Ekuguleni naseMpilo
"Mina, Sally, ngikuthatha, uFred, ukuba ube ngumyeni wami oshade ngokomthetho, ukuba ngibambe futhi ngibambe, kusukela kulolu suku phambili, kube ngcono, nakakhulu nakakhulu, ngokuba ocebile, ompofu, ekuguleni nasempilweni, kuze kube sekufeni ingxenye. "
Kwabaningi, lezo zifungo ezathatha eminyakeni engama-50 eyedlule zihamba phambili ezingqondweni zabo uma ziqaphela indlela yokunakekela abashade nabo noma umlingani nesifo se-Alzheimer's .
Kodwa ngokuvamile, akuyona umsebenzi olula. Ukunakekela oshade naye noma umlingani no-Alzheimer noma olunye uhlobo lomqondo owohloka komqondo kungase kuvele kusuka ebuntwaneni obuncane emgwaqeni ezinyathelweni zokuqala ukuya enselele enkulu phakathi nezinyathelo ezilandelayo.
Indlela I-Dementia Inselele Ngayo Umshado
Lapho isifo se-Alzheimer siveza, izindima ziqala ukushintsha. Okungenzeka ukuthi ubuhlobo nobungane besikhathi eside bungabonakala njengengxenye yomzali nengane. Omunye umlingani uba nomthwalo womunye, ekhathazeka uma ephuzile noma elahlekile endleleni eya ekhaya.
Eminye ubudlelwane, umuntu onomqondo owohloka komqondo wamukela ukuqondiswa komlingani wakhe futhi uyazithoba ngokuzithandela kuye ukuze athole isiqondiso. Kwabanye, ukufutheka nentukuthelo kuthuthukisa ngoba "umtshela ukuthi kufanele akwenze" sonke isikhathi.
Ukusondelana kungashintsha futhi lapho ukushada komqondo kushayisana nomshado, ushiye umnakekeli womngane angaqiniseki ukuthi yini efanele futhi inenzuzo kubo bobabili.
Kungaba nezinselele ezibandakanya ukunyuka noma ukunciphisa intshisekelo ekusebenzisaneni ngokocansi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ukuziphatha okungalungile kukhula .
I-Dementia nayo ingabangela imibuzo ethile yokuziphatha mayelana nokuthi kufanelekile yini abantu abane-dementia ukuba babe nobulili. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ebuhlotsheni obusungulwe, iphuzu lapho umuntu olahlekelwa inkumbulo elahlekelwa ikhono lokuvuma ukuxhumana ngokocansi ngokuvamile kunzima ukunquma.
Kodwa-ke, labo abathintekayo ngezimiso zokuziphatha bafuna nokuvikela amalungelo omuntu ocansini isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka ngoba lokhu kungabangela ubuhlobo obuhle futhi bujabulisayo nomlingani wabo.
Kukhona nemiphumela engokwenyama yokuba ngumnakekeli womuntu onesifo sengqondo sokugula komzimba , futhi leyo miphumela emishadweni igcizelelwe ngokuqondile kwi-Alzheimer's's disease 2014 Report and Facts.
Ngezinye izikhathi, izici ezinzima kunazo zonke zokunakekela umlingani onokuhlupha komqondo yizinguquko zobuntu kanye nokuziphatha okuyinselele okungafika nalesi sifo. Othandekayo wakho angase akugxeke ngokungazelelwe ngokungathembeki ngaphandle kwesizathu noma abe nolaka futhi ahlasele lapho uzama ukusiza.
Amathiphu okuphumelela
Khumbula: yiSifo
Enye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokubhekana nalezi zinselelo ukuzikhumbuza njalo ukuthi lezozinto ezinzima ziyisifo esizibonakalisa, hhayi oshade naye. Lezo zimpendulo ezihlabayo manje ezenzayo manje ziba yingozi kakhulu ngoba uyazi ukuthi zivela ekudemeni kwakhe komqondo, hhayi inhliziyo yakhe.
Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi ukuhleka kungasiza inhliziyo, ingqondo nomzimba. Sebenzisa njalo. Ngokusobala, awuhleki ukuhleka komuntu obathandayo nge-dementia; Kunalokho, ungase uhleke ndawonye ngezinto ezihlekisayo ezenzekayo.
Noma, ungasebenzisa ibinzana elijwayele noma ihlaya elabiwe ngaphambilini ukuze unciphise ukucindezeleka. Abanakekelayo bangazuza futhi ngokuhleka kokuhleka nomngane omuhle. Nakuba kungaba nzima ukuhlela ukuhlangana nomuntu ukuze uthole ikhofi yokuxoxa, wena nomthande wakho bazozuza kokubili uma uphuma kanyekanye.
Qhubeka Ukuzama Ukubudlelana Okuhle
Ngezinye izikhathi, yizinto ezincane. Ngenkathi uzodinga ukwamukela ukuthi izinto ziyashintsha, ungase ukwazi ukudala izikhathi ngosuku okhulisa ngayo umshado wakho. Bamba isandla sakhe, winkinga kuye ngaphesheya kwekamelo, noma wabelane ndawonye nge-milkshake ndawonye.
Mnike ukumanga futhi umtshele ukuthi uhle. Uma kunzima kakhulu ukuphuma endaweni yokudlela oyintandokazi ngosuku lwakho lokugubha usuku, mhlawumbe ungakuletha.
Ungahambi Kodwa
Ungase ube namandla, uhlakaniphile nomlingani omangalisayo, kodwa akekho okusho ukuthi kufanele wenze lokhu kuphela. Cabanga ngemithombo yomsebenzi emphakathini wakho njengama- ejensi wokunakekelwa kwezempilo ekhaya , amaqembu okusekela kwendawo noma e-inthanethi angakhuthaza wena, amalungu omndeni angakwazi ukukunika ikhefu kanyekanye, nabangane ababuza ukuthi bangakwazi kanjani usizo (hint- ukuthatha them on izipesheli zabo!).
Ukwazi ukuthi uzothola nini lapho ukhathalela kubalulekile wena nomlingani wakho.
Izwi kusuka
Kuyinto evamile kakhulu, futhi kulindeleke, ukuze umbhangqwana uphonse inselelo yizinguquko ezibangelwa ukushada komqondo emndenini. Ukwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela futhi uzimisele ngokuziphendulela ngendlela ongayenza ngayo kunganciphisa lolu shintsho ngandlela-thile. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi kukhona ukusekelwa okutholakala nonke nge-ejensi yomphakathi namaqembu e-intanethi. Leso sikhuthazo singakusiza ukuba uthathe umoya ojulile futhi ugcwalise ibhange lakho lokubekezela ngokomzwelo ukuze uqhubeke uthanda futhi uhlonipha oshade naye, naphezu kwalezi zinselele.
Imithombo:
I-Alzheimer's Association. 2104 Izifo ze-Alzheimer's Facts and Figures. http://alz.org/downloads/Facts_Figures_2014.pdf
I-Alzheimer's South Africa. Ubudlelwane. http://www.alzheimers.org.za/index.php/ubambiswano