo
Shiya ukuqokwa kwakho ngecebo. istockphoto.com

Ngaphambi kokuba ushiye i-ofisi yakho kadokotela, hlola ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi unesicwangciso. Cabanga ngale mibuzo:

Imithombo:

I-American Society of Clinical Oncology. I-Cancer.Net. Imibuzo Yokubuza Ithimba Lakho Lokunakekelwa Kwezempilo. Kubuyekezwe i-03/2016. http://www.cancer.net/navigating-cancer-care/diagnosing-cancer/questions-ask-your-health-care-team